She's says she's only buying me a shirt for Christmas because we've not known each other long. I wanted something more expensive.
Don't you think she's being stingy?
2006-12-13 20:32:00 · 21 answers · asked by Panama Jack 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.You are being greedy.Maybe you are a bit tight-fisted when you take her out,& this is her way of letting you know what it's like.It could be she is a bit short of cash,what with family to buy for,there is a whole range of possibilities that have nothing to do with meanness.Look on the positive side,most women would take the shirt off your back,she's giving you one.lol
2006-12-13 20:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been together long, what do you expect? You are lucky you are getting anything at all, and how do you know it won't be an expensive shirt? I think she is doing the right thing, otherwise how will she know you are not using her if that's all you care about? Just be lucky you got someone at Christmas, a lot of people don't have anyone to share Christmas with...
2006-12-13 20:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think she's being stingy at all. You should be thankful she doesn't expect you to spend lots on her. Besides, with the money you save, you two can do something fun together, if she doesn't dump you for being too materialistic...
2006-12-13 20:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by weegie geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not being stingy but you are the one who is demanding. What more do you expect when she has the intention to give you a present?
2006-12-13 20:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not being stingy. I think she doesn't want to spend that much money on you. I think she just "like" you and her feeling for you is not that deep. And I think you are being demanding.
2006-12-13 20:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Confuse_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think shes just trying to save her money for this christmas... shes not yet sure about you bro.... your new in your dating thing... shes not being stingy... thats just for starters.... may be in few months time she will buy you an ipod or something(if shes that freakin rich) well budget also plays in a relationship-gift-giving-thing you know
2006-12-13 20:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by phat_freakz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't buy her anything. Or get her something crap from the pound shop and if she complains, say that you've known one another too long to buy presents for each other. I bet she'll go spare!
2006-12-13 20:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is. Buy her a shirt also and see how she likes. Although iI have a feeling that she will be expecting something expensive from you!
2006-12-13 20:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havent known each other long, why do you expect more than a shirt?! Be grateful for what you're getting!
What are you getting her?
2006-12-13 20:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by punkrawkprincess81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say, be happy that she is buying u something.... dont bother weather it's a small gift or a big one, cheap or expensive...
if you are still not satisfied then do this:
if she buys u a simple shirt for you buy her a expensive one....
by buying her a expensive gift, that would show you are anytime better than she is.... don't you think?
2006-12-13 20:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by nnadiya2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋