Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

I'm just wondering how many out there have a hard time ending a relationship...even when you know that the guy isn't acting right or treating you like you deserve to be treated? As ashamed as it makes me to say this, i've found that this is the case with me. I will stay in a relationship just because I want it to work so bad and don't want to have to deal with another failed relationship. What has happened in the past, is that I try to make it work and then i'm the one that ends up getting dumped. I try to give my all to my serious relationships but it doesnt seem to be going well and I end up with someone that does right in the very beginning but then later begins to show their true colors. For those of you that know how to say NEXT to a guy that you know isn't doing right, whats your secret? How do I make it easier for me to end a relationship that I know is going nowhere?

2006-12-11 09:58:28 · 12 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Singles & Dating

My 16yr old daughter is dating a proper little plank..Do I leave be and let her see for herself or do something about it

2006-12-11 09:58:22 · 31 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

A guy told me that he liked my French manicure. He said that he has always loved them. He even told me that he might let a girl do his nails like that too, but that he isn't a crossdresser. I think it would look cute on him, and he might look cute as a girl too.

I kinda have a crush on this guy and I'd love to dress him like a girl! what should I do?

2006-12-11 09:57:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica T 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with a guy for 4 years we have got a child together,yet he keeps meeting woman through dating site and keeps on telling me loves me I walk out on him but i really do love him help.

2006-12-11 09:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by amika_m05 1 in Singles & Dating

So we have been dating for almost 2 years. and as of late things have gotten a little sour in our relationship. There are things she says that I need to do in order for it to work, however I have tried 3 times already over the span of our relationship. she says this is our 4th time going through with this... and she is giving me another opporatunity. Over christmas break i will be with her for two weeks, and she says that I have to prove to her that things will work. What do you suggest I do?

Fancy Dinner?
Help her as much as I can?

2006-12-11 09:57:32 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

okayy, so there`s a really cute boy named jake @ my school & pretty much ALL the girls like him so how do i compete with that !? its mostly all pretty girls too. jake actually likes me back though! :D but still, i feel like he has all these girls liking him & its getting harder for me to grasp him. :( help?

& why do guys like more than one girl?
he`s the ONLY guy i like,
why can`t i be the only girl he likes?

2006-12-11 09:57:25 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

well i have a small crush on this guy who is totally cute but hes bi. He recently broke up with this GUY for me. Hes very cool to be around and he can be feminine which makes me feel A LOT more comfortable around him....but my friends told me NOT to go 4 it because he can cheat on me and they know he will...but he made so much effort to see me these past few weeks and he already got into a physical fight 4 me afoter only knwing him for 2 weeks. But I dont know what to do...I got him to break up with someone for me. (well...he decided to) How do I get him to be serious with me????? what do I do???? HELP!

2006-12-11 09:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?

Additional Details

5 hours ago
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor

2006-12-11 09:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

So, my 13 y/o son had his girlfriend over to watch a movie. I was upstairs for about 15 minutes, and when I came back down, they were making out? I don't think he noticed I was their either. Should I do anything, or is this normal?

2006-12-11 09:55:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 09:55:22 · 4 answers · asked by Me ★ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:55:13 · 9 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:54:52 · 37 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

im pretty but i don't think anyone likes me but i don't want to change what should i do?

2006-12-11 09:54:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:53:53 · 16 answers · asked by op3nsilence 1 in Friends

Every year my sisters and I get together with our mother and do the "pulling of names" and buy gifts for everyones children.Well this year I would just like to have a simple gathering without all the have too's. Am I wrong to want this? Isn't the meaning twisted and entertwined with how one stores sales are up or down?

2006-12-11 09:52:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-11 09:51:49 · 19 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I have living with this guy for three years and engaged for one of those years. In the very beginning, he was terrific in bed. Then, slowly, the foreplay started to become less and less until one day ( at the eight month mark) we didn't have sex for two months. Ever since then I usually have to initiate and when I do he rejects me nine times out of ten with excuses like - I ate too much, my stomache hurts, I'm tired...ect. If he actually does want to, he just lies there and says I should just hop on top and I get no foreplay! I haven't been pleased in 2 and half years! I have mentioned this to him repeadedly and I have not seen any changes. He says I don't need foreplay - but I do. Also, he says I don't initiate - but I do! And when I do he has even said at times - 'oh that's a lame way of initiating!' and says I should give him foreplay if I want some. Is he trying to say I suck in bed? I also noticed he spends alot of time with a male friend. Gay? Is it me?

2006-12-11 09:51:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend lets just call her Jessy. Well Jessy and I used to go out and it just did't work out so we broke up. I had and still have a crush on another girl, lets call her Jane, but she refuses to tell me if she likes me or not? So basically my penis is taking over and I was just in need of adice because I like Jessy for her looks but Jane has descent looks but that is not why i like her. But as I figure it she is still to immature to commit so I will probably never hook up with her. So basically I am 16 horny as hell and don't know what to do.

2006-12-11 09:51:14 · 35 answers · asked by fallenminion09 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which of the following statements from the article best describes Sarah Lanier's attitude toward life?

A "For the first time since she resolved to rescue her husband, Sarah began to have doubts about her sceme".

B "Sobbing, Sarah ran to her husband."

C "She would not sit idle while Andrew suffered in a northern jail".

2006-12-11 09:50:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes been marrying me for 6yrs we have 2 kids, and hes baught the rings which I think are just for display. I love him but I think its time he made a committment. We own a house a car and we are happy except for the wedding that never happens.

I have now given him an ultimatum that if it does not happen then its over. Did I do the right thing?

2006-12-11 09:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by antoinette c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello. I have living with this guy for three years and engaged for one of those years. In the very beginning, he was terrific in bed. Then, slowly, the foreplay started to become less and less until one day ( at the eight month mark) we didn't have sex for two months. Ever since then I usually have to initiate and when I do he rejects me nine times out of ten with excuses like - I ate too much, my stomache hurts, I'm tired...ect. If he actually does want to, he just lies there and says I should just hop on top and I get no foreplay! I haven't been pleased in 2 and half years! I have mentioned this to him repeadedly and I have not seen any changes. He says I don't need foreplay - but I do. Also, he says I don't initiate - but I do! And when I do he has even said at times - 'oh that's a lame way of initiating!' and says I should give him foreplay if I want some. Is he trying to say I suck in bed? I also noticed he spends alot of time with

2006-12-11 09:50:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, well I have a boyfriend we been together for about a month. Like two months ago a i met this guy and we been talking ever since. well the guy i met two months ago lives in a different city bout 45 min. away from where i live. We probly hanged out twice. (when i was still single) Anyywayz we talk on the phone every nite and we flirt alot he dosent know i have a boyfriend. But my ? is im i cheating on my boyfriend for flirting with another guy?

2006-12-11 09:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by Me ★ 1 in Singles & Dating

when a guy says : "im emonalty attatched"

2006-12-11 09:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Rai F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 09:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by cornholyo 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm definately an as*s man. what about you? ladies, which of these do you usually get the most compliments on?

2006-12-11 09:49:45 · 14 answers · asked by NYC Girl! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by dennisj 1 in Singles & Dating

In the days of Eden Adam went up to God and said "God, I am lonely" so God being the nice guy that he is says "I can make you a companion, a female, she will cook, clean, be obedient, be loyal, have an adequate sex drive, all it will cost is an arm and a leg"

To this Adam replies "...what can I get for a rib?" , and the rest is history.

Lmfao

2006-12-11 09:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 09:48:48 · 5 answers · asked by diamond_mlb 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Two boy questions here. One, theres this really creepy guy that likes me at school, he follows me to every one of my classes, tried to make corny conversation with me, and is the ugliest guy on the planet. How do I get rid of him w/o being mean to him(see, he cries a lot, so if i say right to his face that i dont like hiem, he'll cry and everyone will hate me) and the other one is, I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too, but im not sure. hes cute and funny and loves to laugh, and he talks to me a lot, i like him, and i dont know if he likes me likes me, or just as a friend. how do i ask him? boy problems are the dumps

2006-12-11 09:48:05 · 3 answers · asked by andHallelujah. 2 in Singles & Dating