2006-12-13 02:06:00 · 23 answers · asked by Heather Wiggins 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm not thinknig about it
thinknig is almost like scratching the wound n not letting it heal
find other ways out for ur mind....
but dont fall for another guy just now ... coz u lil vulnerable when u have heartache and dont make the wisest of choices.... when u feel u back on feet only then....
2006-12-13 02:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by rocks_life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what the break up was all about? Go feed the ducks at a near by park where you feel safe, go to the zoo and hang out, go to the fine arts museum or History Museum. Take up a new Hobby or go to the movies with a friend or by yourself even.Get in touch with you again . Everything else will fall into place when the time is right. Moarning is a reality that comes with heartbreak but time will heal you even if it seems like the pain remains. Take care of YOU>
2006-12-13 02:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While there is no real solution, the best way to get over it is by being active. Don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself. God knows I've had enough heartbreak in my life. The best way I've gotten over it is to just take a step back and re-focus. Put your energy somewhere else until you're ready for another relationship.
2006-12-13 02:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and conscious effort. Don't sit around obsessing over him and woulda-coulda-shoulda. Feeling sorry for yourself just wastes YOUR valuable time, and life is now all about you, right?
Remember what your interests were before him and get back into them with a fever! Find new interests and take some classes to learn more about them. Take some long, hot baths with candles and your favorite upbeat music (no sappy crap), read some good novels (any kind but romance), take yourself out to a nice lunch or dinner, hang out with single girlfriends, take a weekend trip somewhere, even if you just drive to the next town and get a hotel room.
Whatever you do, DO NOT jump into another relationship. This is a time to learn what you love about yourself and how to truly enjoy your own time and company. I wasn't able to be a good partner in any relationship until I learned how to like being alone.
The key is remembering yourself and what a wonderful woman you really are, and that everything, no matter how painful at the time, truly does happen for a reason.
Get up, get out, and get on with your life! You deserve it!
2006-12-13 02:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you have already heard it, but it's true, time is the best remedy for heartache. Just remember that once you feel alittle better, to go out and try to enjoy the world.. if you sulk too long, you can find yourself in a bad rut.
Good luck and I am sorry to hear about your heartbreak
2006-12-13 02:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Styles Gagan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sure, get with your girlz and and slam his meager existence for allowing something as wonderful as you to get away. Obviously he has mental problems that would've ended up holding you back. If you do it right you'll end up pitying him then you'll be more able to give other guys a chance to make their lives a blessing like i did. Living well is not only the best revenge but the best heart healer. Never rush the process because alone time is needed to help you rebuild.
2006-12-13 02:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"TIME"... It just takes time. In the mean time - make yourself do things you enjoy. Go out with your friends. Who knows.... You just might meet someone else that could make you wonder what you ever seen in that heartbreak your hanging on to for now.
2006-12-13 02:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by yp_later_sallisaw_404 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heartbreak is something we can't rush, we must allow and face the feeling's we are now having. no easy way to wish or will it to go away. only time and distance will ease it. we all have gone through a time when something or someone we loved was taken away from us, stolen from us, and we are hurt, because we just couldn't understand why that person didn't love us the way we loved them. but no one can be stolen from us, unless they want to. so we hold up our head high, acknowledge that they don't want us anymore, as their reality is not the same as ours. and we move on, and do alot of praying in the mean time, we get to know god, we can get into a self help group, so that we can understand whats going on with our emotions. best not to keep wanting to reconcile with someone who doesn't want us, cause it will make for a very bad unforfilled life. grief is something that we must experience, there is no time limit on it, but how we choose to handle it can either keep us in hell or sometimes set us free. to get rid of heartache, we must expect no more from the person we loved, and once counted on. we set them free, we forgive them, not letting them off the hook exacly for what hurt they caused us, but setting ourselves free from bitterness, that may carry itsef into the next relationship. just set them free, as we can't make someone love us, if love can't be given to us freely than it really is't worth having. good luck i know it hurts.
2006-12-13 03:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, time, and LOTS of time. Get rid of everything that reminds you of that person. Keep busy, go out, have fun with friends, be POSITIVE and know that this is part of life and we ALL go thru this. Also understand, that there are persons we can never forget and that is completely normal. There are plenty of "fish" in the ocean. Take a break, have fun, enjoy life and go "fishing" again!
javypeds ;->
2006-12-13 02:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by nowhere 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the solution for ur heartbreak is quite simple... try ur best not to think about the person!! does the person still like u? is the break up reason dumb?
2006-12-13 02:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by ROSHA_GORDON!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋