i really feel like i am in love with him but he wants me to join the gang and i dont know what i should do because i was rasied better than to join a gang but i am really truly in love with him and if i leave him i feel like his "Gang Members" might come and try to harm me for leaving him so pelase tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes?
2006-12-13 01:59:02 · 11 answers · asked by octashiathamoneymaker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL HUNNY MY FIANCE WAS IN A GANG TILL I MADE HER GET OUT AND SHE GOT OUT BECAUSE SHE REALY LOVED ME. So if he really loves you he will get out of the gang baby don't worry sometimes you just have to do wat you gotta do nomatter wat if he don't get out put up wit it or dump him
PEACE PIMP
2006-12-13 02:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol gangs ... the only person who I respect in a gang is the leader. Everyone else is just following. That said, there's really nothing much you can do. He is most likely obsessed with the lifestyle so it will be hard to change him. Ultimately the choice whether to stay together is up to you. Gang members very rarely make it far in life though lol. Also, if you're worried they might hurt you for leaving him, tell your parents, teachers, police etc.
2006-12-13 10:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this go any further. Tell you mom he is trying to get you to join a gang and tell him you don't want to join, and you wish he wasn't in one. Tell him you just ca't live that life. Leave him for someone else.
2006-12-13 10:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him, nothing good comes out of being in a gang
2006-12-13 10:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Goodbye."
Don't worry about his punk *** "gang banger" friends. That's ridiculous. Like the guy below me said, tell your parents. They will know what to do.
2006-12-13 10:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by jeff_is_sexy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him--a gang is no place for you--tell your folks so they can protect you.
2006-12-13 10:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him Loser, I going to find me a boyfriend who is in college and will make lots of money when he graduates.
2006-12-13 10:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him immediately and without discussion. Discuss with your parents NOW so they can figure out your next move.
2006-12-13 10:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him..go to police if anything happens
2006-12-13 10:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up or tell him goodbye. You don't need that crap especially in a relationship.
2006-12-13 10:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋