I hate the way I am- I am jealous of my boyfriend's girl friends. HELP!
2006-12-11 09:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all: congratulations! To admit that you have a problem and that its serious and you need help its the biggest challenge. Most girls just justify their jaelous behavior instead of adknowledging there is something wrong with them. First you need to find out what makes you jaleous: past experiences? low self esteem? little confidence? parents/relatives verbal abuse? whichever is the reason you need to focus on it as the main issue instead of targeting your guy for it.
Now you need to understand that he is with you. He is not dating his female friend/s, he is dating you. Thats what I tell my crazy jaelous fiancee. Yes, I got engaged to a crazy jaelous one. I love her and I have seen she is working on her issue. I mean, its not perfect and every now and then I have to remind her of it, but she is trying as hard as she can and I make sure she is aware that I understand is an issue and that I will do my best to make her burden easier to bare.
Unless he is a player and a cheater, I would not worry about it and since you are jaelous you cant tell this, ask close friends and people who know him to tell you what they think about him. Let them decide. Good luck
2006-12-11 09:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to reject an emotion? It's alright to be jealous, it reminds you that you're not perfect. Try and remember this as often as you can and remember what you're jealous about, it's not the perfect plan, but ask why you're jealous and admit it, even admit it to your bf's girl friends it might help. Anyway what are you jealous about?
2006-12-11 09:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your bf is going to leave you for these other girls? If so you don't trust him. Thats the simple truth. You just don't trust him. So maybe you guys don't know each other the way you should to be in a relationship. I know it sux something terrible to be alone. But its better to be sure of your partner. Maybe you have some issues with trusting him becuz you were hurt before possibly by him or other guys. If by him you haven't forgave him completely if by another guy...you can't hold that against him. You have to let it go either way. Plus if he wanted to be with these girls he wouldn't be with you.
2006-12-11 09:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you never had a relationship? maybe that's why. if you did,you can be more confident and remember those past relationships led you to him;that's why you're together. be happy for now and don't dwell in the past. you have a history and so does he.
2006-12-11 09:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by christina p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be confident in yourself and know that you are the bomb... you are beautiful and don't let anyone tell you diffrent
2006-12-11 09:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mz.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your self esteeeem
2006-12-11 09:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by T <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST HAVE TO GROW UP A BIT
2006-12-11 09:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
therapist
2006-12-11 09:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yourself to chill. then do it.
2006-12-11 09:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋