My husband tend to be very ho hum and just wants to do it and be done. I've tried throwing him hints to what I like and it never worked. So finally I told him. and we had one halfway decent night of sex, and that was it. I never tell him I don't want to have sex as much cause I don't enjoy it. I just fake it . I would never want to hurt him or make him feel bad. He also tend to well...Let go so fast... how can i help him last longer?
Any suggestions on spicing it up or making him last longer would be SO Helpful!
Thanks so much!
2006-12-11 09:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by Star[TRON] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THERE IS MEDICINES VIAGRA TO GO GOOD SEX. TELL HIM TO USE THE TABLET WHEN EVER YOU WANT TO ENJOY WITH HIM.
2006-12-11 15:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surprise and the good old standbye "less is more" will help bring some spice back into your sex life. No underwear and a skirt he can reach up inside (invite him). Leave your bra off or get a great push up bra with low neck top. Sexy underwear, esp crotchless panties, thongs. Greet him (when he comes home, at his office) naked under your coat. Give him a b/j in the car. Unzip him in the movie and give him a handjob. Let him know you want him, that you're excited and aroused. Call him through the day to remind him about that. Your own excitement and enthusiasm for sex with him will turn you both on.
2016-05-23 06:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to make it last longer,that i can thing of,is more for play. to spice it up go to a mall and find the store Spencers they have advice books. and make him want you.try having him take you out to eat and you wear some lingeri under a coat so when he asks why you dont take off your coat give him a peak and it'll be like BAM! Good luck!
2006-12-11 09:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_punk_rocker_bitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you can do to make it last longer is take the top position. This will allow you to control the pace.
Watch some **** together and point out what you like. If he still doesn't take the hint, take charge. Lead him.
2006-12-11 09:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever both of you going for sex, do you prepare yourself priorly. How much time spent your husband in touching you and rubbing your body before entering in your vegina. How much your lips and fingure close to his **** before sex.
Total mean is talk about sex as much you can with husband and first prepare both of with help romance. Enjoy touching very personal part of body each other as much u can before going sex.
First feel sex in body and then do it. Make more practice for go long…..
Have enjoy full married and sex life
Take care
2006-12-11 20:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by gol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only reason I can think of is lack of foreplay. Some women take time in warming up. Typical indian husband does not care much about wife's desires. I would recommend spending more time in foreplays. Kissing, lying naked on bed and having ****** chats, touching and caressing will warm up your desires. Also, if he has problem with premature ejaculation, he can do kiegel exercises to strengthen his pelvic muscles so that he can control his ejaculation. Meanwhile, you should practice masterbation so that you can time your orgasm with his.
It has worked on us.
2006-12-13 14:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by havefunguy31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk him what he likes.. do oral if he likes... if he likes lesbians.. no dont jump in the bed with ur gf.. just call her over and get close to her, chat with her and hug her.. he will be hottt...wear sexy outfits for him.. roam around naked if he likes.. have bath together.. go on a holiday with him ... stop and start.. that will make him last.. watch videos ...watch sexy pics... Hey and why du fake? use toys.. but get happiness
Thats v v important!!
2006-12-12 07:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by adventurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret is in getting into the mood together...
****** talk, good foreplay, and a good position for the coitus and a satisfying after play are the secret ingradients!!!
Music, fragrances, etc add to the ambience...
2006-12-11 19:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get some **** and teach him oral . try sex daily even in days if you can , let him talk on even little issuse on sex or you try first so that you both get to know where the problem is . and then try to sort that out with a good doctor or any other best way you know
2006-12-11 14:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to do certain exercises, but he needs to know without hurting. So it is catch 22.
You said you fake it . so fake so he would change the techniques.
Say a back ace. Go on the side.
2006-12-11 09:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few websites that could be useful... And there are some great things to get from sex shops that can help...
Teach him how you like oral done on you... :D And do the same yourself... :D
2006-12-11 09:25:23 · answer #11 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋