living in a strange relationship son loves mom. mom loves son. its been a nightmare from the beginning. they are crazy!! name callers, backstabbers and i have no peace of mind. hes lived with momma 40+ years and when i say im leaving he calls me names,says im crazy. my nerves are shot. i cant stand his mom and that is sad because i get along with everyone. i no longer love him for allowing this and im also upset with myself for staying!! so im leaving this weekend never to return.son says goodbye which is fine by me. claims i have a boyfriend which i dont!!! mom sits up to torture me and to try and lay a guilt trip on me. im not falling for this **** nomore. he cant love me dont you agree?
2006-12-13 20:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by kathryn j s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say, don't discuss this with either one of them anymore. This is no longer up for discussion. Just pack your stuff and leave, as you planned. If you have to leave something behind - leave it with a light heart. Let them have it. Till Saturday, let them call you names and let them say you have a lover. It doesn't matter anymore. For the weekiend, make sure you have a plan as of exacly how are you leaving - do you have a place to stay? Are you catching a bus? Are you taking a plane? Make very practical arrangements abou it, and don't let them know until you are out the door. I wish you a happy life. You deserve to be happy.
2006-12-13 20:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made up your mind, Your here because you want to understand your decision and its this simple. This is not a valid relationship this is a power struggles between you and her. If you were to walk into this tomorrow having never met them before you would obviously not have excepted this. The true nature of thire relationship is eveything you have seen up to this point. I recommend not just leaving but cutting all ties to these people. Change your phone, Move, Have your friends change their number. And get with the one person who kept telling you to leave in the first place. If you want peace you have to fight for it and dont look back.
2006-12-13 20:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by accessmemorex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The struggle 4 attention, mum in-law Vs you, thats what it is. Deep inside i still think u love him, u just need more of him and not share him with his mum. perhaps pushing him 2 this corner is inevitable if this relation is ever 2 work. Go right on, yes, this should be 1 of thoz necessary evils.
2006-12-13 20:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really does not matter whether I agree or not since your mind is made up. I hope you find peace and happiness in the future.
2006-12-13 20:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a momma's boy. u did the right thing by leaving him. u don't want ur life to be like Everybody Loves Raymond.
2006-12-13 20:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no respect for you if he's going to put you through this. also, why does he still live with his mommy? he needs to be a man and stand on his own 2 feet. you would be MUCH better off getting away from this crazy sh!@, FOR GOOD!
2006-12-13 20:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave mama's boy now just leave. he wont change. get out an save your peace a mind
2006-12-13 20:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by scooprandell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out let live their screwed up lives,tell em both go to hell.let momma take care of baby
2006-12-13 20:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup completely ... Good decision in the end
Regards
Sameer Shaikh
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-12-13 20:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave is a good choice. he loves his mom more than he loves you. you'll find a guy who loves you--just don't give up hope :)
2006-12-13 20:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋