This guy that i have only known for a week asked me out.
And I wasn't thinking along those lines. So I said no.
But my friend says I'm to picky and that I should have just gone for it. But she dates anyone that gives her the time of day.
2006-12-16 15:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by Doodles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta be picky cause you don't want to fall for a loser. Then again you just never know when things might click with someone you wouldn't suspect. So weed out the losers, but give guys who may not be exactly your type a try.
2006-12-16 15:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He had feeling that were probably hurt by this,you're the reason guys don't ask girls out,we(guys) wait for the girls to make the first move,you must redeem yourself and try one date with him,if you don't like it or think hes cheesy after this date than go from there,but give it at least on try....
2006-12-16 23:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. You need to know the person before you an date. Atleast a little bit. Don't worry. You're just cautious...not picky.
2006-12-16 23:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually the first impulse is right. Maybe your thoughts will change along with a right time.
2006-12-16 23:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower your standards for anyone. It may take you longer to find what you want, but in many cases waiting can be worth it. Stick to your gunz.
2006-12-16 23:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, i think u were right.... u don't go out with anyone who asks u out after a week.. just get to know him more and if he suits ur kind... and the time is ripe.. u may "Yes" i'm sure.... :-)
2006-12-16 23:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah i believe you done the right thing. But if you think that you might want to go out with him in the future then i would get to know him "become friends" with him then go from there. that way you know him and he knows you.
2006-12-16 23:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with being a little picky, never settle
for second best
2006-12-16 23:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you didn't mean to be blunt, you want to get to know him as a friend first, and then you'll let him know when you are ready to move on.
2006-12-16 23:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne Taylor 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's right if you feel it's right. Seriously there is no right and wrong to this situation. If you didn't like this guy like that then you shouldn't have led him on by dating him. good luck
2006-12-16 23:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋