This girl and me have n=know each other for about a year now. We have the smae major in college and spend alot of time together studying. Recently we have gone out a few times. Now she does not have a boyfriend or anything and says she doesn't want one right now. When we are together we can talk for hours and not even realize it. I want to let her knwo how a feel but I dont want to ruin the friendship we have. We have the same major and if things dont go right we have to see each other about everyday for the next year and that may be wierd. We have tons in common and to the point were she calls us the "twins". Do I tell her and risk the chance of ruining our friebdship or wait and she how things pan out in the future. I always seem to make the wrong move of things like this. So for the first time in my life I am seeking some advice. Because truly this girl seems perfect to me and I just dont know what to do.
2006-12-11 10:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by biotech1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never a bad thing to tell someone you think they are perfect. If she is a good friend she will understand. She may not respond and you have to be prepared for her to say "I like you, but not that way. Can we just be friends?" If you think you can handle that if it comes to it then tell her how you feel.
2006-12-11 10:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one man!
The thing is that girls are weird like this......they can actually have cool guy friends and not be interested in taking it any further, but if she is attracted to you physically u may have a shot at it.
try to find out if she is atrracted to you. Do u guys flirt sometimes or is it strictly a friendship? If u think that there is a physical attraction be slick one of these days and plant a small kiss on her lips! It sounds crazy, but c how she reacts and go from there. U can always say that it was an instinctive move and u dont know what came over you if she is unpleasantly shocked.
Worked for me. :)
Good luck....let me know if u try it. U gotta be brave though! Girls dont want to be with guys that dont take risks.
2006-12-11 18:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by sublimeguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude tell her how you feel and if yall are good friends then you all wont break up just say that i really like you dont be to out there but let her know what you feel
2006-12-11 18:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by #1 joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that she is the one then there is no rush --- let the relationship mature and see what happens --- if things go well you will see her every day for a year
2006-12-11 18:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer u wait the less chance of having a deeper relationship with her.
2006-12-11 18:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋