if i kissed a guy it dint mean enything should i tell my bf or fotget about it ? i dint mean to kiss him. or should brake with my bf. i dont want to hurt him and i love him and he dersves better then me but he makes me so happy when im around him
2006-12-13 21:04:52 · 24 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gosh, that is tough one lady,
ok do first thing , dont tell him coz that might ruin your relationship & will hurt him (you dnt want do that ryt?). but if you tell him then he understand it, then thats fine.
2nd , do u still love him? well if not anymore then i can not see wrong with that braking with him. (coz if he loves u then he will understand)
3rd , dont wory about the kiss thingy its just a kiss not sex.. so dont think that.
2006-12-13 21:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by CLoud9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love and sex are a little like virginity, either you are or you are not a virgin, there is no such thing as partial or almost virginity. Pregnancy is the same, you either are or are not, there is no "just a little pregnant".
Now ,to the less serious, but just as important question of fitfulness. You either are faithful or are a cheat, there are no middle of the road unintended semi "didn't mean anything" kisses. You can, like most women, rationalize that you are not going to tell him because you don't want to hurt him. That is fine, you are guilty but, you will atone for it somehow without him finding out.
Good luck, cheating always has a way of surfacing and doing its worst damage when you least expect it. Lesson about love: Love is like a glass, if you break it, it will never be the same, even if you manage to put it back together!
2006-12-14 05:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by willgvaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never say a guy deserves better than you, instead just thrive to be the best you can be. Also, i had a situation like this when my fiance and i began dating, except i actually slept with the guy. I didn't tell him right away, because our relationship was so new and i didn't want him to break up with me, but the guilt got to me, and i told him about a month after it happened. He was upset, but i told him the truth (i was drunk and didn't mean anything by it) and because he loves me, he stayed with me and we are getting married soon. my best advice is to tell him soon. If he loves you, he will understand, and just be careful not to let it happen again. good luck!
2006-12-14 05:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Andii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mean to kiss him? Then just explain to your bf about the loose paving stone which made you trip over and you just so happened to fall on a random bloke who was coming out of a man-hole and as if by fate, your lips landed on his, the shock of it all causing your tongues to come out....i'm sure he'll understand....!
2006-12-14 05:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that is the stupidest question I have read so far this morning. A kiss is just a kiss, and if you don't know any better, stop kissing all together.
2006-12-14 05:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me if u kiss a guy other then ur boyfriend, u should ask urself what made u kiss him. then try and reflect on ur action.. but in my opinion if ur boyfriend really like u then he would let it pass by.
but remember not all the guys r like that in order to do so u must really know ur boyfriend. ok hope this helps u in making ur decision n hope that u cqan solve ur problem.
2006-12-14 05:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it over WHY you kissed that guy. and if you have the idea, you'll know what to do.
if you LOVE you BF taht much, forget about it.
but if you think you like the other one better, do the right thing and confront both guys.
it's worth a shot.
good luck to you.
2006-12-14 05:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's next? "Oh, I slept with some guy, but it really didn't mean anything".... Grow up! If you kissed someone else, and you can't even explain it to yourself, you have no business having a boyfriend.
2006-12-14 05:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a boy friend, try being single, then you can kiss who you want when you want!
How do you not mean to kiss someone?
Hopefully your boy friend will dump you soon.
2006-12-14 05:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well First off Liar's are not cute nor are they good for a relationship.. secondly it takes two to tango sweetie... You had to mean to kiss him
2006-12-14 06:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋