okay my boyfriend wants me to do new things I'm just really shy when it comes to sex what should i do?

Answer 1

If he really loves you, he won't force you to do anything you don't want to do.

Answer 2

Tell him you're not comfortable. If you do it anyway and you're not comfortable then that's no fun. Or ask yourself what about this makes me shy or uncomfortable. There might be a way to overcome being shy. For instance, I tried "something" for the first time once and I wouldn't do it unless it was dark or pitch black. It's okay being "open" to new things, hey you might like it. But if you still can't get yourself to the point you feel okay about it then don't force it...its okay to wait. And if you boyfriend doesn't understand that then put him in the hot seat, tell him to do it, and see how he feels. If he's still trying to force it to happen then DROP HIM LIKE A BAD HABIT because if he cares about you or your feelings he would wait too....

Answer 3

Take it slow and try a few new things!! Who knows you may like it!! If not, then you know not to do it next time!! Don't let him push you into stuff that you feel is demeaning though!! Boys tend to throw crazy stuff back in your face!!!! Have fun and don't be too shy!! You may miss out on a good time!!

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel. If you would like to try, but are a little affraid, let him know. If he holds it against you maybe he's not for you. If he really cares about you then he would want to make sure you are most comfortable before him. A true lover looks for his parners need before his own. I always makes sure that my wife is comfortable with everything we do- she even comes up with ideas on her own!

Answer 5

Don't do anything you feel pressured into. Maybe with a little more time and positive persuasion you will warm up to being more adventurous in bed. Or maybe you're just not the "freaky" type, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Answer 6

Just do what you feel comfortable doing. Be honest with your boyfriend and ask him to go slow. Tell him to teach you, that in itself can be great sex. As you get closer to him you'll feel more at ease. Good luck.

Answer 7

Go for it, just don't take pictures of it, you never know when they will resurface. Other than that, try everything, you only live once, and if there are things that make you feel good you should just enjoy.

Answer 8

take his Dick and while giving him a BJ smack yourself in the face and tell him how hard and/or how big it is (even if its small) then remember use you hand just as much as your mouth. Tell him you want to taste his *** and that you want to swallow it and all kind of stuff you really dont want to do...When he cums let it shoot in your mouth and after the second shot of it take it out and let him finish on your lips...then put his dick back in your mouth and suck it with the *** still in your mouth and jack him off with the *** as lub...Man i am gonna get my G/F to read this and hope she get an ideal for tonight....(crossing finger)

Answer 9

well first of all you should feel comfortable. If you have been together a while that shouldn't be too difficult, if you haven't than you may not be able to do everything he asks of you. He has to understand though if your not ready your not ready and should be able to wait until you are.

Answer 10

i cant tell you what to do, cos thats up to you and him. might be jsut new positions or toys, who knows what he has in mind. what i can help you with is actually doin it. you have to totally comfortable with him before you even attempt anything new, otherwise you wont enjoy it. have you seen american pie 2? check that out and what michelle says to jim when she puts the trumpet up his ar$e. sounds stupid i know, but she has a good point.

Answer 11

Sex makes things more complicated in life... not better. You're right to shy away from it.