My bf and I have only been going out about a week now. Yes, only one week. But, it seems like it has been 3 months already because of all the drama. First, this girl wants to fight me for him (how immature but i can take her) and he admitted that he still has strong feelings for a girl in his tae kwon doe class. He even made sure that it was ok wit her b4 he asked me out. Well, I still like this other guy who is much smarter, hotter, and sweeter than him. But, the prob is the hotter guy does not like me anymore. We are just really good friends. Well, now my bf is really mad at me because I love to flirt. I can't help it. It is a very bad bad habit. Well, over 10 people have told me that they have seen him cheating on me. But my bf says that he cares about me too much to do that. My guy friends are his good friends and they told me to stay wit him. My heart is telling me 2 different things. Please help. I am so lost.
2006-12-13 06:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... can't really tell your heart what to think. but honestly, it seems to me like this guy isnt the right guy for you. at least, not now. he has to get over that other girl first. and you flirting, well, that's just who you are. i can already sense problems arising in the future regarding this issue. try and find a guy who isn't going to take control of your life~
2006-12-13 06:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by duthedu818 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him. You guys haven't even been together for a month and drama is already going on. A girl wanting to fight you for him, sounds like she is not going to give up...and you liking this other guy still doesnt help. If you heard he's cheating on you chances are this is true.
2006-12-13 14:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emmi i think you should leave him alone because he is no good he will continue to hurt you trust me i have been through the same thing and the funny thing about it i still love him and cry b'coz of the simple fact he had supposly had left her alone but guess who he is with the other girl and i have found someone who loves me and treat me kind he's special and you can find someone who is special also you just got to let your boy go
2006-12-13 14:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by tee tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have a big dillema to solve in due hasted. i know that girls who like me get mad when i flit=rt with some onw else, but it is just how i am. if i was being cheatecd on, i would look into it but still base all of my decisions on logic and common sense. if it eas from someone who is not a reliable source i would take it for granted not to trust the info. if you have any nore questions i am here to help.
2006-12-13 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bart F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that u are like me not ready for a relationship cause u like to flirt so I say to break it off and keep ur options open for a little bit and try to get the really hot guy to like u again maybe he is the one for u.
2006-12-13 14:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Snickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the door. Won't be too hard, you've only been dating a week. If you love to flirt and you are hearing reports he is dating other girls, you are so not meant to be together. Not seriously, anyway.
2006-12-13 14:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by sportyspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to break it off. If he isn't focusing his attention on you, give him the boot. If he really liked you, he wouldn't have to ask permission from another woman to ask you out. As far as your friend who you like, forget about him too! You need to find a guy who likes you as much as you like him and will treat you with respect.
2006-12-13 14:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by D B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he is going to treat you like that and cheat on you and get another girls permission to date you but then he gets on to you because you like to flirt. i think that you could do way much better than that and go after the one that you really like because you shoud be with the one that makes you more happy. then keeping you on lockdown all the time just because you do something really little.
2006-12-13 14:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jay C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont over think it. it is a BRAND NEW relationship. what are you loosing by calling it quits? 7 days of lovey dovey stuff??? that will come with the next relationship, and it may be better! just let him go!
2006-12-13 14:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ditch him. a guy like that is taking advantage of you. he obviosly wants to stick wit you and go see other people, and then he can come back, wipe his feet on you, and wait for another to fall for his line. like i said, ditch him
2006-12-13 14:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by shady_charisma15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋