Ok...i went out with this guy quite awhile ago, well actually we were engaged. Anyway we lost touch...and i recently found out he is married and has 2 kids (i'm completly happy for him, it is not one of those things)...well here is the wierd part...his kids are named the names that we had picked out together when we were planning our family. Is that a little odd...I was going to try to get in touch with him but now i don't know if it such a good idea. I mean am i reading more in to this...What do you think?
2006-12-16 15:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by sweetokiemomma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok... i am not looking to be a "home breaker"...I have a family and my own kids...the only reason i was thinking of getting in touch with him was just a hope your doing well, friendly thing. As adults with families knowing each other as friends (spouses included).
2006-12-16 15:31:28 · update #1
Don't contact him, he's married & has two kids. Obviously he just really liked the names you all picked out, and apparently his wife did, too.
2006-12-16 15:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by tiny_tim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if he liked the names...i'm not surprised by that. It doesn'thurt to get in touch with him and be friends if his wife is alright with it. I think you are reading more into it. Sometimes when people have kids they are so busy to contact friends on a regular basis. Be happy he has moved on and not a psycho. Good Luck.
2006-12-16 15:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're reading too much into this! obviously he liked the names as much as you did, and so did his wife!. anyways he's spoken for now, has a wife and kids to be responsible for and committed to. there's nothing wrong in giving him a call and saying hi, congrats - how are you doing, i wish you well kinda thing - but if you're starting to wish for what "might have been", then stay away from him and don't be a home breaker. remember you broke up for a reason - move on.
2006-12-16 15:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is married. Hello! He could have married you but for some reason you two didn't marry. Leave him alone. You are causing problems for yourself if you do not. And besides being married - he also has children! Leave this man alone and move on with your life. Obviously he has gotten on with his life, you need to do the same. (Sorry if I sound a bit harsh.)
2006-12-16 15:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why does it matter what he named his kids? Why bother "getting in touch with him"? ...to do what? Yell at him for taking those names? Forget it. It's over and you should move on. Name your kids those names too if that will make you feel better.
2006-12-16 15:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by nachosmyman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't read too much into this. Maybe he really liked the names you picked and might not have anything to do with you. Don't stop yourself over this. They're just names.
2006-12-16 15:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Miss T 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it. Probably he simply liked those names and kept them in mind for his kids. It sounds like he has nice memories of his time with you and has moved on, as you have....
2006-12-16 15:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might have just really liked the names you two picked earlier. This doesn't necesarily mean anything. Just try and forget about it and move on.
2006-12-16 15:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you don't really expect a relationship then I think would be alright to call him just to say "hi" and "how are you?" and keep things casual. I think it really depends on how long ago you two broke up.
2006-12-16 15:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by purringout 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU ARE MAKING TO MUCH OUT OF THIS, IF YOU
WANT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM THEN GO AHEAD,
IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR EVERYONE.
2006-12-16 15:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋