Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

Her drunk friend answered a question i was asking her. She asked me Why do i flirt around with you her?I asked her why you really dunno? and her friend replied coz he loves you. And there it started. She said she is engaged back in India Arranged marriage she says for a year...i mean no ceremonies yet..just the families have spoken. She said no next day after the party.I agree i became a little to restless to find out. She has been labeled in Univ as the woman who knows how to use people to get help with her assignments. I figured out what the hell was i doing..helping her. This was the core of he the interaction.nothing else at all. But then she wanted to stay friends after saying no...i told her don't have to say yes i don't need it if you cant commit. Just think about career goals. We started talking again but she was in a project group she didnt need me ignored me. now am doing it and feeling really bad abt it. Last night at the party i ignored her 100% i cud see she was not pissed

2006-12-13 21:14:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many times you have seen Blue films with your partner:

A. Once
B. Twice
C. Uncounted number of times.

2006-12-13 21:12:15 · 12 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Singles & Dating

is it unfaithful , while you are married or have a girlfriend by seeing pretty or nude opposide sex become horny and think about having XXX whit him or her?

2006-12-13 21:10:25 · 22 answers · asked by bigballs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 21:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by ahakadar 1 in Friends

forget the idea of looks for a moment because every womans idea of whats good looking is different from the next woman

but as a guy I am curious whats the hottest thing about a guy besides looks? whats the thing that makes you give guys the puppy dog eyes look besides if you think he is good looking

2006-12-13 21:08:27 · 43 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean that in a nice way. He really hurt me in the relationship and now I don't want to hurt him physically, just hurt his pride.

2006-12-13 21:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by space case 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy i like... and i told him months ago, but now he is "talking" to some girl who is pretty much a conceited tramp... why do guys choose these type of girls instead of the real girls with nice personalities and aren't going around messing with everyone in the city...girls included!!!?... (no disrespect to anyones sexuality)

2006-12-13 21:07:01 · 19 answers · asked by ==> 2 in Singles & Dating

if i kissed a guy it dint mean enything should i tell my bf or fotget about it ? i dint mean to kiss him. or should brake with my bf. i dont want to hurt him and i love him and he dersves better then me but he makes me so happy when im around him

2006-12-13 21:04:52 · 24 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Singles & Dating

And where are they? (apart from the obvious ones) Sounds sad but need some advice here. No sarcy comments pls

2006-12-13 21:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by dick g 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 5"1" in height, BTW.

2006-12-13 21:03:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife believes that even though I love her very much I will love the second wife more because of her children. She tells me that is what any man will do under the circumstance, but I don't think so. I love my wife for so many things but I am under intense pressure from my parents and sisters to get a child. I am from a polygamous setting anyway, but my fear is that I don't want anyone to snatch me from my wife. I am confused!

2006-12-13 21:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by blackjack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man I've been dating for the past 5 years has declared his intentions to marry me. We are both in our late 30s, and I have a lot of affection for him but he is so boring! However, he loves me and thinks the world of me, has a good job and is very reliable and has no habits that I can't stand. I don't find him intellectually stimulating at all (he's good and simple in a Forrest Gump kinda way), but I'd like to raise a child and start a family and I feel as though I'm running out of time. He's keen to do the same and has just proposed. He would make a reliable husband and father, but I am worried that we will drift apart from sheer boredom. Since he's a good person should I marry him and just make the best of it? Am I justified in having mixed feelings or do I just not appreciate how lucky I really am? Help!

2006-12-13 21:00:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i like this guy and i think he likes me...
well are both shy and dont really know each other...
we only wave...
if i want to talk to him... i have to cause i know he wont...
well todae after school i saw him sitting in a table and so i just sat down in fornt of him...
i tried talking to him but he just gave me that head nod like wassup...
what does that mean?

2006-12-13 21:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Friends

What colour?
I'm petite, 5"1" in height. Medium olive-complexioned with jet-black curly/wavy hair. My eyes are my best features-- they are black, too and are complimented by my equally dark brows. I don't think there is anything else that's special about my appearance. I don't count myself as exceedingly pretty, but I'm OK to look at.

Could you tell me of a colour that'll suit me, please? I also want to know a good colour for the shoes.

2006-12-13 20:57:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if ur sis mood is not gud, what will u do ? quarrel? fight? or tell ur mum?

2006-12-13 20:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Family

2006-12-13 20:52:51 · 11 answers · asked by gananarayan 1 in Friends

My Boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now and now he says Im abusing him. I love him very much and I know that he loves me very much so Im not sure how this is happening. It all started with the fact his mom doesnt like me. Not too long ago she told me off and said some really mean things about me and our relationship. And I havent forgotten them so I tend to bring it up at least twice a week.They live out of state so when the holidays come around my boyfriend goes to visit and leaves me behind anywhere from a few days to 10 days at a time. We have never spent a hoilday together since we have been together. I get really sad and feel let down when he leaves me. I dont want to feel this way but I dont know what I can do. -So when were together I tell him how much Ill miss him and how I wish we could be together. He ends up feeling bad and saying Im abusing him. But hes leaving me to be with his family and I want him to be happy. I understand that but its still hard.

2006-12-13 20:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by hyebaby78 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 20:50:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get back at him for giving me a lame **** excuse for ending our relationship - his parents are unhappy with us and dont like me cause i dont talk much, they thinks it rude, couldnt possibly be the fact that i am just a quiet person and have been my entire life, no im rude! What should i do if i c him out at the clubs? hes 23 and im 19..

2006-12-13 20:48:02 · 7 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

I am searching 4 a friend , where can I get , websites finding friends here please tell me what ?

2006-12-13 20:45:35 · 18 answers · asked by gananarayan 1 in Friends

If you and your husband are traveling and both of you are unsure of the directions on how to get to the location, yes you have the directions from the internet, however they are a bit confusing and your parents used to live near this area so your dad is very familiar with the area, so you call your dad for directions; should your husband feel disrespected by your action. Yes, all the wife did was called her dad for reassurance. Should this make your husband feel that you do not have enough confidence in him to allow him to find the address or do you think your husband should not take it that way because all you were trying to do was help to locate the address and to avoid wasting time driving around an unfamiliar area? My husband and myself are looking forward to viewing the Yahoo Answers. We would like to hear from both sides and points of views Female and Male. Please help.

2006-12-13 20:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by momview 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do i just go and walk away or what?
is it okay if i ask my friend to ask him or is that weird?

2006-12-13 20:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 20:42:52 · 38 answers · asked by aimee b 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for 12 months. He is very different to me, he is quiet and often moody. I like to go out and enjoy myself but he doesn't like me to do this. In the summer we split up and I met someone else who was lovely. I was stupid and went back to him though. He found out about me seeing someone else and took away my mobile and banned me from internet. Now I'm so unhappy. Do I cut my losses or lie in the bed I've made for myself?

2006-12-13 20:42:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to try it with his friend but I think it may make things awkward after. His friend is quite cute though. Should I do it?

2006-12-13 20:42:02 · 21 answers · asked by Smarty Pants 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 20:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

we dont really know each other.
i tried talking to him but he is really shy
but i really want to get to know him and tomorro is winter break and i want to talk to him and get to know him during the break so he wont like someone eles...

2006-12-13 20:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2 in Singles & Dating

do you ever do a strip dance or undress real slow in front of your husbands or boyfriends

2006-12-13 20:35:04 · 20 answers · asked by ken s 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Through a rose, love letter, email, phone call....

2006-12-13 20:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by huntermanhartmnc29 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i are getting married in less than a month, and we (along with my family) have paid for everything in the wedding so far, and my fiance's family doesn't want to help at all so he feels like they are abandoning him when he needs them most. He has tried talking to them, but nothing works. I know they make more than enough money a year, and i know that they could atleast help us out some. We aren't expecting a lot, but since he's only 20 and i'm only 18, we don't have high-paying careers yet, and anything helps. We both really don't mind so much about the money because in the end we are still going to be married and together, but i don't know how to help my fiance overcome this hatred that is building for his family. I thought about maybe talking to them myself but i wouldn't know what to say. He's had the hardest life of anyone i've met, and i hate him being like this. is there anything i can do to help? I've tried talking to him which helps, but i don't know what to say...

2006-12-13 20:32:51 · 19 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Weddings