guy says he needs time to see if he can live with out this person, they have spoken everyday for 8 months have not met, live in different countries, the guys first wife cheated on him
2006-12-13 20:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by angleface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it!!! People need time to heal after a marriage falls apart. If he goes right into a new relationship his new partner may suffer because she'll be dealing with all of his old issues.
2006-12-13 20:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can be there for him but he apparently doesn't know what he wants. He could be in shock still from the divorce. If he is worth the wait than be patient with him he did just get out of a marriage. Be his friend right know time will tell all.
2006-12-14 04:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with YOUR life! You don't need to be hanging out waiting for some guy who flat tells you he's not over his divorce! And he may never be. Also, you do NOT want to be the rebount woman, trust me! You'll be just as divorced as his first wife is but he wont be whining about not being over you.
Sorry, truth does hurt.
Good Luck
2006-12-14 04:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by raquelha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his wife cheated on him, then that is probably an issue for him.
He has to re-learn to trust the new person he is willing to date.
Sometimes they need the time to get over a relationship.
2006-12-14 04:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say theyre weak is very insensitive. Be patient - its a big deal to get a divorce + his confidence will have been knocked from finding out she cheated on him.
2006-12-14 04:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't weak, you are just too demanding. People take different times to get over things, let the poor guy have some peace to get his head sorted out. Back off.
2006-12-14 04:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the one for you. He will always carry
that baggage with him. Try to find someone
without that emotional mess.
A man that's been cheated on, you can take
a chance with.
2006-12-14 04:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, 1st of all he is telling you...he has feelings for someone else, his recentlly divorced ex-wife, he is basically telling you that he does not care that much about you....Don't waste your time on a man that cannot give himself fully to you.
2006-12-14 04:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait because he is trying to see if he can get over it and not go in to a relationship with u and hurt u in the end...
2006-12-14 04:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let em go,they aint threw,you dont have to put youself on the back burner,while they play games,only you will be hurt,they are players,im a player hater,leave with their games you go find love,honey if you were for him he wouldnt talk to her daily ,he didnt get hurt good enough,dont do this to yourself
2006-12-14 04:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋