Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?
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5 hours ago
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor
2006-12-11 09:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it hurts. It hurts because:
(a) You really like this girl
and
(b) Your best friend didn't keep his word.
Sounds like the girl has been as honest with you as she can be for a girl who doesn't know the ropes. She said she didn't like you that way, but she wants to be your friend. Straight up, huh? However, your friend didn't treat you fairly at all. You have every right to be upset about this.
One of the hardest lessons in life is learning you can't do anything about what other people do - I had a lot of trouble with that one, myself. All you can do is try to control the way you react. Grieve in private and play it cool in public. You never know how long their little relationship will last. Be friendly with them in a casual way and try to spend time with other friends for a while. When she's free again, she'll remember you handled yourself with style and dignity.
Be strong and good luck!
2006-12-11 10:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cydara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is realize that you are only 15 years old and none of this is going to really matter for the majority of your life. Your going to get your heart broke some times. That's okay. Just keep in mind that you will meet someone else who is going to make you happy, and then this whole thing will seem a lot less important. Also, don't let this ruin your friendships with either of these people. They are young just like you, and are trying to learn about life. Nothing they are doing is intended to hurt you, so you shouldn't hold it against them. True friendship is one of the greatest things in life, so don't throw it away over hormones and youthful curiosity.
2006-12-11 10:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by TDog13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off shes to young try not to worry having a friendship with her is better then nothing. Start looking for another girl when she sees you with someone else her feelings may change when you spend more time with another person instead of her. Besides your life is just beginning you will probely have alot of other girls to choose from besides her. Who knows she may be the jealous type.
2006-12-11 10:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cheezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend how you feel. At least then he'll know you're upset.
If you don't want to "drop them"....I suggest doing your very best to move on from the situation. Stop thinking about her & him and find your own new girlfriend.
There are so many other girls out in the world...why concentrate on the one that likes your friend and not you??
2006-12-11 09:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 15 yr old kid
These 2 are not good people for they both broke your heart so I would not casually see them for awhile sit in another pew and know someday you will meet a girl that will be as crazy for you as you are for her
2006-12-11 09:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing probly to do is just not hang around them for a while like 2 months after a while they will probley break up and everything wil get back to normal and you could maybe find a better girl your age
2006-12-11 10:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one your best friend can't be your best friend..."best friends" don't stab you in in the back.
maybe your girl friend isn't ready for a serious relationship... you did say she was just learning the ropes..that being the case maybe she needs more time to realize her feelings about what she wants.....try to give her time by just being her friend, that way you can still be her friend and good friends are hard to come by and are worth millions when you can find one.
2006-12-11 10:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by lm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the EXACT same problem. I wanted to answer before, but I don't really know... I can't say move on because I know what it's like... good luck. If you figure it out tell me, man.
2006-12-11 09:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you please stop giving me the ones kitty cat eyes? You don't seem to be getting your treats. I do not care how so much or for a way lengthy you beg. You don't seem to be getting them. Puss in boots, I'm critical. How would I be imply to that face?
2016-09-03 08:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhh i think im gonna cry thats sad ask her out and ask him if u can still be friends or if he doesnt suggest a 3 way ya know all goin out cept its hard for sex,trust me.sides dont have sex till ur over 16 theres a law!
2006-12-11 10:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋