Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Please Help!

2006-12-11 09:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by Tierney T 1 in Family

there is this 11th grader and his name is dustin and he is super nice but my mom says im way too young im in 9th grade. every time we go to harps he always flirts with me like no matter what even if my friend is wtih me and shes really pretty and way talller than me but he still flirts so the question is that does he like me and what should i do?

2006-12-11 09:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by bored 2 in Singles & Dating

We had a conflict over some texts in his cell & he set most of them straight, admitting he was wrong for saying certain things to girls. There's 1 who he's being unclear about & he offered to let me call her (2 shut me up). He claims it's his bros chick & he texted her from my BF's phone, but theres some things said that made it UNMISTAKABLE that it was my BF. He seemed shocked that I wanted to & got all funny acting. He called, she didnt answer. When she called RIGHT back, he picked up said "I'm getting something straight with my girl", & hung up right away. What happened 2 me talking 2 her?!?!? I asked the next day 2 call her again, & he got all defensive, saying "I thought we had a long talk last night 2 get this behind us. What are you worried about? I can see now this never going to die! I'm tired of this." (Keep in mind this is our 1st EVER conflict and we've been a couple for a couple months now, but have been "seeing" each other since Aug(both early 20's). What would you think?

2006-12-11 09:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met several years ago briefly and became good friends through exchanging many hundreds of emails since. I am married; he's not although he's had two serious romances in that time. Recently he closed an email with "Ily, (and then his name)." I didn't respond to that, thinking he did it inadvertently. He hasn't done it since. What to think?

2006-12-11 09:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by aeh2323 1 in Singles & Dating

just want to know the avg 4 health class

2006-12-11 09:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by diamond_mlb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well im with this boy i lik him alot he even told me he loved me and i dont say that alot but i lik him alot and im lieing to him i told him i wus one age which is really just one year older than me and i told him i was in 2 grades higher than me and he told me he would never go with a girl that is my real age and he invited me to go to thing called winter formal its like prom but its not beacuse you get to dress up in long gowns and tux's and your supose to be in a certain grade to go but he asked me so i dont know im not sure to tell him the truth or keep it a seceret?

Also if i do go and i dont know anybody what do I do i no he wont want me to like stalk him the whole time?

2006-12-11 09:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by aliciakey75 1 in Singles & Dating

Just hoping to get some good answers.

2006-12-11 09:47:04 · 3 answers · asked by arb 2 in Singles & Dating

well my girlfriend is 17years old and doesnt know hat to do with her life and i tell here to ask people and ask for help all of them things i have told her. she takes biology, english language, spanish and psychology and she has been getting u in boilogy and she says she doesnt like getting them she wants to do better and her parents think that she could do better if she revisee but she does alot of it and she got 8 bs in gcse and 5 c s and her parents think she could have done better. so nothing is good enoguh for them and she wants to at least get c s so help!!!

2006-12-11 09:46:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my best guy firend . we where talking hanging aorund foolin on the computer. and he typed i love u . and he says he loves me so much . i was so happy he made me lol so hard today . i don't know im so cunfused ?

2006-12-11 09:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, Well actually , there is a girl in my school, who is really cute and I really like her. and I am also pretty sure that she does'nt have any boyfriend. but she knows a lot of boy, because guys come around her everytime. so my question is that this last week, when she saw me in school, she gave her cute smile and says hi to me! and I think that, she wants to tell me something.

SO I would really want to know: that what doest that mean? does she like me? if she does, so why she pick me among those other handsome and "cool" guys?

2006-12-11 09:46:26 · 10 answers · asked by Tim Loves you All! 1 in Singles & Dating

he has done things in the past to make me break up with him, but i didnot do it. so his sister spotted lots of times huging, kissing this girl and i did not find out antil today. my heart wanted to bleed when i found out. All i ever did was stod by his side even when people said bad things about him and know this.my soul has died thousand times for his ***. I did stuff that no other girl has not ever done for him. Gave him love when no one elsewas not giving the love he deseved. we ha d plans of some day getting married and having kis know i see that wil never happen for me ever

2006-12-11 09:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello. I have living with this guy for three years and engaged for one of those years. In the very beginning, he was terrific in bed. Then, slowly, the foreplay started to become less and less until one day ( at the eight month mark) we didn't have sex for two months. Ever since then I usually have to initiate and when I do he rejects me nine times out of ten with excuses like - I ate too much, my stomache hurts, I'm tired...ect. If he actually does want to, he just lies there and says I should just hop on top and I get no foreplay! I haven't been pleased in 2 and half years! I have mentioned this to him repeadedly and I have not seen any changes. He says I don't need foreplay - but I do. Also, he says I don't initiate - but I do! And when I do he has even said at times - 'oh that's a lame way of initiating!' and says I should give him foreplay if I want some. Is he trying to say I suck in bed? I also noticed he spends alot of time with a male friend - Tim. Gay? Is it me?

2006-12-11 09:46:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to but a gift for my friend who lives in england. She is 13 years old, loves cats and it needs to be a small gift i can send from america to england

any ideas?

2006-12-11 09:45:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I happen to think the stigma is somewhat similiar. I feel somewhat ashamed to admit I'm a virgin and have had some teasing about it from people. It seems that a guy is always looked up to if he has had a lot even though I've heard attitudes about that are changing. But I still hear a lot of 'S.lut Talk' and mainly from women. It seems like this: guy who hasn't slept around gets derided for being a virgin, gal that sleeps around gets derided as a s.lut.

2006-12-11 09:45:31 · 26 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my EX broke up. reason is sapce, but shes telling me that where going to get back together. we talk over msn/ ttxt and sometimes talk over the phone. But i think this is stupid cause its killing us both inside. What should i do to keep this relationship..

2006-12-11 09:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was previously in a high school relationship with my ex, we have have already broken up twice and it hasn't even been a month? I recently found out that he was suicidal and that every time a girl breaks up with him he threatens to kill himself and his 1 year old daughter. I also had heard that he might also kill me as well. I didnt believe the rumors until this morning. Every since Thursday he has been trying to get back with me. (We broke up Wednesday.) Today he threatened to jump of the balcony today in the hallway while i was standing right there just to prove his love to me. Luckily he got down before doing so, but I am really scared for his life and mine. What do I do? All though he is insane, I really do have feelings for this guy but I feel as if I cant be with him because of his problems so can anyone help me?
I also feel bad being with him because of our age difference. He's 15 and I'm 17 (but I will be 18 onthe 21st of next month. His birthday isnt until next summer.

2006-12-11 09:45:09 · 3 answers · asked by bdjones_78 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 09:44:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, Well actually , there is a girl in my school, who is really cute and I really like her. and I am also pretty sure that she does'nt have any boyfriend. but she knows a lot of boy, because guys come around her everytime. so my question is that this past 1 week when she sees me in school she gave her cute smile and says hi to me! and I acts like that she wants to say something to me!

SO I would really want to know: that what doest that mean? does she like me? if she does, so why she pick me among those other handsome and "cool" guys?

2006-12-11 09:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by Tim Loves you All! 1 in Singles & Dating

we were to get married this guy and i but he deciced he wanted someone else, now that i have this amazing guy richy, my ex steven whants back in my life and im torn

2006-12-11 09:43:59 · 5 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Singles & Dating

Most of my friends and family act really wierd about the fact that my boyfriend is 32.

My mom is totally against this, but I don't understand why because her and my father were 10 years apart, and she was married at 21.

Does anyone else think this is to much of an age gap?

2006-12-11 09:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by punkrokgrl2 1 in Singles & Dating

get into a dating situation only to back off? One time this guy called me everynight. We started spending time together and learning about each other. After a few months, he just started distancing himself. He had already told me he was feeling stuff but that he didn't want to be attached at the moment.

2006-12-11 09:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

okay this what happened when i started my new job about 9 months ago the only shift i could get was a partime 3-9pm job..while my husband worked 7am -3pm...i saw how stressful it was becoming for my family so as soon i could i changed shifts so we would both be working 7-3 and be home with our son at night and spend more time together...well as soon as i took the 7-3 postion at my job...he found another job making 3 dollars more working 3pm -11pm .....he also plays football every sunday morning and watches it all day sunday until about 5pm......so now i work 7am- 3pm which is what we both agreed to try to do was both be working 7-3 and than he up and took this other job...after some b****ing on my part i got over it because he told me it was temp. and that he was only filling in for someone on meternity leave...so than now that we are the end of those 6weeks he just took some1 elses position snd it's still 3-11...and so all the time we spend together with out shifts is sat evening and

2006-12-11 09:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thing's she a little possesive and we had long and several discussions about trust and telling everything to eachother... she is suspicious all the time abut me, and the mail I've read doesn't prove anything but the fact that she was writing to smbdy and that smbdy sent her a pic... it seems she didn't cheat coz he was ugly as hell. But if he was hot? then what?... what should I do?

2006-12-11 09:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by colodoco's 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have worked with someone for 10 years and then suddenly become attracted to them after all that time because you didn't really know them before?

2006-12-11 09:43:28 · 37 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

I was previously in a high scholl relationship with my ex, we have have already broken up twice and it hasn't even been a month? I recently found out that he was suicidal and that every time a girl breaks up with him he threatens to kill himself and his 1 year old daughter. I also had heard that he might also kill me as well. I didnt believe the rumors until this morning. Every since Thursday he has been trying to get back with me. (We broke up Wednesday.) Today he threatened to jump of the balcony today in the hallway while i was standing right there just to prove his love to me. Luckily he got down before doing so, but I am really scared for his life and mine. What do I do? All though he is insane, I really do have feelings for this guy but I feel as if I cant be with him because of his problems so can anyone help me?
I also feel bad being with him because of our age difference. He's 15 and I'm 17 (but I will be 18 onthe 21st of next month. His birthday isnt until next summer.

2006-12-11 09:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by bdjones_78 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

cuz then i dont want to start talking to her then fall in love with her slowly and then end up breaking up and stay heartbroken for a long time how can i avoid liking somenone

2006-12-11 09:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have very little self esteem its a long story but i truly believe my man loves me he makes plans for the future but this no sex is driving me mad he is a very inteligent man and has a high profile job all his friends are the same i think he gets his stimulation from them i just wonder what he gets from me like i said before we went counselling and it did help we had sex twice in the six months that we went and yes i have wondered if there is someone else i have found things out like he has another mobile number but he said its to do with work i think he does lead another life but its not another woman im sure of that. he just likes his privacy i have thought about getting kinky ect but id be so hurt if he rejected me want to be myself with him and show him this tiger but i have held back for so long im scared wish i could get inside his head. god that was deep eh

2006-12-11 09:42:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i know!? ppl, tell me! tell me if he lyks me by a certain look, by a certain sumthing! becuz he flirtswith me, den he flirts with the other girls AND really acts lyk he dosen't lyk me! den, he acts lyk if he lyks me! idont kno if he really does! how would ikno if he does?

2006-12-11 09:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by elly 1 in Singles & Dating

Now we are out of that hell, but i have not been able to forget anything and i take it up on my husband thinking it was his fault and he let everything happen.His also cheated me after he said he will never have there contacts, and did contact them many times, he thinks it is my problem and i have to face it alone, he hasent told so but has that attitude.i am not able cope up with this. please help me.

2006-12-11 09:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce