Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

My husband and I are going to a Chrismas party and we are going to change gift there. 2 of his good friends have big families and we can't really afford to buy eveyone $50 gifts. Would it be alright to get a family present. If so, what should I give. Both families have younger kids.

2006-12-13 02:07:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my ex started goin out 04-28-06 and we recently broke up 5 months ago.. and yes we still talk and what not .. and she doesnt tell me she loves me anymore and i dont know if i should give up or keep pushing.

2006-12-13 02:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by ROSHA_GORDON!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

but im married and i need to have an affair my wife is fat and not so pretty do you think its ok because she does not look the way she use to should she keep her self up so i will want her is it all my fault

2006-12-13 02:06:07 · 21 answers · asked by Dirk Diggler(the one and only) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 02:06:00 · 23 answers · asked by Heather Wiggins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not that I am lonely yet. Just a simple question. My Fiancee passed away 7 months ago and people are trying to hook me up with different people telling me to get out more. I just want some advice on what to say. I know I am not ready to date anybody and don't even plan on it for a while. but how soon is too soon?

2006-12-13 02:04:32 · 22 answers · asked by chrystalbryeans 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I've been dumped by a guy 3 weeks ago... our relationship only lasted 2 months, but I liked him for more than half a year and I really expected more... and I still couldn't get over him.
There is a cute guy at my college who likes me and I kinda like him but I still think way too much about my ex.
Should I hook up with the new guy to help me forgeting the ex?
Also consider that no matter what happens b/w us, I'm gonna see the new man 3 times a week for 2 years at school!

2006-12-13 02:04:06 · 18 answers · asked by Magdi H 1 in Singles & Dating

What would it be called if you were on the phone having a conversation and the person knowingly hangs up?

2006-12-13 02:04:05 · 19 answers · asked by Jnsp52 2 in Friends

I met a wonderful man who I talk to on the phone 3-4 times a day. For the last month we have had some really intense, romantic conversations, and talked about a lot of personal things. Now he says he needs some space and some time to work on these personal things (I know what they are). He wants to slow things down between us. He wants to continue to talk and stay friends but doesn't want to speak romantically anymore, at least not until he gets his personal life straightened out, to be friends and see where it takes us from there. Is this possible, to move backwards and forget the things we spoke of in the past? Is it possible to slow down and continue talking and make it back to the romantic feelings we both feel for each other?

2006-12-13 02:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by highly curious clk 1 in Singles & Dating

...with my "plastic friend"! What am I supposed to do!!

2006-12-13 02:03:41 · 51 answers · asked by long_luscious_lashes 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok..got a court date. Jan 8th. My hubby wants to have either joint custody or full custody and I don't agree.
These are my points...He is not a citizen..has a green card. Domestic violence was involved on his part during the marriage.
Got a report from hospital where he hurt our son.
Recently he got a ticket for not having our son in a car seat.
I have been with our kids since they were born/ never worked
Now, they live with me since we seperated.

But the catch is, he is trying to say I am cheating on him. He also has proof. All he has is hearsay and rumors. He has a lawyer and I don't have the money for one. What to do?

2006-12-13 02:03:05 · 11 answers · asked by T&E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 02:02:28 · 32 answers · asked by Squall_22 3 in Singles & Dating

my fiance always goes out with her friends and don't get back till 6 or 7 o'clock in the morning and i love her alot but its just there is no reason to stay out that late with just girls and she always tells me to call her on her house phone but she never answers cause she is neva there she uses the excuse her phone is broken and always gets off the phone with me we have never talked longer then 15 minutes and i just wanna know wat do yall girls and women think ok thx alot luv u all

PEACE PIMP

2006-12-13 02:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Bubba 2 in Singles & Dating

My Dad and me are always arguing and we don't seem to be gettin better at getting along!! He always comes home and sometimes for no reason he'll start yelling at me!! Every time i go out he starts saying that i'm just getting out to see my boyfriend, which is not true!! So please give me some advice on what to do!!

2006-12-13 02:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some of the added details to my last question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al1WMpd0jbnS_7rHGRnIvA_sy6IX?qid=20061213034517AArNgsH

I haven't seen her since she was about 7. She was always in our thoughts, however there was a family disagreement which keep her from seeing us.
My cousin had been molested by somebody in her apartment complex (long story), the man who did this is currently on trial for his crimes. Here is the problem: my cousin seems to think he did nothing wrong (she is still a child and doesn't know she's been taken advantage off by a piece of ****) She may also have tried some drugs. Most of my info. is rumor, since we have been out of the mix for a while.

So my next question is - If your in our shoes, would this change any of your opinions? Would you still take her in?
Don't think by me asking any of these questions I am against it because of her history, that doesn't factor in, it just makes it harder. I just want your opinions.

2006-12-13 02:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by 1 Supermom 3 in Family

2006-12-13 02:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by siri 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having an affair with a friend he is married and has a baby and I am married and have a baby, we used to hung out all of us together. We started just flirting and staring, then I sent him some pictures in underwear, my husband found out and told her wife about what we were doing. After that my husband forgave me and his wife too, we said that we were not going to see each other anymore, but we did and now we kiss and touch all the time, we never had sex and this is going on like this for 3 months... We know each other for like 3 years and we were always attracted to each other but never say anything... Now i feel like I cant live without him, he is in my mind all day I make love to my husband thinking about him, and we think we are falling in love with each other... we try to stop so many times and we always come back to the kissing and seeing each other again ..what should we do?? please help me I am going out of my mind.

2006-12-13 02:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to do everything including how to start an iv and draw blood, i dont think i can do that part i am SO squeamish and hate needles and anything to do with it. how hard is it to do? anyone done this?

2006-12-13 02:00:05 · 2 answers · asked by private n 2 in Friends

OMG!!!!!! my boyfriend wheres these bright orange shoes like every single day. and everything that he wears does not match. and its not that im ashamed to be with him i just dont no how to tell him he dont match. im sure he no's but everyone talks bout him and i no that he has to have more than 1 pair of shoes. he is the only child and he lives in a nice house what should i do????

2006-12-13 01:59:56 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago.. i still love her and want her back, she said she is too young to be in a serious trelationship, but a week or 2 before we broke up she said she is really happy with our relationship she wanted a serious relationship , we dont even live together, we are both 19.. i took it hard, i begged her for nearly 2 weeks to take me back, i feel dump for begging, so im playing it cool now..she said she was goin to a bar the other nite i didnt go(keepin cool) dats what ive been told to do if i want her back..she rang the next day askin bout her stuff in my room.. she e mailed me today, i was just talking to her as a freind i acted as if i was fine... we where talkin bout casual stuff, then she asked me if i was with any other girl.. i said no, then she said i bet u are ,u can tell me i dont mind... do you think this means she still has feelings for me? if she really didnt care she wouldnt have asked in the first place,she has been ringin me too, n jus talkin bout stuff

2006-12-13 01:59:12 · 17 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really feel like i am in love with him but he wants me to join the gang and i dont know what i should do because i was rasied better than to join a gang but i am really truly in love with him and if i leave him i feel like his "Gang Members" might come and try to harm me for leaving him so pelase tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes?

2006-12-13 01:59:02 · 11 answers · asked by octashiathamoneymaker 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:57:58 · 16 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Singles & Dating

my bro-in-law keeps telling me how i have
a shitty life and i should get a better job.
i currently work as a programmer with 30K no benefits. i am 23.
the point is i don't like him insulting me and i will grow into
getting better jobs with time. what do i do next time this happens?

2006-12-13 01:57:47 · 26 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Family

I am trying to make a good list for rules on meeting a girl for relationship purposes. Yes, as dumb as this sounds, a person like me needs the rules. Dating women is complex and frustating. Please look at my list and give me your wisdom on anything i need to add, delete, or change. Thankyou

1. Do not talk about sex or anything that remotely relates to sex
2. Do not flirt with her friends
3. Always meet her in person
4. Do not talk about sensitive issues (religion, politics, etc.)
5. Never talk about your feelings about her
6. Do not try to be her friend before you go out on a date (can someone please explain to me how do go about doing this?)
7. Do not ask for her phone number, facebook, aol, msn
8. These rules have exceptions, so use your best judgement

2006-12-13 01:57:19 · 20 answers · asked by Daniel C 1 in Singles & Dating

We are best friend over 8 years. Now for only he have a lover fair . She is asking me to come sex because she is saying that my friend told her that I have good experience in making the girl to *** every time, but I said no sex with my friends girl friend.
One day she came to my room and ask to come but i reffused, so she strip all her cloths and begg me. I couldnt control my self and now am feeling guilty. What the hell I can do with her?

2006-12-13 01:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys generally not tell there buddys that they like some girl if they ask?

2006-12-13 01:56:19 · 20 answers · asked by marieten45 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all one of the reasons why I am scared of marriage is that the guy I marry would turn into a ferocious beast and physically or emotionally abuse the life out of me. I've had relatives and friends in that situation.

So how many years should I date this guy or be friends then date to really fully know who he is so that I am absolutely certain he won't abuse me or the kids if we ever have any?

I'm single and got a lot of growth and maturity to do. I'm only 22 even though a lot of women that age are getting married.

2006-12-13 01:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Camel Eye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

shorter girls or taller girls and why???????

2006-12-13 01:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He isn't behind enough that it would be cost effective to take him back to court, just enough to make it financially difficult for me.

2006-12-13 01:53:37 · 5 answers · asked by Lovin'life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm kind of sick of how people think that maintaining marriage is sooooo hard. Not all marriages are...as long as you have the right partner, things can go reasonably smooth. My husband and I have been together for 5 years, and believe it or not, we've never had a blow-out. We talk things out like the adults we are. We have our arguments, but who doesn't? Things get better before the day is over.

I'm not trying to brag about my relationship, but I just want other people's input. Not all marriages are hard work. It shouldn't be. Both people should be mature enough to take care of each other and respect each other and look to the future and see each other in it.

Is your marriage difficult?

2006-12-13 01:53:09 · 13 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce