This guy and I are developing a really good relationship. I really like him and I can tell that he likes me, but he told me that he mostly hangs out with girls and has a few guy friends. Should I be worried?
2006-12-13 06:04:22 · 6 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummmm, well, I would be concerned. I just know how my relationship has been with my boyfriend. I tend to get jealous easily (I wish I didn't), but I do. If you're not the jealous type, then I guess you'll be okay.
I mean, you can look at it this way. They're probably all taken. Why would he look outside his circle of friends for a girl if he has mostly girl friends? If you can accept that, then you'll be okay.
Again, I tend to get jealous easily, so I would get concerned if say, you got into a serious relationship and he devoted more of his time to them. I mean, even if he had mostly guy friends, he should devote a good majority of his time to you. Not saying it has to be all his time, but you should be important to him if you're going to commit to one another.
Edit: Oh, and the person saying trust is the most important thing in a relationship. I guess it plays an important part, but what about love? Love is the greatest of all things, not trust.
2006-12-13 06:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a girl who is mostly friends with guys I say yes. In any relationship you need to give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't start distrusting before he gives you reason to. A lot of people have issues with this topic, but what it all boils down to is trust, and that is the most important thing in any relationship. Without trust, it's not going to go anywhere but downhill. Hope this helped.
2006-12-13 06:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are guys - if he does not hide it and you meet them there should be no reason to worry.
2006-12-13 06:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my hommie has alot of female friends, alot, however, he ain't slept with not one of them. He has a girlfriend but still it's not like that whenn it comes to his friends.
2006-12-13 06:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by The Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worry if he always introduce them to you ...Means he doesn't have nothing to hide....
2006-12-13 06:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
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2006-12-13 06:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋