You don't see your boyfriend/ girlfriend as often as you would like, they have a controlling mother even though they are already man enough to stand up to her although she has him/ her threatned with not paying school, eliminating him from the family and everything else, he/she seems to be stressed but no action is being done to do something about it. besides it being obvious he / she is a momma's girl/boy. you are in love with this person and can't see your future with anyone else, when you are together you enjoy each others time and its unbelievable. what would you do? would you stay, wait, leave? i need a specific reason please and personal experience would help also. thank you.
2006-12-11 10:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can determine how long you want to wait until he/she is able to be mature enough to make his own decisions for his life. Mom has more power right now because of the school, etc. and he isn't in a position to give up everything for you right now. Give it time, if that is what you want to do, but keep on living your own life. Get so wonderful with your life and interests that you will be appealing to many others, and focus on what YOU want from life, not what you want from him/her. You have nothing to lose by concentrating on your own life, and who knows, he may come around sooner than you think. Or not! But if you are on the right track with your own life none of what he does will matter. He/she may come back, and you will be so mature and enjoying your new life that you won't want him/her. Good luck. Life is wonderful; grab it and enjoy.
2006-12-11 10:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still needs his mother to pay for school or anything else he's not really a man yet.
She holds the purse-strings which means she's in charge like it or not.
Wait until he's finished growing up and then make a decision about the future.
2006-12-11 18:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...the solution is easy to say but difficult to do. Something similar happened to me and I told my boyfriend that because I wanted what was best for him, I thought we should take a break. We were still friends and even though I didn't want to be just that, we were. Eventually he finished school, but we didn't get back together. We are now good friends and he is still single, but we are both happy. Your situation may be a little different, but you need to figure out what's best for you both. Good luck!
2006-12-11 18:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by **** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get a good paying job if you are old ebough and rent your own apartmant then you two could see each other more but if you cant then i dont think it would be worth haveing a realtionship as hard ias it would be i would just have to break up beacuse i couldent see them very much
2006-12-11 18:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like the same boat i am in with my gf of 2 yrs her mother is very mean to her and her mom has very bad mood swings i dont know what to do about it either my gf has even mentioned suicide because of it and i know that if we werent going out or if we were to break up she woulld definitely be dead
2006-12-11 18:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by #1 joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out a way to tell their mom that they are way too overprotective. That way, she'll cool off a little and you can enjoy your time together.
2006-12-11 18:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by whatevbookwrm687 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with one of the other post(forgot the name)he ain't no man, let him grow up then make ur informed decision.
2006-12-11 18:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cooxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋