there was one guy who was my best friend and we were used to share all things and secretes,suddenly i fell in love with a girl and i told this thing to my best friend also!!in starting he was appriciating me and giving diff ideas to impress and propose her,suddenly he told me one day that he loves the same girl and want to propose her and than he started playing dirty games with me and finally he proposed her also,but lucky me that the girl said that she dont love him and we are no more best friends now i told all this things to that girl also but she is also not ready to support me and keeps telling me to improve my thinking about him!!!and i cant bear all the things which he have done with me so i wanna take revenge for this thing what should i do ?????please somebody help me
2006-12-13 20:14:11 · 18 answers · asked by smart don 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi buddy i can understand how ur frn played with ur feelings...but when u spk of taking revenge jst think if u also become like him then wht wld be the difference bet u n him......ur gf doesnt believe u thats a bad thing.......but it doesnt matter as long she is with u......she didnt go with him because she liked u more...so perhaps that says it all......so jst forget the thing n go on with life...n make sure u dnt get in touch with that friend of urs.......jst keep d thought of revenge out of ur mind.....
2006-12-13 20:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Excuse him and dont maintain any contact with him. This is the best revenge u can take on him. Also dont try to reveal the things between u and him with ur girl friend. It might terminate ur relationship. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 20:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend no more. your mate is not worth your trust anymore. He is a liar and thats it. Why dont you meet him and tell him that you feel betrayed? afterwards, dont be friends w him anymore. As for the girl, if you really love her, then get her. But remember, she should worth your effort too. She knows now that you both are interested w her, make sure that she know what she wants instead of playing ball between u and ur ex-best friend.
2006-12-13 20:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you stumble on that a loved one has cheated i imagine initially you imagine you'll die. After time even with the truth that you ought to locate that you nonetheless love them. the most important then is finding out in case you could stumble on common strategies to have self belief back. many human beings locate this the hardest ingredient after a betrayal and for the reason that of this such an excellent type of relationships end later on. i'm hoping that you've not stumbled on your self on both aspect of this situation. once you've although, i counsel counseling before ending any courting right now.
2016-10-18 06:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a negative feeling and a two way sword. It will not only hurt the person you are planning revenge on but also it will hurt you too. Stop thinking about revenge and be happy instead that your beloved loves you too. In your thirst for revenge, you are not enjoying your success with your loved one.
2006-12-13 20:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply and finally it is clear that you are not FRIENDS.Your , both of you, friendship is collapsing on a girl.What kind of friend you have been is well anticipated from your behaviour. Can you rely on him and vice- versa if you are married ...how he /you are going to treat wives...like the girlfriend you have treated. Change the rout...yours friendship whether to a boy or girl is based on airy principal. And in my veiw any of you ...three--have the right to use the word "FRIEND" even. And revange ...oh GOD... not friend but enemies...think of that.
2006-12-13 20:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get revenge. You should try to make his life miserable for the rest of his life because he is not your friend. It will make you feel good. It will make you feel like you have rendered justice, and it will make you feel triumphant over your sorry a*ss "friend".
When you are beating the crap out of him, repeat these words to him to live by:
"Bro's before Ho's. Bro's before Ho's"
Got that? Beat him senseless until he learns the tenet of manhood. Bro's before Ho's. There are plenty of Ho's. There aren't that many Bro's. He just lost one in you. Now, make him pay the price.
2006-12-13 20:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm, don't act harshly or think about revenging stuffs, it's not worth it. Try to divert your attention to other things and forget about these people. One day they will be so envious of you that you are doing well.
2006-12-13 20:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy just don't be upset with this.
everything is fair in LOVE and WAR.
You just need to take it as a game and play.
That's the only way...
2006-12-13 20:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nooo don't revenge he do that becuz he love her don't let girl who didn't love they both of u take u apart talk with him and tall him why u do that Ur my best friend see if u cant back Friend
2006-12-13 20:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋