Why do people make themselves crazy to the point of downloading spyware, checking emails, phone logs etc. on their partner trying to catch them in the act of cheating? if the person hasn't cheated, or even gave you the slightest indication that maybe they are... why drive yourself insane over it? i've been cheated on and i wouldn't do that to the person that i'm with!? so here's my other question; by doing all these things do these people actually think they can stop a person from cheating... or is it that they are maybe just with the wrong person to begin with?
2006-12-13 06:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont do any of the things i've listed before; (spyware, phone emails) nor do i worry; i just know a lot of people that do this without been given the suspicion first and i can't figure out why....
2006-12-13 06:35:04 · update #1
we are in a society that is obsessed with themselves. which has caused a lot of hurt to others, which has caused people to be on the look out for who will cause them the next heart ache. its a cycle which some enjoy and actually get addicted to. i personally think its infantile. i say ca sara sara what ever will be will be. not sure if i spelled ca sara correctly, but what ever.
2006-12-13 06:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they have insecurities about the relationship. And/or they are not being faithful in the relationship and assume the other person is doing the same. So they want to catch them in the act and use that as a reason to get out. They are looking for a way out of the relationship. I think you should give him a way out, sounds like that's what he wants.
2006-12-13 14:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i belive that it is very hard to be in a long term relationship and not cheat some people don't but there is alot of things on tv that makes men look outside the relationship worry about if he or she really loves you. I'm my daddy's little girl too that's probably why i don't care as long as he protects himself and me. Hell no i don't think it's alright to do but if you do.
2006-12-13 14:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by tanya26c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if you are with someone who is cheating they can leave you with a little more than just a broken heart they can leave you with an std or some other such lovely thing . Do you want to have an std? I think not . That is one of the few reasons to worry about cheating. good luck .
2006-12-13 14:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't worry ...I don't have a boyfriend so why should I worry? hahah ....and yeah! ...I wouldn't worry If I had a boyfriend.. cause if he loved me he wouldn't do that... and if he did it and didn't love me... I would find out and move on,.. period. Well If i'm really into him and he was realllllllyyyyyyyyy sorry ...I would think about it ...we all make mistakes ...that's just a stupid one to make ...but hey,... Life is short as it is long... so just enjoy it and try to be as happy as you can... and "no" i'm not so happy ..but i try! ...but yeah!!!!
2006-12-13 14:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋