Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Okay, I have decided, after much consideration, to write my best guy friend, who I love though he has a girlfriend, explaining my feelings to him, though he already knows I like him. Who thinks that this is a good decision and what should I include in the letter?

2006-12-11 09:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol. This is my boyfriends account, looking forward to him seeing the answers!

2006-12-11 09:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you married or date a guy who makes less than you but you two have just barely enough money combined for the basic needs like rents foods and bills to pay ?


let s say you two are compatible for each other....and wants to be together for richness or poverty till death do you part

2006-12-11 09:30:22 · 3 answers · asked by tritran5555(poetri) 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a first date on friday night, while dancing I have a ***** and she felt it....what is she thinking right now...???

2006-12-11 09:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by pepeltoro 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:29:47 · 21 answers · asked by pochoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when im in a bad mood bc of my bf (which is going on now). I cant stand those couples that are like "oh, im sooo happy we have a fantastic relationship" or do u really think i want to see or hear ppl calling their significant others pooh bear or cupcake...NO. argh im not really this angry all the time just right now...what do u think

2006-12-11 09:29:31 · 17 answers · asked by raelynn 3 in Singles & Dating

some dates tell me "if we re going to do this you have to be my boyfriend" or "i want to have your baby" all of this on the first date! get real!

2006-12-11 09:29:28 · 5 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am good friends with my neighbor of 5 years. We've been out to clubs together a few times, loaned each other money on occasion, basically have had each others back from day one. My problem is we both are single parents with 4 children each, roughly around the same age. I teach my children to respect others and to pick thier battles, stay out of messy he-siad, she-said drama. However her children fight constantly and start alot of mess. Initially in the begining our children got along, but as time has passed, her teachings to her children clash with how I raise my kids, which means that our children clash. While my children are no punks, I tell them to walk away unless provoked. Her children like to instigate situations and provoke to give them a reason to fight. She condones at times, I don't. As parents of these children, it puts us in the middle because we are good friends. I'm ready to say good-bye to the friendship because of her parenting techniques. What do you think

2006-12-11 09:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am worried. Is this a sign she is cheating or is she just having fantasies. She won't even talk like she does when I hear her having these dreams...it is talking and mouth movements and sucking sounds....I mean, dreams aren't proof, but I heard that dreams that real are life reenactments, things that happened even on the same day, rem sleep doesn't usually afford such detail and last 5-10 minutes like that...help me out...anyone else with this experience. It seems it is only oral, it happens usually when we aren't sexually active...

2006-12-11 09:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by DigitDugout 1 in Singles & Dating

4 example like when u get off the phone with her ...or off AIM or in text...& n person...??? does he mean it???

2006-12-11 09:27:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been in a disagreement with a sibling and they stopped talking to you? Despite leaving them emails, phone messages and what not they are determined to ignore you? WHat did you do to get that realtionship back or did you just let them come around on tehir own terms?

Long story short- got into an arguement via email over holiday plans that sibling was bugging about. said a few things that werent mean but they thought they were. I apologized even though i did not feel like i was in the wrong but i havent heard anything from that person in over a week even though my trying to communicate.

whats your thought on this?

2006-12-11 09:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Family

And he has taught them and them about family virutes and here is turnign his back cold like they were dead now. I do not understand that how can a parent do that. He was caught cheating on me and I faced him faced to face and then he does this he can not even return their calls but for a while he was favoring the oldest and now he has turned cold on him. Can someone help me understand this man, because I do not.(SAD)

2006-12-11 09:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Family

I hate the way I am- I am jealous of my boyfriend's girl friends. HELP!

2006-12-11 09:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok for a woman over 50 to go clubbing What do u think?

2006-12-11 09:25:35 · 10 answers · asked by maryjane 1 in Singles & Dating

Me - 35 yrs old.
The guy that I "just sleep with" stood me up for a date! He is 37, obnoxious disrespectful spoiled jerk (unfortunately he was awesome in bed - then again, so was I). Anyway, I texted him to let him know that I was ticked, along with everything I had tried to do, he pulls this disrespectful sh**!!! - Told him that I was 'hoping' that he would be man enough to keep his word for our date, sure enough he doesn't - he made the freakin date!!!; just told him to "have a nice life" (sex was starting not to be so good anymore anyway). He texts a response of "OK" the next day.

What is the likelihood that this idiot will call back later on?

PS - I am NOT waiting for his call. I AM NOT TRYING TO GET HIM BACK! - I told him to step. I just want to know if after this cowardly act if he will have the nerve to try to come back? And if so, why...

2006-12-11 09:25:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i bought my girlfriend an expensive DKNY watch for christmas when we both had set ourselfs limits on the amount we'd spend. now i'm debating weather i should return it or not because it was somewhat of a splurr of the moment, but i wouldn't say i regret it. but still i dont want her to feel like her presents wont be as good or something of the sort and i know shed be happy with any other gift. any ideas?

2006-12-11 09:25:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now she wants me to phuck her just to get back, and possibly become phucking partners. She is a knock-out, and said I can do anthing I want to her. Shall I?, and If I do, should I bust on her face, since she said her husband has never thought of that?

2006-12-11 09:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single lady living with a male lodger. The bedrooms are next door. He made a comment the other day that I should tighten the legs on my bed as he can hear them creaking during the night and its disturbing him.
This is happens because I am playing with my toyz.
Should I forgo my nightly pleasures or care more about my lodger's needs?

2006-12-11 09:23:56 · 14 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been a weightlifter for bout 5 yrs. I have muscular arms and chest but for some reason i can't get the ladies. I am a good looking dude too. Does anyone want to talk to me? Please help.

2006-12-11 09:23:25 · 9 answers · asked by Grant C 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for the past 3 yrs. i love him very much and he loves me too. We spend everyday and somtimes everynight together. Should be proceed with our wedding date June 12, 2007. He and his wife will be divorced in january?

2006-12-11 09:23:23 · 16 answers · asked by Ivy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Iam 17 and i just had sex with a 28 year old whom i met saturday and i had sex with him today i feel so low i wasnt planning on it he starting kissing me and i just feel into it i feel so bad i just had alot on my mind when i did it but i feel so stupid knowing i know i will never have a relationship with him.

2006-12-11 09:22:25 · 25 answers · asked by marie 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean does everyone just have one soulmate for that lifetime , and if so what if the relationship doesn't work will there be another soulmate out there to replace that one

2006-12-11 09:22:07 · 11 answers · asked by francesca_rbnson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are guys afraid to ask the mean girls out??

2006-12-11 09:21:57 · 25 answers · asked by Cutie Pie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband tend to be very ho hum and just wants to do it and be done. I've tried throwing him hints to what I like and it never worked. So finally I told him. and we had one halfway decent night of sex, and that was it. I never tell him I don't want to have sex as much cause I don't enjoy it. I just fake it . I would never want to hurt him or make him feel bad. He also tend to well...Let go so fast... how can i help him last longer?
Any suggestions on spicing it up or making him last longer would be SO Helpful!
Thanks so much!

2006-12-11 09:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by Star[TRON] 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girls dad is not too keen on me...perhaps it was because I told him "I understand that no man likes the idea of some guy pounding his daughter, but if someone is going to it may as well be me." He said that if I went near her again he would tell my parole officer that I was doing things that I was not...well I recorded our conversation and I want to have him arrested and tossed in prison for blackmail and extortion but I really like my girl and I have a feeling that if her dad has to do 10-15 because of me that might hurt the relationship...the funny thing was that it was a joke, and she is 26 years old...oh well what should I do?

2006-12-11 09:21:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Half of my friends know and they are the ones that I want to know, but I want to tell my mom and dad so I don't have to try to hide me and my gf kissing when she is over. Please help.

2006-12-11 09:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by citygirl 3 in Friends

I have a wonderful 13 year old son named Steven, who is just the joy of my life. For the past few months, he's been a penpal with an older 49 year-old gentleman named Walter who's currently encarcerated in the Alabama State Prison. I think my son got Walter's address off of one of those prison penpal websites.

He and Walter have become fast and dear friends, they write to each other all the time. In fact, the other day Steven told me that Walter wants him to visit him at the prison. I think this would be a great opportunity to meet his friend.

The only problem is that I can't drive Steven 60 miles to the prison. I have a demanding career at the Piggly-Wiggly and can't take the time off (I'm a single-mom). Steven told me that he could take the bus, but I'm just afraid that he's too young to ride all that time by himself on a bus.

I'm afraid he'll get lost. Do y'all think that a 13 year old is old enough to ride the bus alone for 2+ hours

2006-12-11 09:20:49 · 31 answers · asked by LeeAnne 1 in Family

well my guy friend & me had gottin really close we even hinted around at being more than just friends ! but the other day he got mad at me for a really dumb reason & he hasnt talked to me in like 5 or 6 days & i was jus wonderin when yall would give up i mean i try to act like it doesnt bother me but it DOES !!!!!!! so any help would be nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-11 09:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love someone very much, she loves me also, but her parents are not aggry with marriage, I am presently very far from from him, i plan to do coat marraige but my parents refuse to do coat marraige, what i do now, can i marry her againest our both parents, for this I have to come to India and search for suitable job and then i marry her, what i do

2006-12-11 09:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by sam 1 in Marriage & Divorce