i need to get over my ex TOTALLY!?

Question

broke up w/ex-bf almost 7 mos ago. we'd still been seeing ea other no strings attchd, but i still wanted him back, we'd express feelings for one another. i originally broke up w/him 'cause i heard a chic on his vm...he later changed the passcode...i ended it. but i was in love. we kept seeing ea. other. i recently was laid off from my job & started working @ his momz biz for xtra cash until i find something else. his email was set to automatically log in when you boot the computer...(yeah...i looked) i saw him sending an i luv you msg to a customer that i was suspicious of but...trusted him. he never gave me a reason to doubt his trust. now he disgusts me. but when he comes here...i play it cool, i say hello, he acts as if he's angry. he was basically trying to have his freakin' cake & eat it too. after seeing that email i was just disgusted im like it couldve been anyone else, but not her. i just think i should stop working here to heal 100%.he comes here out da blue. i hurt

Answer 1

Sorry that you're hurting. It will hurt less as time goes on. I think you're on the right track though and it's in your best interest to stick to your guns. You know what's best for you. It always helps me to get rid of all reminders and it's hard to forget when you're still seeing this guy. So, if you have the option to find work elsewhere that may be a good thing. Good Luck

Answer 2

You definatley have to quit that job. Being around anything that reminds you of him is the wrost thing that you can do. It is very hard to get over someone you love especially after you catch him doing something bad. You have to just ignore him and start a new life for yourself. The more you don't see or hear from him the more the pain will start to go away. I hope that it works out for you

Answer 3

I think you should let it go. I was in a situation similar to that one. And trust me if you let them get away with it once they will do it over and over again.