I have a friend lets just call her Jessy. Well Jessy and I used to go out and it just did't work out so we broke up. I had and still have a crush on another girl, lets call her Jane, but she refuses to tell me if she likes me or not? So basically my penis is taking over and I was just in need of adice because I like Jessy for her looks but Jane has descent looks but that is not why i like her. But as I figure it she is still to immature to commit so I will probably never hook up with her. So basically I am 16 horny as hell and don't know what to do.
2006-12-11 09:51:14 · 35 answers · asked by fallenminion09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take matters into your own hands...in the privacy of your room.
A sexual relationship is too special to just go and do it with a friend. I'm not saying you should wait until you're married, but it certainly is something to save for someone you truly, madly, deeply love and who feels the same way about you.
Sure, it would be "fun" to get your rocks off, but it could also be dangerous. When you have sex with someone, you're having sex with EVERYone they've ever had sex with. These days that could mean contracting HIV/AIDS which is still incurable. There are also a range of other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) which are no fun to get (gonorrhea, syphillis, genital herpes, genital warts...to name but a few!). Barrier contraceptives can help lessen the likelihood of catching something. But condoms can (and do) break or come off and then you risk infection.
Sorry to rain or your parade. But, as I said, there are things you can do to keep your penis happy which don't involve such risks.
Good luck!
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2015-09-24 09:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it with Jessy just because you have the urge to do it. Exercise some more self control and keep a good friendship. The right person will come along when the time is right. Meanwhile, there are other ways to rid yourself of sexual tension.
2006-12-11 09:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, chill.
If you hook up with Jessy, Jane might not like it.
Your 16. I am sure you know how to "take care" of yourself.
2006-12-11 09:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your not sure,,,,then you just answered your own question. Get a book and go to the bathroom if that is all it is. You must be sure of feelings before that second stp and yes that is what it is a second step is taken to sleep together. Because once you go there it is no way to go back to being just friends..good luck.
Please practice safe sex.
2006-12-11 09:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by txblueeyes 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're asking this question, then your not ready to do it yet. Remember, every 16 yr old boy is horny as hell & that doesn't mean they all have sex. Wait until your emotional ready too - sex is way special, don't make you're first time a booty call.
2006-12-11 09:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jean 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
put your penis back in your pants and your head in your books you are still a baby that thinks he's grown whats wrong with you people r u ready for the responsibilities that come along with sex
2006-12-11 09:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by pyeface26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool. Other synonyms for your lack of respect for the female anatomy and immaturity come to mind, but it's much easier to call you stupid.
You're too young to be having sex. Just masturbate.
2006-12-11 09:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
wak off pal. Get some more porn material. It is better to have a pervert stash than to cheat on the girl you want to commit to.
2006-12-11 09:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by rezruf 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, go with Jessy. You can't wait on one girl forever unless you want to friggin marry her. If this chick wants to have some fun and is mature enough for that, go ahead, unless your gonna feel bad doing it.
2006-12-11 09:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋