Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

She's says she's only buying me a shirt for Christmas because we've not known each other long. I wanted something more expensive.
Don't you think she's being stingy?

2006-12-13 20:32:00 · 21 answers · asked by Panama Jack 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost 28 years. Finally figured out about a year ago that I am a worthwhile person, and deserve much better than to be treated like dirt and a doormat. Never came first with him, calls me stupid, dumb, swears at me, yells at me. Sex has been on again/off again. He had a 4 yr affair in the early 90's I didn't find out about until 2000, while he was overseas.; during that time he really treated me poorly.
I thought that was what I deserved, all I could expect. Now I know better, and have changed a lot. He is still the same. Do I continue to give him more time to meet me where I am now? To become who I need him to be? Some days I think he is trying to become a better person. We go to church every Sunday, for one. He asks my opinion about some things; never used to. Yet... we are more like roommates living in the same house, who to sleep in the same bed than a married couple.
No job, major health issues, my vehicle needs repairs, I feel trapped.

2006-12-13 20:31:53 · 25 answers · asked by heartwife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 20:29:56 · 16 answers · asked by abc 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 36 and I find that I am attracted to younger females physically and emotionally. I do not consider or look for anyone over 25 due to the fact that most are NOT virgins, have kids, been married more than twice, sexually active and would not treat me as if I was brand new and are generally bitter and selfish. I have found in general that the younger females, although some I could not stand, tend to benefit and attract me more. Does anyone else out there understand this and can add to this section of comments and questions?

2006-12-13 20:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by erniemusic2 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i like but he is two years younger...
he's shy or intimidated but sometime we wave at each other.
i noticed him four monthes ago and is still trying to do something...
he put me on his top but we dont know each other...
he message me only once and said that i was pretty...
and know that i like him...

2006-12-13 20:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

hey girls ok so i have a really weird question. wen u have an orgasm is it easy for you to get one? it takes so long for me to get one n its nto thru intercourse. well im islamic n i had this thing where they basically do a female circumcision n that makes it harder to get an orgasm because they cut a piece of skin from the clit. i feel so horrible because i dont feel normal cuz i dont get orgasms like all the other girls. i do get orgasms but i dunno if they are normal. i dunno can someone plz just explain some things to me cuz i jsut feel not normal n depressed bout it.

2006-12-13 20:25:59 · 15 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy tells you he thinks you should just have sex once a week, should you be worried?

2006-12-13 20:23:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've liked this chick for ages but i also like her friend as well and ehy both have their good points but i don't know who to choose, and i'm afraid if i ask one of them out i'll regret not asking the other one or something. What do i do?

2006-12-13 20:22:40 · 7 answers · asked by _D 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it. I'm fairly attractive. I'm physically fit. I'm smart, and I'm not arrogant; moreover that shouldn't even matter because I attend a very elite university in New England and everyone else here is very smart as well. I'm not antisocial -- people on campus do know me.

So for instance, the other day I asked this guy to lunch because I wanted to get to know him better, and he thought I wanted to interview him. Why don't guys pay any attention to me? What am I doing wrong? And why is the only guy I've ever felt (mutual) chemistry with, a guy who was already in a relationship?

Do I come across as asexual?
Am I too academic?
Do I have too many gay friends? I'm a dancer, so that's natural.
Do I not have a personality/am I not conveying my personality strongly enough?

I mean, I AM friends with guys, though I haven't had time to hang out with them consistently because I get a little reclusive when I'm busy with work. But no matter what, they always see me as "just a friend."

2006-12-13 20:22:09 · 31 answers · asked by Charlotte R. 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend n i have been goin out for about a month and half now and he's been tellin me about this "job corps" thingy..he's been tell me bout dis ever since but he never really made a decision bout how he's gonna go bout it like where he's goin. den recently he would mention dat he's movin 2 Utah (we living here in cali now) but he would mention it lin a way like oh it's not gonna happen kinda thing but den D other day, we were sittin and he was all "i should have a goin away christmas"..i was all "y?" den he says "cuz i'm goin away" 2 my shock i was kinda suprised den i asked "when?" he said Jan. 8 which is like 3-4 weeks from now..soo sooon..what should i do? because it'll be hard for me to have a long distance relationship..but den again. i do really like him a lot..for him probably be a no big deal because he might think we haven't been goin out for awhile because he's had longer relationships but for me it's kinda big cause i haven't had a lot of bfs n he's like my real real bf

2006-12-13 20:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a semi-functioning alcoholic, he works most of the time, but he doesn't stay at jobs for more then a year or two at a time, he drinks beer constantly and admits he is an alcoholic. He doesn't really have anyone who truly cares about him but me. We have a son together, but because of his drinking, and the behavior that accompnies it infidelity, too much out in the streets, I am no longer with him. My questions are, How do I help him without being with him. (Everytime I cave and go visit him it's the same, "you don't know how much I care, I miss u so much, I can't breathe without u") He knows I am in love with him, so I personally think the things he says are cruel. But, I have unconditional love for him, and just want to help him without traumatizing my son. SUGGESTIONS?
And why doesn't he love his son enough to stop drinking?

2006-12-13 20:20:13 · 13 answers · asked by verywisefor28 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How n where do i find a date for new year?????

2006-12-13 20:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by Rehman 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not a lesbian or a tomboy ok!!!!!

2006-12-13 20:18:57 · 4 answers · asked by hanz rox d' world 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 20:15:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 20:14:27 · 36 answers · asked by tizzy 5 in Singles & Dating

there was one guy who was my best friend and we were used to share all things and secretes,suddenly i fell in love with a girl and i told this thing to my best friend also!!in starting he was appriciating me and giving diff ideas to impress and propose her,suddenly he told me one day that he loves the same girl and want to propose her and than he started playing dirty games with me and finally he proposed her also,but lucky me that the girl said that she dont love him and we are no more best friends now i told all this things to that girl also but she is also not ready to support me and keeps telling me to improve my thinking about him!!!and i cant bear all the things which he have done with me so i wanna take revenge for this thing what should i do ?????please somebody help me

2006-12-13 20:14:11 · 18 answers · asked by smart don 2 in Singles & Dating

in other words my cousin had custidy of my daughter and only told her this . never showing her the court papers. they claim to have .now she is 19 years old and is asking me if its true . should she not ask them for their papers .instead of throwing the burdon on me i will gladly show her .this was partly the cause of me & her real mom to lose her.to make them look better in her eyes .since they raised her ? are they afraid that would discredit them if they showed her the court papers .cause they know its not true .after fifteen years.she should have the right to know. right !! or wrong?

2006-12-13 20:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy online. He answered my profile on this website. Emailed me with a prepaid cellphone no. for Malaysia while on a business trip for a week (He's from Spore). Anyway, I called him the 1st time, we had a long talk that whole night. Of course, there were breaks in between, cos we'd get disconnected or we were travelling, The 2nd night, he tells me he likes me - my sense of humor, personality. Asked to meet but I chickened out. After a week he leaves n keeps in touch. Two weeks later he comes back on business. I met him for dinner the next night after he returned. We had a nice night n on the way home, he stops somewhere quiet n kisses me! I wasnt in to him until I met him n realised wht a sweetheart he is! But the next day I sent him text messages, which he took a while to respond. And then I accused him of taking advantage of me or not liking wht he saw after our date. Called me nuts ( I agree). I got insecure all bcos he was busy n I misunderstood. I apologised. Will he call?

2006-12-13 20:11:00 · 18 answers · asked by jjai_8 2 in Singles & Dating

living in a strange relationship son loves mom. mom loves son. its been a nightmare from the beginning. they are crazy!! name callers, backstabbers and i have no peace of mind. hes lived with momma 40+ years and when i say im leaving he calls me names,says im crazy. my nerves are shot. i cant stand his mom and that is sad because i get along with everyone. i no longer love him for allowing this and im also upset with myself for staying!! so im leaving this weekend never to return.son says goodbye which is fine by me. claims i have a boyfriend which i dont!!! mom sits up to torture me and to try and lay a guilt trip on me. im not falling for this **** nomore. he cant love me dont you agree?

2006-12-13 20:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by kathryn j s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the wife of a naval pilot and I keep busy being a full time student but I am curious to know what other Navy wives do to pass the time when their husbands are on deployment.

2006-12-13 20:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by amandacbdf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm goin out wit this guy 4 about a month n a half now n recently he's been so "distant" i did some investigating..basic instincts tell me oh x gf..cuz D other day last week i was over his house n she called..i don't kno how often they talk..at first i thought oh nothing 2 trip bout cuz mayb their jzt friends but wat really got to me is dat he went in the kitchen n u kno how u act when ur having fun on D fone? well he was acting like dat..n it was awkward 4 me so i left..frm dat i started thinkin..den later i found out frm his bro dat he has been talkin 2 her n she's been tryen 2 ask him back out n sayen stuff like "so ur not goin 2 pick me over her" n things like dat..n i can't blame him cuz they were goin out for a year n they've been thru a lot but i guess he doesn't want 2 get hurt again.what should i do.?

2006-12-13 20:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 20:08:37 · 10 answers · asked by jose 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it TRUE that when poverty comes in through the door, LOVE will jump out through the window?

2006-12-13 20:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by joe 3 in Friends

After a year she had affair, lied about a job that didnt exist, claimed she was in univ. but she wasn't. I left her then. I missed her, she claimed she had new job (also didn't exist I recently discovered) and we started to meet casually, including sex. She had lost friends and was bored at her mom's, I think she was meeting out of convienience, also she didn't want relationship then. Now we discovered she's pregnant, she started to live with me, and we were "together. I set the condition of she get a job of some kind rather than sit and watch tv, and not one more lie. She does some housework( minimum unless I ask for something), she is looking but still no job. She says she will return to univ in feb, but baby is due in June, so I have doubts. She has no money, few posessions She chronically lied before and doesn't admit when caught. I caught her in another one yesterday. I am never married and really want a family. She frustrates me. Should I send her back to her mom or keep trying?

2006-12-13 20:08:26 · 22 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex-wife have been diviorced almost a year now and she has full custody for our child. Now she want me to take custody of our kid which I am happy to do. The problem is she is located in Washington State while Im in Alabama. Do have to go to Washington for petition over there?

2006-12-13 20:07:36 · 9 answers · asked by keel4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guy says he needs time to see if he can live with out this person, they have spoken everyday for 8 months have not met, live in different countries, the guys first wife cheated on him

2006-12-13 20:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by angleface 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 20:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright so my 5th Wedding Anniversary is coming up and when my Husband and I got married he got me a small wedding ring set and now that he's financially doing a lot better now compared to then he would like to get me a new wedding ring, but my question is

What am I suppose to do with my old one?

The one that I wear now is considerably small but it is the one that the pastor prayed over and presented me with so I'm having troubles deciding just what I should do with it since it means so much to me, I've heard of wearing it around a chain or such but I already have a very special necklace that I wear everyday, and would never consider replacing that so if anyone has any good suggestions please let me know!

Thanks in advance and Happy Holidays to all!!!

2006-12-13 20:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by nkkidw040602 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i met the nisest and cutest girl wen i went to the skate park today,
we talked for 30 mins and later wen she was goin home she hugged me goodbye.
reken she likes me?

2006-12-13 20:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by evapilot_02 1 in Singles & Dating

If i was your brother and you caught me snooping in your secret drawer what would you do to me

2006-12-13 20:01:06 · 16 answers · asked by DoubleOshann 1 in Family