Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

its a realationship problem

2006-12-13 06:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by carma 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been divoreced for 5 years now, and his ex-wife continues to send him emails on a monthly basis/she cheated on him. She mentions things like "I wish we had had kids", "are you doing o.k.??", "we are ALWAYS family", etc. The way she words these things in her emails makes it very clear she misses him. We just recently had a baby and I thought she would surely leave us be by this point. I have brought up many times to my husband how uncomfortable it makes me feel that she still emails him and says the things she says and he gets mad at me. Also - he keeps all her emails in his "drafts" folder in his email account - hopping I won't see them. Why would he want to keep them? I have to say - it is nothing dishonest going on in the conversations, but she is making it very clear that she is still there for him, and she really loves him. My husband has gotten very offeneded in the past when I asked him to stop contact with her. I donot know what to do. It does not seem appropriate

2006-12-13 06:41:25 · 25 answers · asked by jilljj11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

..I have had dreams that I do it with this guy... What does it mean? ...I just don't do it with people! ...I actually don't do it I have no boyfriend ..I can't do it :'(
...i'm too busy to think of doing it....

so yeah... how embarrassing!

2006-12-13 06:40:57 · 31 answers · asked by Lizzeth 3 in Singles & Dating

she tells him when to shower, shave, what to wear and he used to be my friend until she took him over, now we barley ever talk she changed him so much.

2006-12-13 06:40:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after you open this you have totell me on a scale 1 to 100 how cute or hot i am.

2006-12-13 06:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Katelyn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:40:16 · 8 answers · asked by vee 1 in Singles & Dating

broke up w/ex-bf almost 7 mos ago. we'd still been seeing ea other no strings attchd, but i still wanted him back, we'd express feelings for one another. i originally broke up w/him 'cause i heard a chic on his vm...he later changed the passcode...i ended it. but i was in love. we kept seeing ea. other. i recently was laid off from my job & started working @ his momz biz for xtra cash until i find something else. his email was set to automatically log in when you boot the computer...(yeah...i looked) i saw him sending an i luv you msg to a customer that i was suspicious of but...trusted him. he never gave me a reason to doubt his trust. now he disgusts me. but when he comes here...i play it cool, i say hello, he acts as if he's angry. he was basically trying to have his freakin' cake & eat it too. after seeing that email i was just disgusted im like it couldve been anyone else, but not her. i just think i should stop working here to heal 100%.he comes here out da blue. i hurt

2006-12-13 06:40:12 · 3 answers · asked by just me 3 in Singles & Dating

We live in New York. My husband's child supprt agreement states we support him through 4 years of college as long as he is a full time student (until age 22.5). Unfortunately, my stepson blew his opportunity and is headed for six months at prision. Does incarceration qualify as immediate emancipation since he is 21 already. My husband's ex wife is trying to force us to pay his 2007 tuition knowing he can't complete the semester just to keep that child support coming.

2006-12-13 06:38:59 · 14 answers · asked by Stepmomof2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever got atracted to someone that is writing good answers or having nice chat conversation?

Do you think it can hapens to you?

2006-12-13 06:38:57 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ok??? i pull out everytime

2006-12-13 06:38:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy is not so sure about a girl, would he ever throw a hint about liking her, or wanting to go out with her instead of just flat out saying so?

2006-12-13 06:38:08 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

im 19 and seem to last for like 45 minutes everytime... I kinda just want that quicky but cant? IDEAS!

2006-12-13 06:37:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As I keep posting, there is a friend, that I might like, but I'm not sure, and I can't stop thinking about him. :) I barely see him, and I miss him to dealth :(

2006-12-13 06:37:21 · 11 answers · asked by All I need is you 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some ideas of fun things to do with my partner. He's basically a workaholic so I want some unique ideas of things to do with him. Oh he gets bored quickly. He is the book type and most of the things that go with it but he likes football. Please help?

2006-12-13 06:36:48 · 13 answers · asked by EIliot 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:36:04 · 9 answers · asked by MissLatteandMocha 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a transsexual... And I don't know if I should get the full operation or not. My boyfriend wants me to and he will only stay with me if I get it. He's also "seeing" my best friend who has agreed to get the operation. If I don't I will loose my boyfriend but I kinda don't want to get it because I'm really scared and I don't think getting the operation will make me any more or less a woman. He said he will only be with the person that is a "full woman" so what should I do?

2006-12-13 06:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by Hydie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just started seeing a Mexican guy from my past. We knew each other 5 years ago and in that time had our share of good times and bad.

It's weird, because I know practically everything about him, but in a strange way he feels like a stranger, it's like I'm learning him all over again.

Just curious, what positives/ negatives have you experienced as a Black/ Mexican couple or Black/ Mexican child?

2006-12-13 06:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by Stephen S 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had so much going on in my life. it all started when my daughter passed about almost 2 years ago. and then i got married. i thought this man was wonderful. was i wrong. things were going good we decided to have a baby together and then it all hit the fan. he wouldn't love on me or show me any attention or affection. i felt so hurt so alone and plus i had post pardum depression form having our baby. so he told me i need to get help. and i did just for him. then he turned around and called me a nut case, took my baby from me and said i can never see here again. i never thought i'd be an ex wife. all that sounds kinda typical but to top everything off he has fooled my whole family to think that i am the worst person. they have left me with nothing and give him every thing they think he needs. i'm to the point where i don't think i can go on. i don't even know the number to a sucide hot line. where do i turn when you have noone to turn too? (this is still only part of the story)

2006-12-13 06:34:53 · 14 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My father in-law is probably one of the better people in the world, we need more like him. He's the type that would do anything to help no matter the situation But he has two older(26&32) STEP-children, that just suck him dry emotionally and monetarily, constantly. If they aren't disappointing him, they are either high, getting fired, or arrested. I think the mom should do something but she never does, other than shrug her shoulders and look sad. This is not my battle but my spouse always gets dragged into it, which means I get dragged into it. Sometimes I wish I could forgive and forget like him, but who would want to deal with all the heartache all the time. It just sucks to see someone do so much for others, constantly get let down by the ones closest to him, other than his own children. Just looking for feedback, preferably not who cares or deal with it! Thanks..

2006-12-13 06:34:09 · 2 answers · asked by wasdaanswer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

bacon sandwich would that make her a cannibal if she ate it??

2006-12-13 06:33:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 06:33:11 · 9 answers · asked by shizo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:31:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets take a poll... Do you guys prefer super skinny girls that are boney like a size 1 OR a little fat to them like a size 6 OR do you like your women meaty like a size 10+.... I'm a 6 and think im doing fine i used to be a size 0 not no more i miss it but is that what you men really like???

2006-12-13 06:30:42 · 25 answers · asked by sexynurse 2 in Singles & Dating

send me a message, we can talk on YM if you would like... do girls like to get on with a guy on YM?

2006-12-13 06:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

chug a lug
and drink it right down

2006-12-13 06:30:12 · 13 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

i get no one ?i hav tryied yahoo chat rooms,myspace,evn thru yahoo answers...where the hell shud i go,m really interestd makin new frnds...plz PM me...

2006-12-13 06:30:06 · 4 answers · asked by Generoushous 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not want to have sex anymore. I hate it. My husband does not understand, Nor really do I. I just don't want to anymore. I feel my body is being being invaded. Has anyone else had this problem? Thanks for any input

2006-12-13 06:30:04 · 28 answers · asked by montanaone2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am pregnant with twins the father and i used to date in college and he was my first love.At the time when we met up again i was seperated from my hubby and was in the process of divorcing and he was seperated from his wife and mother of his daughter.We went out had a few drinks since he was a lawyer we discussed my divorce proceedings and well had one too many drinks resulting in my pregnancy. I called him up on his cell phone and left a message telling him that i am pregnant so i could just get it over with.His wife whom he was considering going back too for his daudhter some how heard this message and i have 30 voice mails from her.Should i get a restraining order?

2006-12-13 06:29:38 · 34 answers · asked by gracie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i marrage in the my cast or may be in inter cast please tell me . will i satale in abroad

2006-12-13 06:29:34 · 8 answers · asked by kayopasana 1 in Marriage & Divorce