My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. Our relationship started out great just like any other would, and his house is only a block away from my own, so we basically see each other everyday. His family loves me, my family loves him, we're happy with each other. It's so far been one of my best relationships.
The problem is, he's happy with me, but he says we argue about stupid stuff all the time. And I agree with him. We do argue, alot, over little things. Most of time, I can admit, it's my fault. I get jealous, I get curious, I assume things, etc. I love this man and I want to make him happy.
How can I keep our little fights to a minimum? I just want it all to stop! Help?
2006-12-11 08:56:59 · 3 answers · asked by dorkybitca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to work on yourself....not him....ur insecure about him leaving u or something...just dont be....trust him...love him...be theer for him...and hell never leave
2006-12-11 09:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by theinnocencenextdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't assume things. Check them out. Tell him what you are thinking about things he has said, or how his actions seem to you. Don't get zealous over little things, it just drives people away. Most of all communicate, talk about what is bothering you. Don't argue, talk; and most of all do not make any nasty, cutting, sarcastic remarks in front of other people. Talk in private.
Lastly, don't take the blame things are not necessarily your fault, it usually takes two.
2006-12-11 17:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by irongrama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then grow up and stop acting like a spoiled brat. if your mature enough to know its your fault but not mature enough to say so and say your sorry then your NOT mature enough to have a boyfriend yet.
2006-12-11 17:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋