We had a conflict over some texts in his cell & he set most of them straight, admitting he was wrong for saying certain things to girls. There's 1 who he's being unclear about & he offered to let me call her (2 shut me up). He claims it's his bros chick & he texted her from my BF's phone, but theres some things said that made it UNMISTAKABLE that it was my BF. He seemed shocked that I wanted to & got all funny acting. He called, she didnt answer. When she called RIGHT back, he picked up said "I'm getting something straight with my girl", & hung up right away. What happened 2 me talking 2 her?!?!? I asked the next day 2 call her again, & he got all defensive, saying "I thought we had a long talk last night 2 get this behind us. What are you worried about? I can see now this never going to die! I'm tired of this." (Keep in mind this is our 1st EVER conflict and we've been a couple for a couple months now, but have been "seeing" each other since Aug(both early 20's). What would you think?
2006-12-11 09:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's acting defensive, he's trying to back you off. Put you on defense, so it will all be your fault and your problem. He's messing with you and probably cheating on you. If he isn't, he's trying to. Dump him and find somebody better.
2006-12-11 09:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get defensive when they are caught out there. He of course is lying about that text. Since you already have proof that he is texting other girls things he shouldn't be why are you hanging on to this last one ? Why did you allow him to talk his way out of the others ?? Even if you get him to do what you want with this last text he will surely talk you into staying as he already did. The guy is doing things behind your back girl. Cut your loses now and move on before your heart gets more involved. Are you going to spend the rest of your time together worried who he is texting ?
2006-12-11 09:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is acting a bit strange, which you can't help but be suspicious. My ex g/f was like that. I think that you let things go, but you keep a sharp eye, now that doesn't mean that you check his phone and be really jealous. Just stay alert and try to let things go, I know when I brought stuff up with my ex, she got defensive and we were in conflict a lot. We were about your age, so I know what you are going through.
2006-12-11 09:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 06:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! You caught him red handed! Of course he's all defensive, he doesn't want to let you know more than you've found out already. Besides, he didn't keep his promise and let you talk to her. He's playing you BIG TIME! He's also sent text to other women that was inappropriate and admitted it. What more evidence to you need? Find someone who is honest and trustworthy cause he NOT IT!
2006-12-11 09:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by grlugo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the number and call her yourself. If he is making such a big deal out of it then there is something to hide, get to the bottom of it quick.
2006-12-11 09:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by AMC615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either has something on the side or you're overanalysing him(partners in a relationship may still wanna have some of their own space too)
2006-12-11 09:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Cooxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive done the same thing....and guess what ??? I was cheating. Its early in the relationship..let him go.
2006-12-11 09:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by sublimeguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt able to let you call her or anything then hes hiding something, and theres no need for him to hide anything if he really cares about you.
2006-12-11 09:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by idontevenknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously cheating on you and she is in on it. he is a really bad liar.
2006-12-11 09:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋