It's his final week and he's real busy. So he just turned off his phone and didn't talk to me for 2 days. I was a little mad especially after knowing he went to a party that night. When i confronted him about this, his explanation is he went to that party at 3 am he figured i would be sleeping. And that he didn't forget about me, he just didn't call me because he's busy. But couldn't he have called me saying he's real busy we are not gonna talk long or something like that. He had to play this all of a sudden disappering game. Especially i asked a friend of his to tell him to call me, he knew i was expecting it yet he still didnt call saying it was too late i would be sleeping. So is this "i dont forget about you when i am busy, i just dont call" thing a believable excuse?
2006-12-14 14:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha sounds like my boyfriend. yeah i started crying this week cuz he was pretty much ignoring me (final week is a *****). anyways you gotta try to understand how stressful it is....and guys are stupid. they NEVER realize that they can call or email or text reallky quick just to say hi. i think its just in their nature. See how things go when finals are over...talk to him and tell him it really hurt your feelings that he didnt even call just to check in.
Thats what i did and my guy felt bad and said he was sorry and he was thinkin about me and he couldnt wait to see me.
its hard being apart but you can do it. just be patient, understandable and keep the communication going
2006-12-14 14:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not a believable excuse. You have the right to get mad at him and you should grill him for it. If he was able to go to a party, then he was able to text you (if he felt that calling might "wake you up") to let you know that he's your boyfriend. I never let things like that slide between me and my boyfriend. What I tell him even if he's really busy is that little things count and it takes less than 5 minutes to make a phone call to show you care. What he did totally sucked and is not fair.
And no one is studying for finals every minute of the day!
2006-12-14 14:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by see_detachment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I'm stressed and busy the first person i turn to when i have a spare second is my gf! I think this guy wants to break up or at least shop around and he's too big a coward to come out and tell you. Even if he comes back in a few days and begs you to forgive him, he has shown you his true colors so you should find someone who will treat you like you deserve and who wants to spend time with you. Good Luck! :-)
2006-12-14 14:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one girl keeps calling me,every day just to be a friend. Case she doesn't want a relationship with me. But it might be a little werid for him not to call you.
2006-12-14 14:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO, first of all why is he going to a party when he has finals, secondly if he doesnt talk to you about what he is going through, then he shouldnt be with you, because obviously he doesn't care.
2006-12-14 14:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by 000123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no!!! move on
2006-12-14 14:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by sillyme24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋