Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-13 06:19:09 · 7 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by <3 1 in Friends

My husband of almost 17 years sat me down a few weeks before the birth of our seventh child to tell me he had feelings for a female co-worker. I thought I had the perfect marriage, to the perfect man, I completley adore him, I try to love him and each of the kids unconditionally. He said he loves me he just felt like maybe there could be something better out there for him, and that would be in addition to me. I was devistated, I am 35, very inshape, I take care of everything he needs, I dont go out w/ friends, or drink or act irresponsibly. I can't get over it. A few weeks after the baby was born I snooped on our computer and found that he had registered on Adult Friend Finder was looking at naked girls every day and asked some to meet him. He had a handle and profile on the site seeking a relationship. He had taken nude photos of himself for the site that he says he never posted. He said he made a mistake and now he is fixed, why can't I just get over it, it is no big deal. help!!

2006-12-13 06:18:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and he keeps flirting with me and cant keep his hands off me ever! so what should i do i like him but me and the chic thats pregnate dont like each other at all. so all this is so annoying!

2006-12-13 06:17:39 · 25 answers · asked by faitherzbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

So I started going out with a guy early November, he seems to be a bit depressed, his mother dies last December, and he has a sick nephew, but he says December is more like a family month for him, and he just wants to be by himself. But I want to hang out with him! I dont want to be all about me, but basically he says lets wait til january, what would you do?

2006-12-13 06:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been best friends for almost 14 years, and have been living together now for a year. We had plans of being married around new years, and now he has got cold feet and doesn't want to get married. He says he's afraid of getting another divorce, which both of us have been previously married. But how can i help him, get passed those fears? We have an 11 year old son together, and have been in love with each other for 14 yrs, and just finally over the last year and a half, told each other how we felt. He feels we were meant to be together and so do I...how do i help??

2006-12-13 06:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by wa2outlaw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your spouse of 6 years tells you "You are going to clean this house today. If the kitchen isn't spotless when I get home, I am throwing everything away."

Assume that your house is clean but there are always dishes to be done- I don't mean stacked to the ceiling, I mean maybe at any given time there are five or six to be done. Assume you are going to school and caring for a family of seven, including the aforementioned spouse, yourself, two kids of his from a previous marriage, and three of your own. Assume the littlest is teething and needs held almost nonstop, and that you can never finish everything within a day.

Do you: follow the ultimatum? Ignore the ultimatum; he can throw away what he please? Leave? Something else entirely?

2006-12-13 06:15:40 · 23 answers · asked by imjustasteph 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

man i must be getting bored lol

2006-12-13 06:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:14:47 · 10 answers · asked by TakeNoticeNow 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an ex who is volatile. He wants to keep in touch with me, and I'm afraid that, if I don't, he'll wreak havoc on my life and the life of the guy I was dating up until the other day (he broke up with me over the drama with this ex). There has been vandalism, threats, etc. We've called the police, but nothing sticks to this guy. I just want to live in peace, but he won't be ignored. He cajoles and pleads for contact, and when I give a little, he takes even more. He pushes and threatens and scares me. Short of changing all of my contact info, moving, and becoming invisible, is there anything I can do? He doesn't actually come around me, so a restraining order doesn't make a lot of sense, and he has been careful to not do anything illegal that we can actually pin to him. I'm running out of ideas. Please help!

2006-12-13 06:14:15 · 3 answers · asked by Erica A 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright one of my friends is married to a man who was born in another country. They have a daughter and now they are talking about getting a divorce. The husband continually threatens to take the daughter to his home country? Anyone have any idea of what to do?

2006-12-13 06:13:55 · 13 answers · asked by crashqueen_77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't wanna be part of the ridiculous trend.

2006-12-13 06:12:25 · 29 answers · asked by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a way to NOT have top friends on myspace?

Well is there a code or a way to have no top people on your myspace page? i hate that stupid friend ranking thing and people take it so seriously

2006-12-13 06:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

get out of Yahoo answers?

Everyday I get on here I realize how lucky I am to have such a wonderful wife and family. I also get some good tips on how to express my love for my wife. Lasly, I unfortunately get to see how bad some people have it, how stupid some people are, and how some people don't even know what morals are.

What are some of the things you get out of this?

2006-12-13 06:10:44 · 3 answers · asked by Jon O 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 06:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this boy is like after me wat do i do he is a lot biger than me:(
he means biznis

2006-12-13 06:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have two best friends that are the coolest but they dont really care about eachother. one is samantha and the other is chelsie.chelsie and her ex-boyfriend jason just recently broke up now he wants to get with sam .should i tel chels even though sam told me not to?

2006-12-13 06:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by bridget 2 in Singles & Dating

she very loving..
playful..
meows when she can't see me...

something short..cute..and sweet.
anything different

2006-12-13 06:07:38 · 44 answers · asked by coopchic 5 in Family

for you today...

2006-12-13 06:07:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do the guys I work with always poke me in the sides, back or stomach?? I am thin, so I don't know what they are poking for, are they poking for some extra skin or what?

2006-12-13 06:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my prev question was bout fancying my engaged best mate prob now is what do i do was we see each other every day and i love being with him do i try to go cold turkey and tell him i cant see him or do i keep socialisin and keep crying everynight after weve had dinner at work and ive gone home

2006-12-13 06:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 weks pragnant and he told me to get lost in my 11th week and he change his phone number on me and he told me if i need him or anything to call his dad like im going to call his dad then i asked him for 400 hundred dollars bec he was going to give it to me when we were still together but he told me he has to see if the baby lives to b born befour he gives me anymoney and i miss him i keep trying to get him to go back out with me though email but he just tell me i need help to get it im scared that he will git my baby after he or she is born what do i do do u think i should give him time and write him and see if he want me back or should i just give up please dont tell me to give up bec i dont want to i still love him will i get past this or should i keep trying to get him to go back out with me he might already have a gf dont know he tell me to get help he think im bipolar and i dont think i am i think i just have anger problems but i dont know where to find a group

2006-12-13 06:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I are developing a really good relationship. I really like him and I can tell that he likes me, but he told me that he mostly hangs out with girls and has a few guy friends. Should I be worried?

2006-12-13 06:04:22 · 6 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Singles & Dating

help

2006-12-13 06:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by ROSA S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next spring. I handpainted wooden boxes with my bridesmaids names on them and filled the boxes with some of their favorite things (lotion, insense, teddy bears, earrings, just odds and ends), but what in the world do I get for the guys in my wedding that can be just a thoughtful?

2006-12-13 06:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

Lately I've been having doubts about the feelings I have for my boyfriend. I don't know if I'm with him because I really love him or just because I like having him around. When he first asked me out I was flattered (he's really good looking) and lots of girls were jealous of me. My friends were all excited because they thought we were a perfect match and we looked good together. The problem is I don't know if I really love him or I just like the fact that he's what most girls want and he's mine. He's a great guy and it's very obvious that he really loves me. I feel terrible and I probably don't deserve him but I'm just really confused. Do I love him or do I just like having him around?

2006-12-13 06:01:17 · 22 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

How old is too old... 19 & 24??? what r your opinions???

2006-12-13 06:00:48 · 32 answers · asked by sactified1 2 in Singles & Dating

I fully admit that I had an immature unrealistic view of marraige 13 years ago and I have grown and matured, but I fear I have done some verbal damage in my marriage with things I have said and implied to my husband about me having to work outside the home unkind references like that e.g you would not have the lifestyle you have without my salary contributing.
But you know something this hurts a man self esteem and I have not been very kind about it.

My question is what are godly ways I can support my husband in his ministry and in all he does? What are ways I can control my tongue and not "throw in his face" things he cannot control?

I have the stronger more dominant personality and I compensate by for the most part as best as I can to be loving to him, but I have fallen short of the glory of God in this area of not being respectful.

Marraige is not the fantasy that I thought it would be but that does not give me the right to be mean. Thank you and God bless you.

2006-12-13 06:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so ive never asked before. my girlfriend and I have been having sex for awhile now. Everytime she wants to orgasm she has to play with herself while im standing having sex... Its always been this way since she was a kid? Any ideas on what we can do to make her go without having her play with herself. (NO ITS NOT ME) Also... what can men do to go faster? FOODS? (no drugs or medicines) or alcohol
Thx

2006-12-13 05:58:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 05:57:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family