hey girls ok so i have a really weird question. wen u have an orgasm is it easy for you to get one? it takes so long for me to get one n its nto thru intercourse. well im islamic n i had this thing where they basically do a female circumcision n that makes it harder to get an orgasm because they cut a piece of skin from the clit. i feel so horrible because i dont feel normal cuz i dont get orgasms like all the other girls. i do get orgasms but i dunno if they are normal. i dunno can someone plz just explain some things to me cuz i jsut feel not normal n depressed bout it.
2006-12-13 20:25:59 · 15 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-17 06:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Peter IPPC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read about that. You are very lucky that you were not totally mutilated like the women I read about. I am amazed that you are able to have an orgasm at all. The women I read about experienced sex as extremely painful. Also, of course there are some American women who just can't have orgasms for various reasons. You may not be "easily orgasmic" but so what? You are somewhere 'in the middle,' well within the normal range. As for taking a long time, what's the rush?? Take your time and enjoy it!! You are normal!! Don't be depressed!! :)
2006-12-13 22:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i understand just what you are talking about.because of the circumcision it may affect you a little it does reduce your senstivity, but you see there are some ladies who are not circumcised and still have the same problem some don't even know what it actually measn to have an orgasim whatever they feel is just what they think'
Anyway you can still feel that right touch you just need the rithg person to touch you in the right place ever woman is dirrent some are deeper inside ,some their g spot is easier to find whlie others more difficult you just need a man that has the right size for you and can turn you on long enough trust i know cuz i experinced the same.
2006-12-13 20:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lighten up! It is not necessary that only through cli*oral stimulation that you can reach a great orgasm. When you are doing the act and his 'stuff' rubs against the back of the cli*, right on the g spot or close, you can really climax like crazy. Try out positions that give you the max. satisfaction. Very deep penetration can make you get so high and have an explosive one. (One that will make you feel fabulous is being on your back and lifting your legs, bringing your knees to your chest and letting him do the act.) For each woman it is diffirent. The cli* doesn't do it all for you. Don't be so bothered about other women. It really is each to their own. You just have to do what stimulates you the most. Ask your guy to cooperate and try new things and hopefully he is someone who lasts and doesn't get there too fast. :-)
2006-12-13 20:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a guy that can tear it up downtown if he does it right you should have no problems. Sorry I am not a girl but I know how to make one have an orgasm that will make her feel like a whole nother woman
2006-12-13 20:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand why you would be upset ! but at the same time, this guy respected you enough to tell you to your face and be honest with you, that shows that he's an honest guy who has a heart enough to tell you from Him without you hearing it from someone else in an even worse way, do you know what I mean ? I think you should at least let him explain exactly what happened to you, face and face and try to hear him out. if it still doesn't sound right to you and what he says isn't a good explanation, let him go. but if what happened was really an accident (like i said, let him explain), I think this guy sounds like he should be given another chance because he cared enough to tell you like that, and that takes courage. So it's all up to you, but i do think whatever you choose to do, you should at least let him explain to you what happened face to face, and then make your decision from there. that's what i would do ! good luck*
2016-03-29 06:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?? They do this to Islamic women???!!!!?? Dear God...If I ran the world....all of those so called "men" would be castrated...and the world would be better for it. That aside, Many women do not have an orgasm from intercourse alone...MANY!!! There are many other options that I'm sure your man has no clue about...poor girl!! My advice??? Find a non-Islamic lover!! And I'm not trying to be mean.....but....DAM!! Those guys suck!!! Not literally, of course. Which is just one of their many issues!!! ***** PS!!!! I just read the answer from the moron above!!! UGH!! I rest my case!!! Convert girl!!! Your religion SUCKS!!!!!! The men are brain-washed morons!!!! And you follow??!!?? GET OUT!!! No offense.....just truth!!
2006-12-13 20:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read about some women choosing to have their clitoral foreskin removed as an elective procedure (hoodectomy) and claiming to experience faster orgasms afterwards and a cosmetic result pleasing to both they and their partner. Please don't consider yourself mutilated. If you are/were thinking this, I can understand how some of this could be psycological, although please remember women responding to your question regarded some signifigance of time to orgasm as completly normal ( I am male).Please see a medical Dr. if you are still depressed.
2006-12-16 12:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal, everybody takes different amount of stimulation to reach the big O. Don't worry about it so much and find a guy or a girl that can get you there.
2006-12-13 20:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on each girl. Some girls get orgasms easier/faster and some don't. Does not depend on circumcision.
2006-12-14 08:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Scuba 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋