2006-12-13 01:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say "Bye Bye" and move on.
2006-12-13 01:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before walking away from your relationship if you love him try talking to him. Maybe he's dealing with some things on his own and he doesn't know how to handle them and you at the same time. Talk to him try to get to the bottom of what's bothering him. If he has a problem let him know that you're there for him in any and every way. If he's just not willing to talk to you or work it out then let him know how you feel and that you will give him his space then back off. In your mind give him a certain amount of time to make contact with you but you don't call him. If he doesn't call you within that set time frame, then you know it's over and move on. Don't set back waiting for a relationship that's not going to come back to you.
2006-12-13 09:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are many different ways a person can be mean to you,,,,and none of them should be accepted,,,but sometimes it is enevitable if you do not know what to watch for,,,I come from an abusive relationship in which i was physically abused for 6 years in front of my children,,,and I left my two boy's dad 3 years ago,,,he started out yelling at me and then would yell at me and get in my face, then he started pushing me,,,not hard but just enough to know I needed to get out of his way,,,,then, came the smack on the arm that is usually first,,,,and then from the smack on the arm was the punch in the arm,,,, and then the samck to the face,,,,and then the full blown hitting,,,,,,,,and mind you he is 6'11, and I am 5'3" and I fought back every time with all I had in my body to get him off of me,,,and to make him stop,,,,and every time it was I'm soo sorry,,,I'm just upset for this or that,,,and I can't get anything good to happen for me,,,and I'm just stressed out,,,and BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!!
And unfortunately,,,,,,my two boys had to see this and they were only 1-2,,,,,,and can you imagine how they felt inside seeing their mommy hit and pushed and smacked around,,,,,and finally I had enough,,,,and I with the help of my dad moved to Tennessee, and started over,,,,,and I currently work in Realestate, and go to school for criminal law,,,,so It is kind of a happy ending,,,,but they don't always turn out so happy like O.J's wife,,,,,,
You have to know if he is being mean to you that it can be a number of things triggering it,,,,it is not your falult,,,and no one DESERVES to be TREATED MEAN,,,,,REMEMBER THAT,,,,,
it won't stop and he wont change,,,,,and you need to put an end to it right now,,,,hiting and anger are all part of control,,,,,
If you have to get on here and ask what to do,,,,,then he is controlling you more thatn what you realize,,,,you know in your heart that he is mean,,,and you need to stop it and leave him,,,,,,,don't be fooled by his apologies, and kindness from the heart that he will show you, and make YOU FEEL SORRY FOR HIM and you will you will make excuses for what he does,,,,because you know he loves you right???? WRONG!!!!
If he truly loved you,,,,and it was real love,,,,,he would never want to hurt you or make you cry,,,or sad,,,or be mean to you,,,,NEVER!!!!Remember that,,,,,,
Be the person you were before you were with him,,,,and leave,,,or make him leave,,,and never look back,,,,Take my advice,,,and listen now, before it gets to hard to leave and you have children or are married,,,and you end up being together for years and you children see what he does,,,,
My little boys are 6 and 7 now,,,,and my 7 year old can remember the first time that their dad hit me in the face,,,,and he was 11/2 at the time,,,,,they never forget and neither will YOU,,,,,,,
GOOD LUCK
and i hope you make the right decision,,,only you can decide when enough is enough,,,,and I hope you do the right thing if he is being mean to you,,,,,,and if this was a hypethical question,,,,now you know what to do and what to not let someone do to you
I hope I helped a little bit
DAPHNE
2006-12-13 09:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it and tell him if it does not stop that the 2 of you and finished. I just got out of a 28 yr abusive marriage and i am telling you girl life is far too short to spend it with someone who is going to be verbally or physically abusive to you.
2006-12-13 09:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve why he is mad and if he doesn't try back he is probably board or want out of the relationship so i would start looking for another...
2006-12-13 09:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel sad to leave him,the best u can do is..just be loving to him as usual..but at the same time try to show him tht u can get on well even without him...also,show him wht his faults were..towards u..
this really helps..hope so
2006-12-13 09:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by For peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Ask him why he is acting that way towards you. Maybe it is just his way of pushing you away.
2006-12-13 09:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Candy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Don't put up with being mistreated. It will only get worse once it starts....get out now!
2006-12-13 09:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF HE ACTS MEAN TO YOU NOW
HE ALWAYS WILL
SO LEAVE HIM
2006-12-13 09:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2006-12-13 09:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋