i'm goin out wit this guy 4 about a month n a half now n recently he's been so "distant" i did some investigating..basic instincts tell me oh x gf..cuz D other day last week i was over his house n she called..i don't kno how often they talk..at first i thought oh nothing 2 trip bout cuz mayb their jzt friends but wat really got to me is dat he went in the kitchen n u kno how u act when ur having fun on D fone? well he was acting like dat..n it was awkward 4 me so i left..frm dat i started thinkin..den later i found out frm his bro dat he has been talkin 2 her n she's been tryen 2 ask him back out n sayen stuff like "so ur not goin 2 pick me over her" n things like dat..n i can't blame him cuz they were goin out for a year n they've been thru a lot but i guess he doesn't want 2 get hurt again.what should i do.?
2006-12-13 20:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i couldn't fit all of what i wanted to say that's why i had to abbreviate the words..
2006-12-13 20:27:20 · update #1
Forget him... Move on...
2006-12-13 20:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to confront ur guy if he's still interested in her & look if the girl is coming so close to him. then u can give them chance to avoid heart break, because they have been for a year while u is just a month & half. i can say they still have each other in mind, u would have given them time to know if the relationship will never continue again or not before accepting that guy.
just take ur time and sort out thing before u will be given a name as boyfriend snatcher. ur relationship is just of recent am sure there will be no heart break for now. good luck;
2006-12-13 20:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him on these things and see how he really feels about all this.
He must still have feelings for this gal and you will probably be left on the back burner because they have a history and you to don't.
You might want to just move on but if she breaks it off with him don't let him back into your heart. Make that clear to him.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 20:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethin shady is def. goin on and i think you should investigate mroe and get to the bottom of things...cuz uif there is something goin on then you could get hurt and i would try to solve it before that happens.
2006-12-13 20:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should site him down adn talk to him and ask him what is going on... U should do that so u can see what is going on and is he going to pick his ex over u. So u don't have to wait for a long time and finds out he is going to pick his ex over u and u wasted your time over him.
2006-12-13 20:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him get on with it if he decides to go dont have him back. after 20 years of marriage i would not fight to keep my wife, i love her to bits but who am i to stop her being happy. i would not have her back though as i would never be able to trust that she would not go again.
2006-12-13 20:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would be as concerned over him as I would be learning how to write. You look mighty stupid here.
2006-12-13 20:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and see what he says
2006-12-13 20:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by shelley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to blame becuz he is stupid that girl control him where she want to broke up with him or to back with him ... u just tell him do u want me or nooooooooooot???
2006-12-13 20:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he talking to her? drop the loser and find a winner. hes gonna leave anyway!
2006-12-13 20:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by kathryn j s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye and walk away.
2006-12-13 20:19:18 · answer #11 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋