tell your husband to be a man
2006-12-13 01:32:59
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answer #1
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answered by paki 5
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That's not a good sign. It's wonderful that he loves his mother and has a great relationship with her, but husbands should always put their wives first before their mother or father. (Wives should do the same). Your family comes first. Why don't you talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Communication is so important. I just hope his mother doesn't give any feedback, because that can jeopardize the relationship.
Her marital status? Either way, it might be okay to help her out with a few of the bills, if she is struggling financially. Just be mindful that as long as he pays for your bills and if there's anything left over, then I think it's okay to help her out. She should know better to advice his son that you come first!
2006-12-13 09:37:26
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answered by sunny 3
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When did you discover that he was a mama's boy, before or after the marriage ceremony? Mama's boys are the worst. The only thing I can tell you is not to lose your own identity. Sometimes being with someone who is like that will cause you to second guess yourself and have you wondering if you are causing him to cling to his wife. Continue to be yourself, and don't let up on him, let him know which moves he make that upset you the most, and be an independent woman.
2006-12-13 09:39:19
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answered by Special K 5
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You should talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. If he pays more attention to his mother, why didn't he marry his mother instead of marrying you? You need to let him know. Sit him down and say "look baby, I know you love your mother and all, but sometimes I feel like I am being neglected..." something around there and see what he says. If he tells you that he will try to change, give it a month or two. If the same thing happens, sit him down and talk to him again. (do not have his mother around because she will want to jump in) go from there and see what happens and if nothing then try to talk to other married women and see what they say.
2006-12-13 09:35:29
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answered by Simorah Serenity 2
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what do i expect from you,chuk his mamma out
but before doing this do remember,
u also have a mother,
what if your brother chuks her out
so what if he pays her bill
has his mother ever bothered to tell you how much been spent to make your husband a better indiviual that now you really adore to !!
dont cry over petty things
he has a mother,you,and i dont know may be a daughter
should your daughter also cry that her father's luv is being shared by her mother thats you
just think about it,
i am about to get married,& i promise you i am really going to adore my in-laws
can you make a promise with me ?????
2006-12-13 09:41:26
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answer #5
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answered by abc 2
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Nothing wait til she dies cuz u will never win this battle except make it worse on u. She has him and she'll never let go. U lose and u should've seen it a long time before u married him, too late.
2006-12-13 09:42:44
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answer #6
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answered by papabeartex 4
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Wow this sounds like my sisters hubby. It is a little wired. Yeah I feel your pain. I would try having a conversation with him and telling him how you feel. If that doesn't work it seems like you hear everything threw the grape vine anyways and just let him dig his hole.
2006-12-13 09:33:34
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answered by Jussie 2
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Stick your foot up his a**e. Then I would talk to him give him 2 weeks to change. If he doesn't then he would never change.Kick him out. He is a married man not a little boy. He needs to get off his mum's tit.
2006-12-13 09:36:40
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answered by Nic 3
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You could try talking to him, but he probably won't understand what your problem is. So, just tell him you're leaving and he can go back to the only woman he'll ever really love and good luck to 'em!
2006-12-13 10:06:22
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answered by Skidoo 7
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These are things you should have considered before you were married, now you have to just deal with it. He is not going to change just because you want him to. This is his mother. Your only choice is to deal with it, or get a divorce and leave him. God bless****
2006-12-13 09:59:16
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answered by ? 7
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You knew he was a Mama's boy when you married him. You might as well be a Mama's girl. It isn't going to change. Either accept it or move on.
2006-12-13 09:33:38
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answer #11
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answered by Trollhair 6
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