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Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?

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5 hours ago
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor

Me: well..idk...what to say.......i was mad at austin... i wasnt in no way mad at you...I was happy for you, cuz you were happy...but i was mad at austin..cuz he told me ...he would never do that, date you, because he didnt wanna hurt me, cuz he knew I liked you...and on top of that...hes such a player.. i mean hes dated every single girl ive ever liked, he makes everyone feel srry for him...idk..it just really kinda made me mad..because..he dated anna, ( i liked her)..i liked hannah..( hannah told me last nite tha she likes him)..hayley ..likes him..and now you...i liked you........hes got girls from carroll all over him...hes not over anna..and it just kinda brought it bac for me...idk.......i dont wanna c you get hurt...cuz i know austin, and know he likes you,but..idk. write back
her: because i just know you and didn't wnat you to stop talking to me or anything since you've just now starting doing that in the first place.you were mad last night i could tell.
Me: -well, wh

above is the conversation me and her had..i know its long but please take the time to read and tell me if whay I said was stupid

Answer 1

Just ignore both of them and see what will happen...don't worry man..maybe she's tryin to make u jealous ..Just act like u don't care..

Answer 2

The girl was honest with you that she doesn't feel the same way you do. Your friend sounds like a jerk because he promised you not to go out with her and then he did go out with her. However, she is fair game since she's not involved with anyone and she's not lied about being interested in you romantically.
You need to move on to find someone who can appreciate what you have to offer. This girl seems like a really good friend because she was honest and did not lie to save your feelings from getting hurt. Now that's a true friend. If you can not be just friends with her then you need to back off until you can accept this situation for what it is...just friends.
Talk to your best friend who's your neighbor about how his going out with her when he knew how you felt has really hurt you. Try to talk this out with him. You may need some time out from both of these friendships until you can accept what has happened.

Answer 3

I know it will be hard to drop them but your friend should not have dated her out of respect for you. Friendship means much more than any girl or guy. I think you should tell him that you are really hurt that he is going out with her after he knew how you felt about her. If you don't wanna lose a friendship over this girl then your going to have to put aside your feelings of anger and say to yourself I know what he did was wrong but our friendship is more important to me and I have to put this in the past. But I would let him know that you hurt over the situation. Don't worry about it you will find someone else who you will like and they will feel the same way about you because you are still very young and have a lot more of life to experience. Good luck to you!

Answer 4

I know it's hard to accept things like this. It will put a big strain on the relationship you have with both of these people. How selfish of them to still get together when you told both of them how you feel! That's a cause for concern with your guy friend because even though you weren't going out with the girl he told you he wouldn't do that to you. Think if he likes one of your girlfriends later on in life...I can't tell you to be happy for them and pretend like everything is normal because this just seems wrong to me. What can you do though? They were attracted to each other so they forgot about you and wanted to take the risk of losing you as a friend. I bet they want you to act like nothing is wrong with this, but how can you ignore that? Maybe you should take a break from both of them to clear your head and sort out if either of them is worth salvaging a friendship with.

Answer 5

You are just infatuated with the girl it invovles imagining you'd die to save her and do anything for her and that there's no one else in the world for you and your friends a lying jerk who just said that to make you feel better and this girl may or may not know that you should just stay friends because relationships will all end anyway people arn't even who they will be for the rest of their lives till their early twenties so don't rush it to know that your infatuated with this girl if somone else came along that suddenly seemed really great and was all into you suddenly this one would seem not so great and you'd want her

Answer 6

AWWWW wow! Im speechless that is terrible...and before i answer i just want to let u know that i am very sorry....But the best thing to do is act like it doesn't bother u and try to hang out with other people...not alot but just enough so u can attempt to get ur mind off of it!~!~! Oh yea im 15 so i can relate!!!
Best of luck!~!~!

Answer 7

move on and forget them both...u cant make anyone fall for u and if 2 ppl like eachother u cant keep them apart cauz things didnt turn out ur way.....everyone suffers from being rejected at some point in life, it wont be easy but u will move on and find someone else

Answer 8

omg r u serious well you should tell him that u really had feelings for this girl and it hurts and if he is a real friend he will tell her that he cant date her anymore and you tell them that you didnt mean for anyone to get hurt. and if he says who cares about how you feel then he is no good as a friend email me at [e-mail] and tell me how it goes make the subject how it went so i wont delete it. GOOD LUCK!
~marie~

Answer 9

Dump the friend and forget the girl! there are more girls in the world! And if he was ur real friend, he woulda kept his word! My name is MadameLoveHeart, fortuneteller of LOVE!! visit my site if you wish. funtigo.com/soulmatefinder. anyway the girl may be beautiful but so are many other grls in this world. And the boy wuz NVR ur friend!!

Answer 10

well u sould maybe talk about it to them and if they don't really care then they are not really good friends. but if they do understand you tow can still have that kind of relationship and be good friends. but u also have to know she is 13 and u r 15 its kind of wrong but just as long as she has the same feelings