my boyfriend n i have been goin out for about a month and half now and he's been tellin me about this "job corps" thingy..he's been tell me bout dis ever since but he never really made a decision bout how he's gonna go bout it like where he's goin. den recently he would mention dat he's movin 2 Utah (we living here in cali now) but he would mention it lin a way like oh it's not gonna happen kinda thing but den D other day, we were sittin and he was all "i should have a goin away christmas"..i was all "y?" den he says "cuz i'm goin away" 2 my shock i was kinda suprised den i asked "when?" he said Jan. 8 which is like 3-4 weeks from now..soo sooon..what should i do? because it'll be hard for me to have a long distance relationship..but den again. i do really like him a lot..for him probably be a no big deal because he might think we haven't been goin out for awhile because he's had longer relationships but for me it's kinda big cause i haven't had a lot of bfs n he's like my real real bf
2006-12-13 20:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i couldn't fit all what i wanted to say that's why i had to abbreviate words
2006-12-13 20:29:20 · update #1
If you're meant to be, it will work out in the end. Maybe you could move to Utah too...But I wouldn't give up my life for him if I was unsure of what type of relationship it is.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 20:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! You need to stop thinking that long distance relationships are actually relationships. One of the requirements for a relationship is that you are together. If you are not together, then you are not in a relationship. He will be banging other girls while he is away from you, so don't worry about staying faithful to him while he is away.
Why is this so hard for people to understand?!?!?!
2006-12-13 20:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. What do you both want? where does it go? if you both want relationship, and want it to work out, then it can. 1 month? meet your freinds, ur family , new people more often. new hobbies and activities. time will fly by very fast..
2006-12-13 20:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
n den i read ur story liek cha n i realised liek i lose liek all mah brain cellz looool
pz, gl tho
2006-12-13 20:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
n den I didn't bother answering you're question b/c I was brain dead after trying to read your retarted writing.
2006-12-13 20:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you want to do and i wont judge. long distance relationships are pretty hard but if your gonna cheat on him i suggest you break it off first. its about respect and dignity.
2006-12-13 20:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hez been so casual with you....why r u takin it seriously then ??...n abt ur real real bf, welcome to the real world honey...here you gotta take care of urself, coz no one else will !
2006-12-13 20:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by pembanboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever heard this quote: "If you love someone, let them go, if they comes back it's yours, and if it didnt it never was....."?
yea ... it's full of crap. but oh well ....
anyway ... learn how to write a proper english!
2006-12-13 20:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thg is have sex and a romanctic night
2006-12-13 20:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rushit Shah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to kiss alot of frogs to find a prince.
2006-12-13 20:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by rogueriverman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋