probably i dont stimulate his mind im not intelligent enough for him dont quite know what i do for him and what qaulities i have only that im a good looking woman and an excellent cook his words not mine then why doesnt he want me in the bedroom
2006-12-11 10:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It probably has nothing to do with you. Each of us have our own libado, and his may be lower than yours. Did he want you more times in the past than now? Has there been a problem between you two, that he may resent you? Being a good looking woman and a good cook could apply to anyone, even his mother or sister. Is there more to the relationship, or something going on that you are unable to face? But don't blame your intellegence or mind. That would have been discovered when you two first met. There is more going on under the surface; be a detective, if it is worth it, and find out what has changed between the two of you, not just with you. Two in the relationship means both look at what is going on in that relationship; it is never one-sided.
2006-12-11 10:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants a trophy to show off but he doesn't want to do the work to maintain the trophy. So you're a good cook and he's intelligent. What makes you think you aren't intelligent? You can be pretty and intelligent you know!
If he doesn't want you in the bedroom, have you asked him why? Maybe he's intimidate by your good looks or he doesn't feel he looks good enough for you. Talk about it. If he doesn't want to communicate then he's not as intelligent as you think he is.
2006-12-11 10:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by grlugo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because some people are happy with going along with what they are told, and others try and make there own judgement AND conclusion on a specific matter. Also i guess all people are analyzing most of the time, just on different matters and depth levels. Example a thug might be analyzing how tuff the next man is when the next man might be analyzing what the thugs motivation is and if he has any intrest in peace
2016-05-23 06:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a very arrogant thing for someone to say. Was this coming from someone you have been intimate with? Or someone you have a crush on? If it is someone you have been with leave him alone. And if it is someone you would like to be with move on and leave him alone. Seems as though he is lacking respect. And he is not very intelligent or he would have come up with a more creative and sensitive way of telling you. He is probably gay and doesn't have a scrotum large enough to be honest with you. God bless****
2006-12-11 10:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be insecure. Insecurity is your real problem here. Go cook something delicious and put on something hot, then tell him he is in for some lovin'!
2006-12-11 10:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's gay? Depressed? If he doesnt want you, just move on for heavens sake, why are you even stressing about it? You know your fit so find someone who agrees!
2006-12-11 10:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Tallulah♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him...no mind readers here, sorry. If it's not working out for the two of you, then move on.
2006-12-11 10:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you stimulate something other than his mind!
2006-12-11 10:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't fancy you. Not nice - but probably true.
Don't waste your time on him and look for someone new!
At least he didn't use you for sex!!
2006-12-11 10:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
em, and your with him because..........?
He sounds like a Moron!
Does he stimulate your mind?
Get away froom him if he is telling you you are dumb and also not being intimate!
2006-12-11 10:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋