OMG!!!!!! my boyfriend wheres these bright orange shoes like every single day. and everything that he wears does not match. and its not that im ashamed to be with him i just dont no how to tell him he dont match. im sure he no's but everyone talks bout him and i no that he has to have more than 1 pair of shoes. he is the only child and he lives in a nice house what should i do????
2006-12-13 01:59:56 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him, then why should it matter?
2006-12-13 02:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes that pair of shoes, let him wear them. Women seem to have this thing about wanting to wear different shoes every day. He just likes them and he's not out to be a fashion clone. You should be thankful.
2006-12-13 10:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to be the same with some pullover.He would wear it ever sinle day come rain come sunshine. After hinting i told him this joke
Hi sweety, the orpahange called and they want their pullover back
I know..... it was mean but he bought two other pullovers.
If he understands that you love him I am sure he will appreciate it if you tell him the truth.It will rub him the wrong way when he realises that there was something (bad) that peope were talking about(him) and you never told him
2006-12-13 10:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him black new pair of shoes, since they match virtually all colours and tell him how beautiful they look on him, and how they match all colours. If he doesn't change then approach him on the issue as a last reosrt. But do it lovingly so that he doesn't miss the point.
cheers
2006-12-13 10:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to go shopping for shoes and a nice outfit. While you're out, suggest things to him. 'This would look nice on you' etc. Tell him you'd like it if you both got new outfits and went out on a date. Educate him rather than criticize him is the moral of the story.
2006-12-13 10:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by jaynic72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Christmas, his birthday, and even Valentine's Day, buy him a brand new shoe, he will get the picture and eventually get rid of orange shoes.
2006-12-13 10:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Not_Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak up and tell him he doesn't match.
Be gentle - like don't make him feel he's a wacko or anything - but get the point across. Friends, family and fiancees are the ones who should tell us the things that ordinary people would rather mock us about.
2006-12-13 10:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Marker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he likes that shoes so much. OR, suggest a visit to a local shoe store together.
If it bother you so much, talk to him. Communication is the key.
2006-12-13 10:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Marcos Canada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him dude, your shoes dont look good. Not trying to bust your little bubble but do you think you could possibly change your shoes. If you love me you will. It will work.
2006-12-13 10:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him an orange nose to go with his clown shoes, maybe he will get the hint
2006-12-13 10:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're comfortable and he enjoys wearing them. Guys aren't as clothes conscious as girls.
2006-12-13 10:13:13 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋