Hello. I have living with this guy for three years and engaged for one of those years. In the very beginning, he was terrific in bed. Then, slowly, the foreplay started to become less and less until one day ( at the eight month mark) we didn't have sex for two months. Ever since then I usually have to initiate and when I do he rejects me nine times out of ten with excuses like - I ate too much, my stomache hurts, I'm tired...ect. If he actually does want to, he just lies there and says I should just hop on top and I get no foreplay! I haven't been pleased in 2 and half years! I have mentioned this to him repeadedly and I have not seen any changes. He says I don't need foreplay - but I do. Also, he says I don't initiate - but I do! And when I do he has even said at times - 'oh that's a lame way of initiating!' and says I should give him foreplay if I want some. Is he trying to say I suck in bed? I also noticed he spends alot of time with
2006-12-11 09:50:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So why are you still with him? You would marry a man who you already know is not interested in you sexually?
2006-12-11 09:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why are you still with this loser? You need sexual fulfilment, he's not giving it to you, if you really don't want to leave him then at least find some other guy to shag, a guy who gets it up whenever you want it and who understands the need for foreplay. It's only what you deserve!
2006-12-11 09:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kango Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent been pleased in 2 and a half years!
you want some pleasing??? I don't mind if you bad in bed :)
2006-12-11 10:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry for u!!!
2006-12-11 09:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋