Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

My ex broke up w/ me 2 months ago.

The other night we went out and had a great time (he asked me out). At the end of the night he hugged me for a very long time. I started to cry. I looked up at him and he was teary. I asked if he was upset he said "a little". We hugged again. Then he looked at me and just said "Oh Sarah" and I said "Oh Mike" and we hugged again and he kissed me on the head. He told me to call him anytime. I told him the same.

Sounds like he is still interested right?? Read on....

2 days later I msged him. He said he was doing well, thanked me for the msg and tol me that he is sure he will talk to me soon. I told him that I was fine and that I had a great time the other night. He said he is glad im fine and that we should get together again sometime. I said I would love to and for him to let me know whenver he is available. He did not respond.

How long should I give him the benefit of the doubt to respond before I move on?

2006-12-13 06:29:33 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I got divorced about two years ago. I didn't really want the divorce it was her idea. I have always regretted letting her go. But I wanted her to be happy and at the time I wasn' making her happy so I did what she wanted. I went through a drastic change. I became mean and disagreeable. I did some things that I shouldn't have. I used our five year old son to try and get her back. That was a mistake.

It took some time, but now she has come back to me. We talk and laugh together. She even took care of me when I was sick recently. She has moved back into my home and we have a date this Sunday. We have begun to put our life back together. We have agreed to date for now.

The thing she has even started sleeping next to me again. That is right I let her share my bed. It feels good to have her near me again. I want her back so bad.

I want to ask her to marry me again but fear rejection. I don't know if she is willing to go that far right now. Do i ask her or not. Plz help

2006-12-13 06:29:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 06:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by rob4zombies 1 in Singles & Dating

i love a girl and would die for her but when i heard she was dating someone else i liked to of died myself cause she knows how i feel about her but i dont know how she feels about me. i need to know that way i can get the girl i love.

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Sex with my partner can be great, but theres times when he feels 'lost in the woods' if you know what i mean. Ive been told its where i get too wet. Is there anything we can do to make it better?

2006-12-13 06:28:25 · 25 answers · asked by SoldiersGirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The big thing about this is that ladies always say they know when a man is cheating. How is it that you know, but men don't? Anyhow, the answers that you give can and will be used against you. LOL

2006-12-13 06:27:45 · 4 answers · asked by The Answer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 06:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is an alcoholic, past drug abuser[[May still be]]
Never holds down a decent job.
Has 5 kids [[3 of which were taken away by social services more than a year ago]]
I just want him to get his life together, but he always takes everything you say to him the wrong way.

2006-12-13 06:26:33 · 4 answers · asked by MuZzZ 4 in Family

if a guy knew that were in a serious relationship with your fiance and that you bought a house together,why would he chase you?

2006-12-13 06:26:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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When I have a cigarette at home (outside of course) my folks will still say I shouldn't be smoking eventhough I'm 23 now. I still do but I get pissed off by the nagging.

Used to be really anti smoking until I was 18 - and even nagged my girlfriend to give up but then started smoking myself. Strange how things work out!

2006-12-13 06:25:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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I find it a horrible thing when I hear a man calls a woman stupid, its really a low blow for a human being to go through don't you think?

2006-12-13 06:24:17 · 26 answers · asked by Brie 2 in Singles & Dating

How did you know her? Did you do it? Did it lead to a relationship?

2006-12-13 06:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Singles & Dating

In high school I was dating the most handsome guy in school. The relationship was going swell. He later suggested that we break up. Although I didn't know why, I agreed with him because my pride wouldn't allow me to let him dump me. He then begins dating a really trashy girl that treated him like ****. What went wrong?

2006-12-13 06:23:35 · 16 answers · asked by Gutta chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently begun seeing a new guy. Both of us have recent ex's. I, thankfully, have completely severed ties with mine -- I will never speak to him again. His ex, unfortunately, turned out to be the psychotic type. She's created different profiles and screen names in effort to find out more information about me since he and I do not live in the same town. I really like this guy. We've hit it off very well, we have a lot of things in common, etc. He's tried to sever ties with her but she refuses to get the hint and may do something drastic to break us up. How should I handle this? I'm a grown woman. Last thing I want to do is end up in some sort of altercation. He assures me that she will never get anywhere near me. Your thoughts?

2006-12-13 06:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by Koko Loco 2 in Singles & Dating

Please answer truthfully t.y.

2006-12-13 06:23:25 · 7 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i dont have enough time for a relationship but this guy that i've been sleeping with said he wants me to be his girlfriend, but i still have three other guys i sleep with....he asked me to let them go so it could just be me and him...what shoudl i do??

2006-12-13 06:22:41 · 14 answers · asked by ladywetherell23 4 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take to get a divorce decree in Nevada when its uncontested and both sign the complaint?

2006-12-13 06:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 06:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen several questions in where people answer a question by using the argument that the father signed the birth certificate so he is “ ……”
I am not aware of any state in which the father actually signs the birth certificate. Does anyone else know of any?

2006-12-13 06:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so heres the situation... i have a cclass with this girl who is a sophomore (im a senior) and i like her... and i kinda et the sense that she likes me.. but there is this total asshole in my class taht just shhots down all of my attempts to talk to her. he is a c**k block... what do i do????

2006-12-13 06:21:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so, my english teacher who I always tease has a major crush on me! Earlier at lunch time, I went into his classroom for a little help (nobody else was there) so I started flirting with him a little bit...he always used to ignore it, but today he actually flirted back! Well, since he's so incredibly HOTT I admit I started to get a little wet...so I did what any girl would do, I sat on his lap. I knew he liked it...so I took his you know what out and started playing with it until he came. Afterwards he wanted to know what I was doing Saturday night! I think he wants to be my boyfriend, but I already have on. So my question is..has anybody ever had 2 lovers at the same time? I love both of them and I couldn't bare to lose either of them :(

2006-12-13 06:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by I <3 boyz 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Less than 6 months
2. More than 6 mo, but less than 2yrs
3. More than 2 yrs

2006-12-13 06:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say the one you love hit you in the face? would you react and hit back or just let it go? My girl hit me in the face and then I hit her three times in the face? Was I wrong?

2006-12-13 06:20:36 · 31 answers · asked by hopie_su_bites 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have only been going out about a week now. Yes, only one week. But, it seems like it has been 3 months already because of all the drama. First, this girl wants to fight me for him (how immature but i can take her) and he admitted that he still has strong feelings for a girl in his tae kwon doe class. He even made sure that it was ok wit her b4 he asked me out. Well, I still like this other guy who is much smarter, hotter, and sweeter than him. But, the prob is the hotter guy does not like me anymore. We are just really good friends. Well, now my bf is really mad at me because I love to flirt. I can't help it. It is a very bad bad habit. Well, over 10 people have told me that they have seen him cheating on me. But my bf says that he cares about me too much to do that. My guy friends are his good friends and they told me to stay wit him. My heart is telling me 2 different things. Please help. I am so lost.

2006-12-13 06:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone out there been through this? I was asked by a friend if I would allow her to have some friends at my place, however, I needed to ride with one guy to show him the way. It was all a set up because she and the others wanted to go somewhere else and she knew I would not want to go, so since she drove that night she asked the guy to take me home, but swore the rest of them would be behind us. Needless to say they never showed. I was told that because I had a few drinks, and I let him in, that I would not have a leg to stand on in court. The detective advised me to drop it. The other guy had been drinking, doing steroids and cocaine (which at the time I did not know). Isn't it sad that as long as you let him in, the guy can do whatever he wants to you and get away with it? I still have a hard time being alone with a man when I first meet someone. It takes a long time to trust.

2006-12-13 06:20:25 · 12 answers · asked by Starlight 4 in Singles & Dating

Why do people make themselves crazy to the point of downloading spyware, checking emails, phone logs etc. on their partner trying to catch them in the act of cheating? if the person hasn't cheated, or even gave you the slightest indication that maybe they are... why drive yourself insane over it? i've been cheated on and i wouldn't do that to the person that i'm with!? so here's my other question; by doing all these things do these people actually think they can stop a person from cheating... or is it that they are maybe just with the wrong person to begin with?

2006-12-13 06:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

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