Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

It's his final week and he's real busy. So he just turned off his phone and didn't talk to me for 2 days. I was a little mad especially after knowing he went to a party that night. When i confronted him about this, his explanation is he went to that party at 3 am he figured i would be sleeping. And that he didn't forget about me, he just didn't call me because he's busy. But couldn't he have called me saying he's real busy we are not gonna talk long or something like that. He had to play this all of a sudden disappering game. Especially i asked a friend of his to tell him to call me, he knew i was expecting it yet he still didnt call saying it was too late i would be sleeping. So is this "i dont forget about you when i am busy, i just dont call" thing a believable excuse?

2006-12-14 14:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for a while and alot of guys try and hit on me when we are out together i know it annoys my boyfriend but i cant stop them what should i do?

2006-12-14 14:25:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

sleep with THREE guys before marriage, and then get married? I mean it seems like the point of being married a virgin then is kind of lost if a guy can have 4 wives...how is that "special" to anyone? And why the double standard?

2006-12-14 14:25:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a wedding in a couple of months and already had a tasting with my caterer for my wedding menu. We customized our menu entrees by asking for two entrees we've seen in other places, but we did not provide them with recipes.

We picked out most of our hors d'oeuvres, salads, etc but the taste of the entrees was a little off. We asked about the ingredients and mentioned that the entrees were good but had a little bitterness that is not normal for the dishes. I think they added some unnecessary ingredients and omitted some ingredients that would have made it better.

Is it ok to email them some suggestions/recipes and ask them for another tasting for just the entrees?

2006-12-14 14:24:28 · 5 answers · asked by melokia 2 in Weddings

Delete my friend Danielle off my friend's list on MySpace I have reasons for asking here they r:

1. when I left my cell phone @ hr house on accident she did somethingto it that made it to where I cant make or recive calls, test mes, and pic mess, it wont show the time now, i cant take pictures with it.

2. She ie being a ***** to me and my friends

3. whjen Ia sk her nicly to tell me wuts buggin her she ingores me

4. shes beeen avioding me for some reason

2006-12-14 14:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Li 3 in Friends

My exboyfriend never hit me...he'd grab me by the hair, punch the wall/bed next to my head, grab me and shake me. He always made me feel as if I had to have sex with him. He'd buy me sex outfits and tell me to wear them. When I didn't, he'd put me on a guilt trip and tell me I didn't love him. He never hit me though...

2006-12-14 14:24:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 14:23:55 · 32 answers · asked by mj21 1 in Friends

Every time I walk by her in the halls she winnies, and calls me sassy pony. She told me she wants to take me to the track and ride me hard. Does she like me or something?

2006-12-14 14:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

When I was a kid, I remember a guy who thought a myth was a female moth and a brothel was a thick soup.

Have you come across any other similar things that kids say?

2006-12-14 14:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by footynutguy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 14:23:01 · 8 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy a lot and im not sure if he likes me. he sometimes looks at me, and all the time it looks like he is using preferral vision or whatever its called. also when i walk by him he kinda stares at me. one time, he smiled at me. the problem is though that hes in the grade ontop of mine and were not in any of each others classes. also im only a bit popular, and hes actually popular. do you think he likes me?? lol probably not..

2006-12-14 14:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Singles & Dating

So... i have a crush on two different boys and I dont know which one is more worth it.

1. I'm a sophomore in highschool and i sort of have a crush on a freshman but he is only 3 weeks younger than me. hes cute and nice and seems to be "interested" in me but hes a little immature like all boys. i dont know him well but could get to know im better

2. the other boy is also reallly cute and i've been friends with him for a few years. not really good friends but we've always been friendly and whatnot. he's a junior and we talk and when hes with me and not this other g irl he flirts with me. hes going with a this g irl who is a senior to prom but she has a boyfriend all ready thats in college so she doenst seem like much of a threat.

which wone should i take a chance on?

2006-12-14 14:22:48 · 3 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the story.(I'm only 13 and...)My sister just had a baby and i wanted her to keep it.(But she gave it away).I've told her i really wanted a niece and that if she really did give it away i wouldnt talk to her, but i guess she really didn't care. And on top of that my brother just died.He got killed by a tree which fell on him during a storm.

2006-12-14 14:22:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm passed my high school and now entering college, so I want this place to be for all the kids out there who are dragged down by their peers and made to feel socially inferior. Let's give these kids some good advice.

2006-12-14 14:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-14 14:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by Luis R 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a mid section guy.....stomach, lower back, and butt.

2006-12-14 14:21:39 · 23 answers · asked by Ollie B 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my best guy friend for about two months, and we still act like we never started dating. We haven't kissed or anything. What's supposed to change when you start dating your best friend?

2006-12-14 14:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by Drop of Golden Sun 3 in Singles & Dating

I do everything for my wife and kids!Cook half the cleaning and any little favor she wants.the problem is she started a new job and is never home , it has caused alot of conflict and when I tell her we need to work out this issue all she can say is ............she has no control of the situation and I am not gonna quit my job!I never asked her to quit her job just to work around it.She does'nt call me that often and when I need help with the kids she refuses.We have only been married for 4 months and everything is going downhill.i get no respect and our love life has faded away.
I tiold her we should go to a marrage counsler but she figures we don't need to.I have since left her to see if that would open her eyes but she still insist on her job.I try to support her job but I can only take so much.

Any advice would be great

2006-12-14 14:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by corydaletoner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl, and she is in my class, only one, and i have never had a conversation with her, but I really like her, and want to get to know her, but she is kinda stuck in a group of friends and never really talks to anyone out side of that small group in the class, and i dont want to just come out of no where and start talking to her, that would be wierd to her and her friends. I am so confused, i cant tell if she likes me or what, she looks at me a lot, but never talks to me... I think she may be a tad shy...

2006-12-14 14:20:08 · 7 answers · asked by helix 1 in Singles & Dating

-we've been going out for almost 3 years and are really serious and plan are moving in together soon! and love each other very much.
-however the fact that she had any past sexual exp. bothers me. shes only had sex 4 times(not including myself) 3partners (and never for more than a few min b/c she always stopped it. only oral with only one person. She has also been 100% faithful to me the entire time, i dont even think she has guy friends. that is it for her past.
-and i know that doesn't make her even close to a slut but i still cant get past it!
-i feel even more like an *** because my number is in the teens and ive messed around with alot more.
-yet i still cant get past this(this being the only negative thing in our otherwise great relationship).
-So please give me some good advice/yell at me, whatever.
-and i know im an idiot, selfish, immature, etc for even thinking these thoughts; but that still doesnt change the fact that it constantly bothers me
PLEASE HELP THANKS

2006-12-14 14:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by enrobriaffej1984 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 14:19:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says i'm too jealous and that he does not know her very well even though they met at work a couple of months ago he says they never saw each other outside work before that trip

2006-12-14 14:19:07 · 14 answers · asked by morena c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was CAUSING YOU A LOT OF STRESS AND YOU HAD KIDS TO SUPPORT...so you felt he/she would be better off in a caring home..PLUS YOU ARE LOSING YOUR HOME BECAUSE OF THE ACCIDENT THAT you did not cause??? some people say NO, but they have not WALKED IN MY FRIEND'S SHOES...i feel because i HAVE SEEN it, it is fine..i feel it is a lot better reason than just "we could not get along", or "i found out she/he was different than what i had thought"...or "it was mutal"...or he was a drug addict"...DON'T YOU THINK IT IS OK??? her and the kids DESERVE A LIFE>>> i am sorry about his being cut short..i really am...

2006-12-14 14:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

was dating this guy on off for about a year now. I finally saw his true colors last Saturday when I took him to my company's holiday party. We'll he totally disrespected me. He was eyeballing co-workers. I was like damn I got to go to work Monday and be apart of some gossip. Also, he was very rude to me. Very rude to me. Anyway, my my friend told me the next day that he told her fiance that we were just friends and I was trying to make him be like something that he's not and he pointed out one of my co-workers that he would have talked to if we weren't together. So I hung up his phone and went to his apartment. He opened up the door and said what the phuck do you want? I tried to push the door open and he slammed the door and called the police.

He told me that he was going to show my mofo @ss and that I was tripping on him all night. So the policer officer gave me a trespassing warning. People been telling me to change my # because he's not right in the head,. I don’t think he'll

2006-12-14 14:17:35 · 3 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My man is a pain in the rear. He is always trying to go with me everywhere, he has no friends, he doesn't want me to have any, he complains about me being on the phone, he complains when I go to school (College), he gets mad when I go some where. First of all I have no job, he complains about me getting one. He calls me all types of names when I don't do everything that he wants me to do. I am fed up. I feel like I can't breathe.Do you think that there is somethin g wrong with this man? Do you think that he is taking this control thing alittle bit over board? I am sick and I am tired.

2006-12-14 14:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by lhpretty 2 in Singles & Dating

I Live in NY and called my Stepmother in Cali. Only to find out that our family is in turmoil. She stated that one of my nephews (age16 or 17) was accused by another nephew (5 years old) of being innaproprite. This only came after a doctors vist confirmed the 5 year old might be telling the truth. When confronted the older boy denied it and his mother and father refused to press the issue.
This is all the info I was given. It was not enough to know if the police have been called. Should I call just to be on the safe side? Or should I leave it up to them. ( I don't have contact with either step sister ( the mothers of the nephews)). Should I also cancel my plans to visit if i do call? I would like to add that there is EXTENSIVE sexual abuse with in my family ( hince why I live in NY) and my step sisters will never contact the authorities.

2006-12-14 14:16:19 · 32 answers · asked by foxie_ladie00 1 in Family

I am pregnant... The man Im pregnant by is super bossy with MY 8 year old daughter..... He means well, but my daughter hates him ! He hasn't spanked her, but speaks a little rough with her at times if she dont mind him...... Her real dad signed off on her, and I dont want to raise another child alone..........What would you do in a case like this ? Kick him to the curb ? What can I say w/out causing a big stink ? Any advise ?

2006-12-14 14:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by Missy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

so im a senior in high school, and theres this girl that i used to know when we were real young and i started talking to her back in august and ive gone out with her 2 times but it was with her friends too, sometimes ill call her, she wont answer and i wont talk to her for a week and then she'll message me out of the blue asking me "what im doing tonight" , and then ill message her back and we might hang out or we might not, and i cant figure out if she likes me or just wants to be friends, what should I do? please help me

2006-12-14 14:15:29 · 3 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 14:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by sillyme24 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and have been with my husband since 14. we broke up one year out of that, cause he was with my best friend. I forgave him but didnt forget. I have grown since then as well as him, but all we do is fight. It even got so bad he went to jail for spousal abuse. But i forgave him. now we fight about money,not seeing each other, and little petty stuff.also, i feel like he is not affectionate with me. He tells me to loose 10 pounds i loose 25 yet he still doenst seem to care he never compliments me and when i try to talk to him about it he rolls his eyes and says "i tell you, you have a nice *** dont I". I thought i loved him but the older i get i feel as if i am growing away and out of love. We've put the problems out on the table to work on. but is seems like nothing is changing. and now all i want is to leave . But we have two kids together. Im scared and just want him to love me more but he gets frustrated when i try to bring it up. ALL WE DO IS FIGHT? SHOULD I LEAVE? STAY?

2006-12-14 14:14:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce