If a guy tells you he thinks you should just have sex once a week, should you be worried?
2006-12-13 20:23:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am I suposed to jump for joy that a man deems me worthy of sex? Don't think I should feel like I don't deserve the honor. That's stupid too.
2006-12-13 20:32:41 · update #1
a timetable for sex that's novel. i like it when we are both ready don't think i could really stick to 7:30 on a Friday evening. you need to have a serious chat with him
2006-12-13 20:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No.
Ask him why he thinks this is ok.
Also pending on your age it will make the answer seem more correct or not.
I Know guys that only like it 1 time a week and I know guys that have sex 1 time a week to make there GF happy but they are cheating on them.
Im not saying this is your case so
ASK him why.
Just becuz he only wants it 1 time a week does not mean a bad thing Right now life could not be that great for him and sex is not the 1st thing on his mind or 2nd. SO give him a chance before you think the worst.
If anything he says does not make sence what so ever then Maybe look a little harder on whats going on and how he is acting and go from there.
I WIsh you the Best of Luck
Goodluck
2006-12-14 04:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should be having sex more than once a week, then I'd certainly be questioning why it should be just once.
Human sex drive varies from person to person, and what is excessive for some may seem low to someone else. Ask yourself what makes YOU happy, since sex is a consenting act between two people and it's not just about what he wants.
Find out if there are any issues he has, and take it from there. It may be nothing, it may be something - but you won't know if you don't ask.
2006-12-14 05:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should be very worried. A guy has buildup. Every day he needs to release at least once. If he's not doing it with you, he's doing it with someone else.
You should take a look at yourself. Did you gain weight? Did you have breast reduction surgery? If you answered yes to these questions, you have a serious problem. You're just not attractive to him anymore. Lose weight, and get implants.
2006-12-14 04:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that he is no more interested in you. You may take this as a symptom to end the friendship. I think you should try to know the reason for him to act like this. Try to talk to him openly and try to fix this problem before it is too late. If that is not possible you have to be strong and move on.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 04:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With you or someone else? I as a guy want sex three times a day. Once before I go to work,two when I get home and three when we go to bed.
2006-12-14 04:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely find out why he felt that way... and I would be very worried, I'm to sexual for just once a week... lol
2006-12-14 04:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ... it's weird to hear a guy only want to have sex once a week.
2006-12-14 04:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the condition u r related to him
besides he is only sugesting not making it compulsory for u
2006-12-14 04:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. i think that is about the dumbest question ever. at least he wants to have sex with you period. be forreal here.
2006-12-14 04:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋