Iam 17 and i just had sex with a 28 year old whom i met saturday and i had sex with him today i feel so low i wasnt planning on it he starting kissing me and i just feel into it i feel so bad i just had alot on my mind when i did it but i feel so stupid knowing i know i will never have a relationship with him.
2006-12-11 09:22:25 · 25 answers · asked by marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want people on here to get the impression that iam a slut becuz iam not i just got caught up with his charm and looks i just feel so bad i feel like a slut..
2006-12-12 00:09:08 · update #1
What's done is done, don't worry about it, just learn from it and promise yourself to be much more carefull for now on.
2006-12-11 09:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I feel bad for you.. It happens to everyone. Go buy a nice shirt or go to starbucks and get a hot chocolate with extra whipped cream. Do anything to get your mind off of him. Don't worry, it's no big deal. I know you must feel like an idiot, but just remember that you're not. Try not to do it again, but if you do don't blame yourself since it's your emotions that carried you away. Maybe you should hang out wih your age group. But go have a big hot chocolate at Starbucks... Don't have beer because it will make you upset and you might do the mistake in the question again. Oh, you're 17 so you can't drink anyway... GOOD LUCK!
and happy holidays!
2006-12-11 09:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Monkey Refridgerator! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you are feeling bad is because you "know" you won't get to have him again? A 17 yo can get a 28 yo to do it again any day of the week. Then two times will be a relationship right?
2006-12-11 09:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to face the consequence's that you are 17 and the partner is 28....what you should really be worried about is;if that person used protection or not,and if not are you going to get pregnant!Good luck and i hope he used protection for your saftey.
2006-12-11 09:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you felt it was ok to have sex with him as a person then its fine....if you were uncomfortable with him and felt strange around him and now regret what happened then people may feel your a slag as its a 1 nyt stand with someone you dint even wnaa have sex with...but age doesnt matter.... i kno a girl whos in a happy relationship with a 22 year old and shes 16 x they are lovely together and wud du nefink to be together forever...if you wanted to then its fine darling xxxxxxxx HayleyJade xxxxxxxx
2006-12-11 09:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow where do you live? If that is all it takes to get with you, a little kissing then lets meet up!!! Hopefully you made sure he wrapped his junk up and you didnt get preggers or an STD...age has nothing to do with the problem here, its your own impulsiveness...
2006-12-11 09:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in high school, and he must of been a pervert! sigh, what is done is done. Don't feel proud that you did it just for doing it. Shame and just watch out next time, learn to say no and learn to reject. I'm sure your esteem is better!
2006-12-11 09:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens every day. You are young and he is probably an experienced player. DON'T let it happen again. Hope no pregnancy or disease has occured. You will get over it in time. Good luck.
2006-12-11 09:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be taking advantage of you so stay away from him. This is obviously bothering you so you need to stop it now, it's illegal anyway--you are one year from being of legal age and he should know better.
2006-12-11 09:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but what is done is done and nothing can change that but you can, so try not to get in a relationship like this again.
2006-12-11 09:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by pay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋