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Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for 12 months. He is very different to me, he is quiet and often moody. I like to go out and enjoy myself but he doesn't like me to do this. In the summer we split up and I met someone else who was lovely. I was stupid and went back to him though. He found out about me seeing someone else and took away my mobile and banned me from internet. Now I'm so unhappy. Do I cut my losses or lie in the bed I've made for myself?

2006-12-13 20:42:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

35 answers

no. i didn't bother to read the additional info. u r not happy. leave. its really very simple

2006-12-13 20:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by elsie 4 · 0 0

He sounds like a boring, controlling, pig of a man. What right does he have to take away your mobile phone and Internet? He's punishing you like a child! You don't have to take that! You are obviously not meant to be together if you are so miserable. Leave him and find a better life with someone else. With any luck the guy you met in the summer will have you back!

2006-12-13 20:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0 0

Your boyfriend took away your mobile and banned you from using the internet because you saw someone when you had split up anyway? To me, he sounds a bit controlling from what you've said and I would worry that he would continue to control you in this way. You have to go with what you feel inside - if you are really not happy then don't stay. Life is too short for that.

2006-12-13 20:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by JoJi 4 · 0 0

What kind of a dumb a*ss question is that?!?! You must have very low self-esteem to think that you have to stay with your BF, whoever that is in the story that you gave.

It doesn't matter. You should dump both of them and start fresh. Your BF that took away your mobile and Internet seems psycho and a controlling little insecure biatch himself. The other guy is a little biatch too. Moody? Only women are moody. Real men do not get moody. They suck it up and take it like a man.

Dump them and get with a winner. Drop the losers and stop wasting your life away on trival shiat like this. You should be having fun all of the time. What the hell is the matter with you?

2006-12-13 20:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0 0

There are plenty more fish in the sea, so the saying goes.....
Even though a relationship is made up of sharing, you still have to be happy in it yourself. He seems to be either a control freak or very jealous seeing as he has taken away things from you, obviously to isolate you from making contact with anyone else.
If you let him carry on like this then you will find yourself pushed away more and more from friends and people close to you, is that really how you want it to be? I would recommend that you leave this person and find someone who cares for you and treats you with respect. Men like this are out there!
I have no time for bullies because they are weak themselves, so don't worry about him. I am sure he can find someone else to bully.

2006-12-13 20:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ian G 2 · 0 0

Sounds like he's quite controlling. I think it's better that you leave him and find someone who you are happy with, it's not fair on both of you if you really are not happy.
I had a similar experience with my last boyfriend and even though I did care about him, he was making me very unhappy so I decided the best thing to do was to break up with him. One of the best decisions I've made in a long time.

2006-12-13 20:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Clare E 2 · 0 0

"run for the hills" seriosly get out now mate the longer you stay in this kind of relationship the more it will crush your spirt and be hard to get out of!

A boyfriend should love, respect you and make you feel happy and special they should never control you they dont have that right nobody does! It sounds like he doesent trust you and trust is the main thing you need in a relationship,

If your unhappy and you dont have things in common its going to end sooner or later so my addvice would be sooner as lifes to short to waste it with someone who doesent know how to treat a woman.

:)

2006-12-13 20:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by smity 2 · 0 0

this isn't a rehearsal, you only have one life. don't give it up to make someone else happy. Leave him as soon as you can and be happy. The chances are he isn't happy either, he obviously doesn't trust you. If you split up now you've both got the chance to find someone you're really suited to. He'll get over it, it's only been a year, and it'll be better for both of you in the long run. Good luck.

2006-12-13 20:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0 0

dont blaim urself ! u went back to him so what ? its still time to leave and from what u describe its overtime to do so now. no one has the right to take control and for sure not over a person .
i wish u all the best and that u find ur hapiness with someone else soon again

2006-12-13 21:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Cut you losses, you found someone else once you can do it again, don't put up with anyone who wants to control your life, you will lose your self respect. Go out and enjoy yourself again.

2006-12-13 20:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by shortstuff 3 · 0 0

Girl dont stay with him, you no the right thing to do. Leave, the longer you leave it the harder it going to be. I know its hard but you dont want to be unhappy for the rest of your life do you?? once you go your life will be so much easier and better. Be happy and go with your heart :)

2006-12-13 20:50:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0 0

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