i have two best friends that are the coolest but they dont really care about eachother. one is samantha and the other is chelsie.chelsie and her ex-boyfriend jason just recently broke up now he wants to get with sam .should i tel chels even though sam told me not to?
2006-12-13 06:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by bridget 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay out of it back off. Don't get involved until everyone knows then be a mediator. If you get involved someone is gonna hate someone.... Plus I think Jason should just leave the picture there... He is just gonna cause trouble.
2006-12-13 06:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sam did you no favors when she told you. Nor is she being honest with Chelsie. Make yourself scarce to Sam. Talk little to Chelsie. When it comes to light Chelsie will understand why you backed down from the situation. Then again I would show Sam this. Maybe she will get a conscience and apologize to you. And tell Chelsie herself. That would be the right thing for her to do. Good luck.
2006-12-13 14:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel that same thing happen to my two friends, I would really tell your friend chelsie beacuse she should know, even if they are broken up she should know if some other girl is trying to get with her man. Or if her ex is trying to get with another girl. No matter what your bring a good friend for telling her or keeping your promise with sam. GOOD Luck
2006-12-13 14:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Sam not to put you in the middle and I would have a talk with both my friends and tell them how much you like both of them and don't want to be put in the middle of this mess and to please respect your decision. I always make it a point to tell my friends if they are going to talk about another friend..if its not something that can be said in front of everyone..I don't want to hear it.
2006-12-13 14:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by brightstarrs7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get involved if I were you. If you think your going to make things better, well think again. Just wait until the other girl finds out, and if she ask just pretend like you didn't know. If you can get away with pretending like you didn't know just say, " I think so?" and act clueless. These girls are going to get at it and this is just the beginning of the drama.
2006-12-13 14:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itd be smart to tell chels...but you have to be ready for sam to get mad, and if your not ready, just let it happen, but it sounds like your in a pickle...its a tough decison, but either way really, someone will get mad at you.
2006-12-13 14:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by jlynn2315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in between a rock and a hard place...which ever person means the most to you is the one that you protect...if you tell you will loose one if you do not tell you could loose the other..
2006-12-13 14:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by iamhhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not place yourself in the middle of this cause in the end they will both be mad at you.Tell SAM that she needs to tell Chelsie or you will and ask her never to ask you to lie to your other friends for her.It's not right that she would place you in such a position.And good luck.
2006-12-14 21:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u care about u and your 2 other best friend u would tell,cause if u don't when they go out it's going to come right back on u and they both going to talk about u,your going to be sorry and bad at yourself.just tell and take ur self out.
2006-12-13 14:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by ~DaNcE pRo~ TaKeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. Let the guy tell her or the other friend tell her. But, it's best for you to stay out of it. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-13 14:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋