Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

How do I tell my husban, whom we have 2 kids together, that I am no longer in love with him or want to be with him any more? It's not really fair cause any time we have had figths, he was always the one to deside the out come of our relationship, wheather he wanted to stay or leave. Now I am so sick of of waiting for him to deside what he really wants that I feel like I've moved on, and don't have "those feelings" for him any more.He shouldn't be the only one to deside what happens with our marrige, and I hate that I give him that kind of power over me... not any more.

2006-12-11 10:35:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know if its alright to feel this way. I do not enjoy sex with him, I am bored to go out with him. We usually go out in groups to avoid the boredom of just the two of us. He is a very unenthusiastic person! I dont know what I should do about this!
My libido before marriage was soo good. Now its like "Oh its just him and whats so exciting about him touching me" kind of a feeling. Its not intense or wild or imaginative! Its just the same old person! Sometime I feel I am the kind of person who likes to have sex with many men. Whats happening to us! WHats happening to me! Do you experience the same thing!

2006-12-11 10:35:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

today in class the guys were talking about who would be a cute couple in the class and the guy that i like (&he kinda acts like he likes me) were said to be a good couple
he didnt say anything to that (he sits behind me and so i couldnt see his facial expression)
but then my other guy friend was helping me and so he came to sit with me and then he(the guy i like) came over and was sorta fighting with him about helping me and the grl that sits in front of me was like i think u like her cuz u r definitly fighting over helping her...and he said "yeah i definitely love her(he said my name but im not telling u that)?!?"
do u think he could like me and just be to nervous to say anything?

2006-12-11 10:34:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have feeling for him too but although he is professional most of the time and is very official sometimes he would say things like
he misses talking to me or
he wants to see me smile or that
I could chat with him whenever i want

i know he cares especially because i am having a hard time in a new country but I wonder? What do you think ?

2006-12-11 10:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have gone on 5 "dates" including most recently Prom. We danced exclusively together at prom and have shared hugs and held hands, although I have chickened out of kissing her so far. We talk on the phone frequently. The only things that make me wonder is that when I asked her if we were technically bf/gf after like the second date, she didn't really answer. She also never calls me,unless she is returning my call and whenever we do go out, we inevitably end up with all her friends there. I have told her that it didn't matter if her friends were around when she asked one time. Also on the first "date" it seemed that as we left the restaurant, her friends stayed behind to leave us a few moments to ourselves.

2006-12-11 10:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Grizzly UM 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex when he is online with hotmail messerger i say hey whats up and he says Omfg shut ur face up . and he blocks me how should i handle this i still like him

2006-12-11 10:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by babieblue1980 2 in Singles & Dating

we used to go out and he cheated on me but i still like him and he
still likes me and he told me but he's going out with one of my friends and he thinks he needs to make up for what he did and he's supposed to break up with her but if he lies to me and said he did but he really didn't i don't want to go through again what i already have

2006-12-11 10:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 10:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by M A R I A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You don't see your boyfriend/ girlfriend as often as you would like, they have a controlling mother even though they are already man enough to stand up to her although she has him/ her threatned with not paying school, eliminating him from the family and everything else, he/she seems to be stressed but no action is being done to do something about it. besides it being obvious he / she is a momma's girl/boy. you are in love with this person and can't see your future with anyone else, when you are together you enjoy each others time and its unbelievable. what would you do? would you stay, wait, leave? i need a specific reason please and personal experience would help also. thank you.

2006-12-11 10:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that Larger ladies cant get a white man . If youre a bit bigger than anoerxic then you can only get a black man and he only wants you cos he likes a bit of junk in the trunk . Whats the deal white men larger ladies are much better than those unhealthy looking skinny birds who look like they need a BIG MAC .....

2006-12-11 10:30:52 · 19 answers · asked by C 3 in Singles & Dating

Like bisexual women?

2006-12-11 10:29:25 · 26 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1 in Singles & Dating

you know what i mean...

2006-12-11 10:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I found out my best friend hasn't been eating! It was terrible! I told her crush cuz he likes her back and she totally flipped! I love her like a sister and I don't want her to go anerexic! She is mad at me and I hate it! What should I do?

2006-12-11 10:28:35 · 17 answers · asked by Doodles14 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really really don't want or need a kid right now

2006-12-11 10:28:34 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this midnight thing at my church and my dad wants me to go but I don't know if I want to.

2006-12-11 10:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-11 10:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok here's the deal. i'm married, 23 years old with two children,and for some reason my grandma and husband think i need to get a toyota mini van for safety. i would definetly drive one if that's all i had or something, but to go out and buy a van by choice? i refuse!i have a 4 runner and am perfectly fine with it. do you guys agreee?aren't vans ugly to anyone but me?

2006-12-11 10:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by adi23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl and me have n=know each other for about a year now. We have the smae major in college and spend alot of time together studying. Recently we have gone out a few times. Now she does not have a boyfriend or anything and says she doesn't want one right now. When we are together we can talk for hours and not even realize it. I want to let her knwo how a feel but I dont want to ruin the friendship we have. We have the same major and if things dont go right we have to see each other about everyday for the next year and that may be wierd. We have tons in common and to the point were she calls us the "twins". Do I tell her and risk the chance of ruining our friebdship or wait and she how things pan out in the future. I always seem to make the wrong move of things like this. So for the first time in my life I am seeking some advice. Because truly this girl seems perfect to me and I just dont know what to do.

2006-12-11 10:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by biotech1 1 in Singles & Dating

So I meet this guy and we dated for about a month. While I would say that we both were very nervous the whole time, things were going good. He told me he liked me a lot but he was worried that our cultures might clash. (He's a big city slicker and I am a county girl) However we had the same family values. He also to me that I had rare qualties that he really liked and he said he was bummed to end things. A few days later we had the pregancy scared which wasn't there (THANK GOD). My question is this... after then end result of the pregancy thing he told me not to ever contact him again. Fine, but why is he now going out of his way to carry on and create converdations with my mom? They have worked together for 3 years and have only said hi in the past? What should I do?

2006-12-11 10:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by Delicious D 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 2 months.. thanx

2006-12-11 10:27:10 · 8 answers · asked by bkekcc 3 in Singles & Dating

probably i dont stimulate his mind im not intelligent enough for him dont quite know what i do for him and what qaulities i have only that im a good looking woman and an excellent cook his words not mine then why doesnt he want me in the bedroom

2006-12-11 10:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I bring flowers and a card?

2006-12-11 10:27:04 · 3 answers · asked by ariesmegs 2 in Friends

2006-12-11 10:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband will do things I ask of him but that’s all. It’s almost like I’m his mother. He will let the laundry pile up and won’t take it upon himself to do it eventhough he doesn’t have any clean socks.

Am I living in a fantasy world where I expect my husband to be pro-active?

2006-12-11 10:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Summer 4 in Family

isnt ok with it because hes worried about a new man in my life after being my dad for over 10 years any suggestions to what i should do?

2006-12-11 10:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by clayton a 2 in Family

There is this guy I really like, his name is Mike, and my best friend said I should kiss him after school tomarrow. Should I?

2006-12-11 10:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i told my boyfriend in a letter today about how my parents felt about dating and that was like a break-up letter rite so now my parents just had another talk today with me and now told me i could date so basically i already broke up with him from the letter i wrote and know i want him back how do i get him back HELP ME

2006-12-11 10:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?

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5 hours ago
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor

2006-12-11 10:21:26 · 15 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

and has a clear title(paid for) it is in my husband's name only and it runs very good, the other car is a 2000 and runs well but we just got it 10 mths ago, so it has over 3 yrs til its paid for ($265 payment) its in my husbands name and 1 of MY relatives co-signed for it. My husband has offered to sign over the title to the '94 car to me so that it would be mine with no payments. He wants to keep the 2000 car and make the payments. I really can't afford the payments anyway...but my relative doesn't want to give over the 2000 car, he's worried about HIS credit, he wants my husband to refinance...I feel I don't really have any legal right to either one and should take the '94. And my lawyer said its almost impossible to refinance, even if u have great credit(which my husband doesn't) My question, should my relative have anything to do with how the divorce papers are written up(dealing with the cars) and what would u do? Take the '94 or fight for the 2000?

2006-12-11 10:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa Bee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you talk to him?

2006-12-11 10:19:48 · 4 answers · asked by neecee85 1 in Singles & Dating