Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

i recently told the guy i like how i felt abt him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now" & then we talked for more than an hour abt everything & he opened upto me a lot.after that night,he never came online.

the wierd thing was my personal msg said "it's now or never" & as my friend told me his was "are you the now or never kind?",but i think he was on invisible mode.

the other wierd thing was what his best friend told me.he told me that my crush had said that he thought abt me & then he added that when my crush get's beetter"things may happen" & that there's something else too which he doesn't want to reveal.

bear in mind that my crush does speak to me sometimes but it's hard cos it's an awkward situation.the conversation i had with him the night i told him was the best & he was really sweet abt everything.

thanks for all your answers :^)

2006-12-11 08:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on your toothbrush.. sweep, vacuum the house, remove the garbage..clean the dishes... send the kids to school.. Cook all the meals for the day.. pay the mortagage and all the bills.. before going to work make you sit up in front of the telly... WOULD YOU STILL WANT SEX FROM ME... AND IF I COULD NOT WOULD YOU CHEAT ON ME?

2006-12-11 08:59:04 · 6 answers · asked by Saddam 1 in Singles & Dating

i told this boy i like him (in a note) he read it and threw it in the trash can. he didnt say anything. then i said, "so u wanna go out or not?" and he said NO!!! i was so embarassed i blurted out "it was a joke stupid" but it really wasnt, i still want him to be my freind but i dont know if he will be. he's also freinds wiht my x, and me and my x are like best freinds. if he tells my x, i'll totally be embarased? what do i do? i still like him!!

2006-12-11 08:58:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'v heard that guys last longer in bed? is that true? and if so why is that?

2006-12-11 08:58:19 · 29 answers · asked by Carlee 1 in Singles & Dating

Sleeps with your ex-boyfriend when she knew the two of you were together??

2006-12-11 08:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does he like me or not??
I really really like this guy and I want to be sure that he likes me. He always stared into my eyes and smiled and tried really hard to get along with me and be nice when we first met. He has given me loads of compliments and smiles and winks a lot. Recently there was one other person in the room with us and he was really praising me up and speaking really softly and sweetly about me. The other guy left and we were alone. He asked me if I liked the other guy and I said no and he looked pleased. Recently though he won't meet my gaze when I walk in the room but he is smiling and looking at the floor and I know he is pleased to see me. He also acts nervous now when he is talking to me and he was very confident in the beginning. He is nearly falling over himself to help me with stuff and has told me quite personal stuff that you wouldn't tell just anybody.
My friend saw us together and says he loves me now and hes so sprung. Do you agree?

2006-12-11 08:57:26 · 15 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 08:57:13 · 2 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a littl4e nervous what should i do about that?

2006-12-11 08:57:07 · 5 answers · asked by cynthia g 1 in Singles & Dating

you're hot, let's get it on!

2006-12-11 08:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. Our relationship started out great just like any other would, and his house is only a block away from my own, so we basically see each other everyday. His family loves me, my family loves him, we're happy with each other. It's so far been one of my best relationships.

The problem is, he's happy with me, but he says we argue about stupid stuff all the time. And I agree with him. We do argue, alot, over little things. Most of time, I can admit, it's my fault. I get jealous, I get curious, I assume things, etc. I love this man and I want to make him happy.

How can I keep our little fights to a minimum? I just want it all to stop! Help?

2006-12-11 08:56:59 · 3 answers · asked by dorkybitca 1 in Singles & Dating

I HATE holidays and my family and friends are pressuring me into doing things. I really don't want anything for christmas but then they get all mad and I don't like celebrating things since my Grandpa died because it just isn't the same with out him. I am also afraid of getting to deep into relationships, so I've broken all them off within a week because I'm afraid to lose again and I'm sick of crying myself to sleep everynight and nobody noticing that somethings wrong. I want to talk to someone but I can't with anyone in my family and none of my friends seem to care, don't have the money for a therapist, so got any ideas of who i could talk to?? please help

2006-12-11 08:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by roxychyk 1 in Family

My birthday is in 18 days/

2006-12-11 08:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by Little SC 1 in Family

Ever since having my daughter I have had some severe self-image issues. I mean I had them prior to pregnancy but now they are soo bad I'm becoming paranoid about my husband being faithful and it's driving him nuts. Some of the things he does lead me to suspicions, like changing the passwords to his e-mails, and working late without calling me to let me know he's staying late. Not to mention he has started dropping weight left and right. I am still struggling to lose my baby weight and feel so unattractive that I can't blame if he is cheating. I feel horrible for being so possessive and paranoid but at the same time I'm justifying it by his activities. I just want him to be honest with me and he keeps saying nothing is going on. I want to believe him but it's so hard. My father cheated on my mother when she didn't lose her baby fat and I'm afraid it's going to happen to me too! How do I fix these feelings and make myself sane again?

2006-12-11 08:55:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter 7 cries till vomiting because she does not want to go to her dads. We have been divorced 3 years.He gets her Wed-Sun 1,3,5 week.If he is not out of town working. I do not feel he is physically abusing her( I have ask my daughter and she says no) but I question the mental abuse. ie.. asking questions about me and what is going on at home. When she says I do not know he says she is lieing etc.... Then she wants to call me and will not let her because she wants to come home.I know when we were together he micromanage mine and my sons lives. He was verbally and a couple of times he was physically abusive to my son. The very reason I left. My heart breaks when I see her like this.I live in TX. Does my daughter have to go?Can I bring him back to court to change visitation? Or will I be waisting my time? What should I do. Help!

2006-12-11 08:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by chris3sim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Money
Sex
In-Laws
Children
House Chores

2006-12-11 08:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at a party a few nights ago with this girl i really like, weve been flirting baackand forth for awhile. She had to be home not too long after i got there, so i offered her a ride. I pulled of in front of her house and we basically went at each other simotaneously deep kissing.for a minute or so. It was really hot and totally left my head spinnin. We went back to school today and it just seemed awkard and we didnt even really tlk or anything. I REALLY like this girl and ill be around her a lot more tom, what should i say to her?

2006-12-11 08:53:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm 18 and she's 17. We're both in high school (different schools) First off, she's a Satanist so she thinks differently than other people. (im guessing) We met two weeks ago. It was my other friends birthday and we all went to the movies. She is her best friend. While at the restaurant, we were on one side of the booth, just us two. (1st hint) Afterwards, we were off by ourselves on the swings just talking. (2nd hint) I got her myspace and ever since then we've been talking at least twice a day. She changed her relationship status from "married" to "single." (3rd hint) We've been talking about movies, books, etc What we both have in common. She asked me to do her some BIG favors. She wants me to buy her some Satanic stuff online and she'll give me the money for it. She's wants a pendent, and some satanic bibles, books, etc. She can't take them home because her parents don't know she's a satanist (they're catholic). She said I am one of the only people she can trust with her stuff.

2006-12-11 08:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while i was getting my shitttt pushed in, ah.....well i pooped on him. im embarrassed. i like this guy. how do i ever face him again.

2006-12-11 08:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he ends up hitting me. I've tried to encourage him for marriage cancelling but he gives me excuses.

2006-12-11 08:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by wasach 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were away and you came home to find that your mate was in another relationship. Having drug/sex parties in your house. Trashed your car, stole all of your money, locked your dogs in the garage for several days without food, ripped off your family and friends for thousands of dollars and ranyour company into the ground while working for another company without your knowledge? Also you find out that all the money you have given him for his child support payments were never received by the ex-wife. What would you do to this man?

2006-12-11 08:52:06 · 38 answers · asked by darrellkern 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 08:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this boy that I like but every body in the 4th grade hate him. He likes me But he dont no i like him. How can I go out with him without Anybody knowing?

2006-12-11 08:51:13 · 11 answers · asked by JeSsE McCaRTnEy Is HoT! 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like my best friend's boyfriend, and i've always liked him, and he knows i've always like him. she just asked him out first though. now i have no idea what to do and i don't know how to tell her (i have to tell her cause we're best friends and we tell eachother everything.). and we sit with him at lunch and she wants to break up with him. what should i do?

2006-12-11 08:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Ella M 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont believe in santa, im in 9th grade, seriousily i dont, but i dont know how to tell my mom and dad without making them sad , should i tell them or not??

what should i say if i tell them?
i think they kinda know i know but still....


thanks!!

2006-12-11 08:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-11 08:49:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i have known each other for a year and a half. we have been dating for 7 months. he has been overseas the last 3 months of our relationship.. we have gotten ALOT closer in the past 3 months and he is coming home soon. we have talked about what it would be like to marry each other and he never gets scared when i bring up topics like where i would like to get married, how many kids i want to have .. etc. he actually puts in his opinions instead of running away. is this normal behaviour for men ready to marry, or is this just his way of making it obvious that he wants me around for awhile without intent to marry?

2006-12-11 08:49:30 · 18 answers · asked by aidiagreen 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this guy named nathan,(people call him nate), and it seems like he's cheating on me, but not. Because there is girl named Katie in my class and she's short and blonde and popular and blah blah blah and he used to go out with her but she dumped him. but now he's like touching her butt and like flirting with her and I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. I have his number but he like never talks to me and like never asked for my number and I don't want to break up with him but then again I do. Should I?

2006-12-11 08:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by ♫Lauryn♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and never been kissed - I just started going out with this guy (my first boyfriend) He's kinda shy - what o you think kinda the average time of going out is before the first kiss - should i be nervous - i know i would be his first too!

2006-12-11 08:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

really into kinky sex any suggestions on really hot things to try...pleez be more creative than handcuffs

2006-12-11 08:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does she like me or not?

2006-12-11 08:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by µMeGA WaTT 3 in Singles & Dating