Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

My husband and I have known each other for over 3 years, we've been married 6 months. We met online. We chatted for over 2 months before we met in person. When we first started dating seriously I assumed he stopped communicating with other women online. Wrong! There is at least one women that he would email back and forth, send pictures back and forth and talk sexual to. I confronted him once when I found an email. He said it wouldn't happen again. Then just yesterday I was looking at his old cell phone to find an address of a friend and found some text messages from the same women. They were only a month old and its been several months before when I confronted him the first time. He says he is sorry and feels really bad for hurting me, but I just don't know if I can trust him. I know he loves me, but why isn't that enough? I'm so confused!

2006-12-13 01:33:39 · 20 answers · asked by Ang 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 01:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by stanfan01 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by Feather Hailglitter 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's a delinquent, a drunk and a druggie but she dosn't seem to care. She's known him for only 4 months but I've known him for 4 years and I know he's not good for her. Should I tell her or see if it works for her?

2006-12-13 01:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Marionette 2 in Friends

fall in love at 15?

2006-12-13 01:32:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like nobody takes me seriously. I'm a senior in high school almost 18 and it has really been bothering me lately. I personally think I am a mature person. But things like, me not having a license, a job, and not participating in school activities or sports (i'm not exactly athletically gifted) give people the idea that I'm a joke. Or at least that's how it feels. It's not my fault I don't have a license or job..my mother won't let me get my license because she doesn't want our insurance to go up but even with me offering to pay the difference she won't allow it. That is not even the point though.. the point is that nobody takes me seriously because of these things. They look at me like I'm not up to par with them until I get these things. I know I should just ignore what they think because it's what I think that matters, but easier said than done. Does anybody know how I can get the message across that I wanna be taken seriously?

2006-12-13 01:32:16 · 15 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Family

i mean do u love them all the same? like have one love for all.

2006-12-13 01:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-13 01:31:32 · 8 answers · asked by ahg30 2 in Family

2006-12-13 01:31:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is a solicitor in Cardiff South Wales?

2006-12-13 01:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If someone tells you "you're a good kisser"...do you automatically say "you are too.." even if they aren't - or do you just say "thanks"?

2006-12-13 01:29:16 · 14 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

i am thinking about coloring my hair, but i dont really want to fool with having to keep up with it

2006-12-13 01:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know this guy on the internet.We become close coz we share similar things like hobby and stuff.But he always talk to me in gentle way,send me poems and choose pink as the font color when he's chatting with me...i think he love me because all the sms he send to me is about love...but he never told me that he love me.....is he playing with me or what?whenever i didnt chat with him for about a week,he start complaining to me..he always want me to tell all my secret to him.what is this???

2006-12-13 01:29:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf since some months started counting the kisses he gives me on phone..(since we r far away)..i asked him many times..wht is the reason for this..did i hurt u something lik to reduce..he said nothing..but we were loving as usual..he used to give 3 and present he got angry for a simple thing and made it 2.instead of loving me more..and forgiving me if i do any mistakes..why is he doing this???he is soooo stubborn and wont change his mind for years..

i simply dont understand whts going on with him..can anyone of u tell me truly wh he is doing so??? i feel miserable when he says so..

NO MEAN COMMENTS PL..

2006-12-13 01:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by For peace 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 and 5"2 everyone says awww how cute she is shes short and hi short steph oh and in baseball all they let me play is short stop so am i really short?

2006-12-13 01:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been married for 8 years, 3 Kids. I thought things were great but he was a little down around thanksgiving. Then I pressured him to tell me what his deal was. Friday night he told me he is tired of us and no longer loves me & wants a divorce. "It happens" he Said. I asked all the typical questions (Why, Was it someone else etc) He said no one else and he didn't know why he felt this way & said he has been telling himself for 6 months he wasn't feeling this way, but yet he went through all sorts of trouble arranging a special birthday for me hotel and all. I cried, did all the usual. It was like he wanted to see my responces. I freaked out, went upstairs & started getting things together like (passwords for accounts etc) He asked me to come to bed and said that could wait. He waited in a chair until 3 am for me. Then he said we may have a chance if I stay.Then he has cuddled & become intimate with me, and every day since and done the same, but still says I don't know whats next.

2006-12-13 01:25:48 · 27 answers · asked by Broken but not Beat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 years old boy. My aunty is 35 years old and she is saying that her husband is not satisfing her and asking me make her happy. One I slept with her and we both had maximum pleasure. Now she is calling me every day to sex. What can i do? I can make use of this chance but I am afried with my uncle and their future.

2006-12-13 01:25:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i was 14 i useed to have sex with my sister i use to come up her now i still think about it when i play with my self is a wong thing to think a bout when i play with my self

2006-12-13 01:24:24 · 32 answers · asked by christopherfarrow3 1 in Family

which is more important?

2006-12-13 01:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:22:51 · 9 answers · asked by Karasu 1 in Weddings

2006-12-13 01:22:39 · 16 answers · asked by Waineo G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by marjan f 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old Black male, a junior in college and I attended a CFNM party (clothed females, nude male) and it was throw by 5 sorority sisters and whom of all were white. I agreed to go being a member of my frat. I am the only black guy in my fraternity and these 5 white girls are really hot in the Katie Holmes, Jessica Simpson molds. Beautiful blondes and brunettes. Anywa, if you are not familiar with CFNM, the guy is nude the entire time around the girls. I had to be there for 3 hours and basically was their servant etc. I ended up having a good time the first two hours but then a couple girls would make comments after I served them drinks, that I was a " good little monkey " etc etc which made me feel weird. They were nice to me otherwise but I heard that comment more than once. Also, at the end of the night, I did end up masturbating in front of them and after it was over, one girl Jackie called me " a dirty BOY ". Do you think this is racist? Should I tell my frat leader?

2006-12-13 01:21:26 · 24 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:21:04 · 12 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

They are fiting and other person .what do you it .

2006-12-13 01:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A man has 4 different types of girls..
1. Wifey
2. Boo
3. Bitches
4. Ho's

1)Wifey is irreplaceable.. but she is the only one that is irreplaceable.. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always loves, and he never wants to see her with another man.. But.. He will cheat on her with Boo, Bitches, and Ho's until he is mature enough to realize that if he loses Wifey he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again..

2) Boo is replaceable, she thinks she's Wifey, but will NEVER be Wifey because Wifey was made Wifey is irreplaceable.. she can NEVER replace her.. Boo tries to take Wifeys spot, but once she attempts, the guy allows her to get a TASTE of Wifey's spot... but will NEVER achieve her spot for any longer than a few months, then the man goes back to Wifey.. And Boo either gets replaced with another Boo, or, the man matures and decides that Wifey is the one for him.. (Ladies.. you don't want to be BOO)

The rest is in additional details...

2006-12-13 01:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by Priceless Purity 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 01:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

2006-12-13 01:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by pavaninarendra b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Divorce rates are higher in America.

It seems as though after marriage, no more cuddling, if you do try the other might tire of you.

Guys are animals, sexual animals that want sex all the time, why do they get married when they lust after other women? I know some women cheat too.

Would it be better to be boyfriend and girlfriend and not get married at all?

You spend so much money on weddings and getting married, and then soon after you get a divorce which is actually a waste of money and time.

Even if you are happily married and when your husband reaches 70 he starts lusting after 20 year old modest women. Probably the same vice versa.

So what's the point? Marriage is no fairy tale, you can't change the other person. Men are expected to get bored and lust after someone else. If they don't want to be affectionate or cuddle they don't. I guess women are the same too.

What are your opinions?

2006-12-13 01:17:59 · 23 answers · asked by Camel Eye 1 in Marriage & Divorce