so ive never asked before. my girlfriend and I have been having sex for awhile now. Everytime she wants to orgasm she has to play with herself while im standing having sex... Its always been this way since she was a kid? Any ideas on what we can do to make her go without having her play with herself. (NO ITS NOT ME) Also... what can men do to go faster? FOODS? (no drugs or medicines) or alcohol
Thx
2006-12-13 05:58:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of women play with theirself during intercourse, I do. Don't you watch porn (they're educational lol) most of those chicks do it too, most of them are on some extra freak level, but still they're women. Anyway, about "going faster" are you referring to ejaculation? If so, I haven't heard of anything like that, I normally hear about products that make you last LONGER. Why would you want to go faster anyway? Unless of course you're going so long that you're killing the poor girl.
2006-12-14 15:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by kianni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I'm not a sexpert but I think you should just be grateful for the fact that she is climaxing at all and enjoying the sex with you. Only about 30% of women or less reach orgasm through intercourse and the rest of us require manual or oral stimulation directly to the clitoris, so don't sweat it. Do you feel inadequate because she has to pleasure herself to reach orgasm? If you do, that's understandable. Maybe you could ask her to teach you how she touches herself so that you can make her climax.
2006-12-13 06:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of female orgasms, the clitoral and vaginal. They seldom happen at the same time, and it seems that she has never had the experience of having them both at the same time, which would blow her mind if she could. You may want to look up this method of missionary sex that allows for direct clitoral stimulation with the base of the penis, just do some research on google and it shouldn't be a problem to find it and try it out.
2006-12-13 06:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe invest in some vibrators ... I know a lot of women are either scared or nervous to get one ... but once they do - it's great ... if she needs constant stimulation a vibrator might do the trick ... that way she can climax with you in any position ... take her to the store & have her pick one out with you ... they also have c*ck rings - they help you "stay up" and some have little vibrators on them for her too ... my man drank some Monsters & Redbulls the other day and let me tell you ... it was a good few hours of non-stop sex ... position after position ... !
2006-12-13 06:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a higher percentage of women who have to have manual stimulation in order to orgasm versus a woman who can have an orgasm while during intercourse. She is not weird and it has nothing to do with your manhood either. And why would you want to "go" faster? Don't you enjoy it?
2006-12-13 06:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This isn't unusual. Many women do not orgasm without manual or oral stimulation. You can do this for her before you ever start intercourse. And again during. :)
Why do you want to go faster? More foreplay will speed you up. And less masturbation in between sex with her.
2006-12-13 06:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by honey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women just need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasam. Try different positions to see what works best for her, but if nothing does, just go with what works.
BTW since she was a kid? I hope you mean teenager.
2006-12-13 06:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by tabithap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly natural for some women to have to stimulate their clit to orgasm. And as far as how fast you can go, either you have the speed or you don't for many but keep pushing yourself harder to go faster and your speed should improve.
2006-12-13 06:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a mental thing, since she was a child, she probably played with herself in the shower and it became habit for her to *** while standing. Now your in the picture and a sure fire way for her to come is (Well) standing cause she knows she will. That is the only theory that I can conjure up.
2006-12-13 06:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by The Answer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hand cuff her to the bed this time if shes about to *** than ignore it and keep going until she does it might help shes probably so use to only doing it that way time to switch it up!
2006-12-13 06:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋